Comminucation

The kids are older now, they''ve resigned themselves to the fact that they are never allowed to go to anything they''ve been invited to if it is to do with us. We''ve always maintained that we will never berate their mother or say bad things. The most we''ve said is that it''s not fair. They are so fiercly loyal to their mother that I don''t think we could pass responsibility to her. I think we''ve protected them too much from what she''s done in the past for too long. (We''ve had to work really hard to get past and cope with the parental alienation)!