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Love of his life? Ha don''t make me laugh

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Furball
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24 Jan 12 #308157 by Furball

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So he was always going to leave me, even if I hadn''t found out, but was going to wait 2 years. She was the love of his life and worth leaving me and our 4 year old to be with. And it was all my fault it came to an end because I contacted her and put her off him by telling her he was still married to me - a fact he hadn''t relayed to her.
Heart broken?
Depressed?
Lost without her?

6 months on and he is dating someone else!

So that lasted a long time then didn''t it.

[read with sarcasm] Ha ha ha ha ha

Young again
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26 Jan 12 #308527 by Young again

Reply from Young again

Hi Furball,

Your stbx isn''t the first nor the last to behave this way. Unfortunately some people get such a buzz from an affair that they lose the ability to think rationally. They think this is being "in love".

It''s not being in love, it''s partially being in lust but primarily it''s being different.

All things change, the trick is to get them to change for the better.

Best wishes,

YA

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