Separated.........

i HAVE A QUESTION ABOUT MY SEPARATION TO MY WIFE...AS OF August of last year we separated {again} and it was for the same reasons as before, she has accused me of sleeping with her daughter {never happened} of having affairs with everyone that has spoken to me on the phone{in all three jobs since we''ve been together} I left the first job because of the distance i worked in NYC and commuted every weekend to PA then the routine became too much and i quit, I then was collecting unemployment and ALWAYS by her side then it became evident that she could not accuse me at the job so then it became her daughter, {who incidentally had an affair with her last husband} I started having doubts about her considering what she was putting me through, if her daughter would visit i would go into my room because if I even glanced in her direction it was considered flirting, funny that her oldest daughter and i got along perfectly and she and I both new how our hellos and conversations would not go past a certain amount of time. the daughters;{all 3 of them} would comment on how their mom''s would be jealous of any man introduced to her daughters..anyway to make a novel shorter. we separated 3 times during the course of 5 years and at the second reunion I had married her in her church{charismatic} and hoped for the best...in no time everything started up again resulting in me getting into an accident in which my van was totaled and that time I was accused of being witth a woman in the van and thats why Father punished me....eventually I went to work in a warehouse because i resigned from the hospital job and started earning 1 third of what i was making before and then money became the issue aaaaaannd I introduced her to all the men I worked with so she could feel safe anyway we have had major arguments stating that women can preach and that she had a personal encounter with God and he told her she would be one...there is so much more to say but what I am trying to ask is do I go back to that life or do I remain in peace at my new church and my room in which i have peace????

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