So he''s moving in with her..

My ex told me two days before Christmas that he''s moving in with the ow and after a day of crying and a night of not sleeping I actually feel ok. I feel like this roller coster is coming to the end. The ow lives over the road with her three children but she''s going to rent her place out and and they are going to rent out a massive house elsewhere. That means no more looking out the window, no more wondering what is going on with them two, they are together and now she can put up with his moodiness, her kids are now his problem and his financial mess is now hers. I''m not happy about my two small children spending so much time with her but I will get used to it like everything else. I had thought they''d just plod along forever with him not committing but I think it''s given me a kind of way to close that door for sure and move on with my life. So good luck to them... Bring on 2016!! Happy new year everybody it does get easier honest..

Well done you. The move in with ow is another hurdle, and yes it takes you down but then it''s done and if it works out for them, well how bl***y annoying and if it falls apart after a while, hey his rubbish is no longer your problem - rather satisfying though I should imagine. Now your life is all about you, decisions yours to make, and that is rather nice too. So I second your celebration with bells and whistles too.

And just to add to that she is rather ugly and I''m looking hot after losing 3 stone in weight. So let''s see if I can find myself a proper man!!

Go girl.

You sound so strong. Believe me it does get much better

Thank you!! Xx

You are amazing, keep up the great work. Please make sure you wait for a proper man, they are few and far between but im sure it will be worth the wait.
Best of everything you wish for. xx

Thank you! I will can''t see it happening for a while anyway but we''ll see. I''m getting on ok on my own anyway. Who needs a man xx just bumped into the ow at the leasure centre. I can''t get away from her arrrggh