Watershed

Hi all, well just had the day from hell! My wife had used my credit card to pay for a non molestation order (£1000) and injunction preventing my returning home - this she assured me had been revoked so that we could try and work things out. Well today I found out how wrong you can be! It hadn''t been revoked and a relatively tame argument resulted in my being interviewed under caution at the police station and my having to leave the house and find a hotel with a couple of cases of my only possessions (clothes). To be interviewed by a young female police officer and discussing the details of our argument was upsetting and humiliating.
I have thought about this during the course of today however and have realised that there are positives about this:
I have contacted my estranged twin sister for the first time in 20 years and we shall be reuniting (hurray).
It is a pivotal moment in my life and no matter how painful, I must now pursue a divorce - it''s been a stormy relationship and should end for the good of all.
I think with your help I shall be able to go through with this - so,if you don''t mind I''ll be posting things to get guidance from you all during the course of this journey I am now embarking on!

Yes good. Ask away. But you forgot another positive. You have learned some human nature and something about words.

People will and can do anything. They say one thing and mean another. And words are just sounds made. Perhaps she designed it this way. Lured you in and then dobbed you into the old bill. This is a lesson. Dont be fooled so easily by someone that plays on your wants and needs. She knew you wanted to reconcile. So she used this against you. All the while making you pay for the privilege to the tune of a grand and an under caution interview. Learn from this. People can and will manipulate you. And you have to learn to spot when your being made a fool of. This is the real lesson. But good luck and keep coming back. But there is no need for you to create anymore gossip for the goss circle. Learn... C.