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rubytuesday
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23 Apr 14 #431068 by rubytuesday

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Ranting is fine up to a point, and we all understand the pain you are experiencing - we are either going through separation/divorce, or have been through it.

Try to focus on the questions I asked so we can help you.

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DazAli1
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23 Apr 14 #431087 by DazAli1

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Ruth

Sorry I didn''t realise it was your site - a lot of people will identify with my predicament so I shouldn''t have to justify myself to you. I have already apologised for my choice of language. I don''t want you to help me I wanted to share my experience as I have gained strength from others - mainly women!

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rubytuesday
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23 Apr 14 #431092 by rubytuesday

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DazAli1 wrote:

Ruth

Sorry I didn''t realise it was your site - a lot of people will identify with my predicament so I shouldn''t have to justify myself to you. I have already apologised for my choice of language. I don''t want you to help me I wanted to share my experience as I have gained strength from others - mainly women!

Wikivorce isn''t "My" site - I just manage it as a volunteer (Wikivorce is volunteer lead by people who have been through divorce).

If you dont want me to help you - fair enough. Usually when people post here, they are either directly or indirectly reaching out and asking for some sort of help/advice/information.

I wasn''t asking you to justify yourself to me or anyone else - just making the point that our community here understands what it is like to be faced with the emotional pain of separation/divorce.

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pendlewitch
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23 Apr 14 #431108 by pendlewitch

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DazAli1 wrote:

Ruth

Sorry I didn''t realise it was your site - a lot of people will identify with my predicament so I shouldn''t have to justify myself to you. I have already apologised for my choice of language. I don''t want you to help me I wanted to share my experience as I have gained strength from others - mainly women!

What a rude, churlish and ungrateful reply!

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juliette0307
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23 Apr 14 #431144 by juliette0307

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DazAli1, i feel for you man! Don''t think anybody is judging you, i have posted some pretty stupid and offensive things myself, without meaning to, but hey sh*t happens.
We all need help, separation is not an easy thing to go through. Listening to advice can always help, if you decide to follow it or not, it''s another thing.

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