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Notice of Termination of Proposed Agreement ???

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21 Dec 10 #240794 by eyes on horizon
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oh my.

looks like she has bitten herself in the bum on that one.

I wouldnt bother writing back to her.
the CSA has jurisdiction. keep paying as you have as well.

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21 Dec 10 #240795 by naffedhubby
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I didn't waste the laser toner on writing back to her, I employed it better by writing to the pesky 3rd party interlopers ( which if you abbreviate it would be 3PI, not CSA as others spell it ) pointing out that I have every wish and intention to carry on paying CM for my daughter and expect her to do the same for our son.

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21 Dec 10 #240797 by eyes on horizon
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dear lord.

having just read all your other posts (i normally do if i dont recognise the story) have you reached an agreement over finances?
I have to say your story is a bit too familiar to mine and now my ex hasnt responded to the Petition i feel i might be self repping in ar.

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21 Dec 10 #240805 by naffedhubby
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No agreement over finances. Spent two year trying to sort it and got no where. Just about to start the whole process of form E etc. to get it all sorted. Have tried mediation and solicitors but she's so unreasonable that the firm that was acting for her declined to continue as she would not act on their advice, and as she was on Legal Aid I presume they thought if they carried on with it they stood a chance of not getting paid for breaching something.

If you can imagine the most unreasonable person you know and then scale that to the power of 10 then you'll be somewhere near the mark of difficult and obstructive she is.

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04 Jan 11 #243005 by naffedhubby
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Just to keep everyone up to date and having not responded at all to the original Notice I received a "Reminder" in todays post worded as follows.

" Dear Mr..............
Please find enclosed one copy of the Notice which was sent to you by recorded delivery dated 16 16 December 2010. It may be that due to postal issues and inclement weather that the Notice was not received by you.

Should a response not forthcoming by the date shown in the Notice it will be my understanding that you agree to its content.

Maxim: One who does not deny, admits.

Sincerely
Mrs..............
All rights Reserved"


Please note this is verbatim, all words and phrases are exactly as written.

Whatever is she playing at now ?

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04 Jan 11 #243009 by dukey
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I would ignore it, as was said the CSA have jurisdiction,what you have received is mumbo jumbo nothing more.

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04 Jan 11 #243011 by WhiteRose
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Hi naffed,

You said you'd contacted the CSA after the first letter - and that she'd sent a copy to them also, what was their response?

As its they who have jurisdiction over CM, I'm presuming its them who say what, how and when CM is paid, not your ex ........

If I were you I'd contact them and get your conversation recorded or the call documented on your records/file. It may be worthwhile encouraging them to write to her stating their position.

Just Googled All Rights Reserved - seems to be something to do with Copyright and Maxim: One Who Does Not Deny, admits - seems to be something to do with Commercial Law ........... :unsure:

WR x

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