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I've ruined my life

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16 Aug 08 #40607 by Matt/24/7
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hiya lsot

You say the fogs "lifted" but do you know why you dronk "drank" in the first place?

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16 Aug 08 #40608 by Lsot1
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Dronk 'drank'....?? please elaborate. Not sure I know what you mean

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16 Aug 08 #40609 by Matt/24/7
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i was asking you if you figured out why you drank in the first place, and dont be so pedantic, it was a typo. If this is the same attitude you show your close ones, no wonder your alone

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16 Aug 08 #40610 by anotherone
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Hi Lsot1

I have just read this entire thread tonight.
I think you have done really well 1. for actually admitting you have a problem and doing something about it.2. for being so honest.
Oh and by the way your poem made me cry too it was lovely.

Keep going don't give up you are doing amazingly well.

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16 Aug 08 #40611 by polar
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Not called for . This is a support site not a critism site.

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16 Aug 08 #40612 by Lsot1
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Matt, I suspected it was a typo but wanted to be sure, sorry for offence.

Yeah, I know why I started drinking, I had a bad job with a really demanding boss that shot me down everytime I did anything constructive. Both Jane and I worked for him at the same time. We just worked, came home, bitched about work, slept, rinsed and repeated. This was the same reason I got depressed. I sought answers in 2 places, one was right, the other was wrong.

Anotherone...thanks for the support :)

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16 Aug 08 #40613 by Matt/24/7
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"sigh"
I was'nt critisising you
We are one of the same, i just asked you why you drank in the first place....... you seemed to take pleasure in pointing out a schoolboy error on my part. {more to the point, im useing a dodgy laptop}
Now thats sorted out. Have you figured out why you drink heavily?

Im not here to critisise, but if you dont want my advise, good luck to you m8, but i will be here if you change your mind.

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