So he''s moving in with her..

My ex told me two days before Christmas that he''s moving in with the ow and after a day of crying and a night of not sleeping I actually feel ok. I feel like this roller coster is coming to the end. The ow lives over the road with her three children but she''s going to rent her place out and and they are going to rent out a massive house elsewhere. That means no more looking out the window, no more wondering what is going on with them two, they are together and now she can put up with his moodiness, her kids are now his problem and his financial mess is now hers. I''m not happy about my two small children spending so much time with her but I will get used to it like everything else. I had thought they''d just plod along forever with him not committing but I think it''s given me a kind of way to close that door for sure and move on with my life. So good luck to them... Bring on 2016!! Happy new year everybody it does get easier honest..

It will get easier!

My ex through us all into turmoil when he moved in with his OW. That lasted about 3 years and then he moved out to his own flat (but still saw OW). After a few more break-ups he''s now going out with someone else and gave me some guff about how "she''s the one" (which is what he said about the first OW!". So he dumped me and our sons and then was thrilled to play daddy to first OW''s kids and now he''s dumped them too.

While he''s going his merry way I get on with my life, which is so much better than it was before!

You will find you''re in a better place in 2016 too.

Yes I can''t see how it will ever work with her 3 kids and him. He''s the most selfish and moddy person I know. I think he''ll end up spending her money then doing the same to her, although this is a nice thought, to be honest as long as he''s with her, he''ll have enough money to pay me evey month and the kids will be settled. But we''ll see. I''m sure he''ll find another one too and start to resent her in some way...... But we''ll see in time. Maybe he''s changed and they''ll get married and live happily ever after. ...... Lol