am i in the wrong

today was a super day, took my to kids out in the glorious sunshine to my home city.

decided to climb a local landmark which the kids loved doing,then went to see my brother and nieces which was fantastic.

told my kids not to tell stbx where we were as i believe it is nothing to do with her where and what we were doing,unfortunatley my youngest told my stbx where and what we done today,she accused me of using my kids which is completely untrue subsequently she started firing both barrels of the gun at me infront of my kids.

was i wrong to tell my kids not to tell my stbx(their mum).just fed up getting stuff thrown in my face.

er, well yes. Never ever involve the kids.

But she's I think even more in the wrong for having a go in front of them. Your quarrels are between the two of you and you should both be doing your utmost to protect the children from the fallout.

pixy
thanks for your comment,did not think i was doing anything wrong but having read your comment i can see it from her point of view and it wont be repeated.

thanks

@manfriday

You are wrong whatever you do mate, get used to it.

your right chris cant do right for doing wrong,will get used to it but i dont have to keep accepting it

cheers mate

Have I missed the point of "mums" anger?

What did you do what was wrong? Go visit your brother and family? And/or not inform "mum" of your every move?

Apologies if I am "hitting a raw nerve here."

Best wishes.

I think you are out of order telling your kids not to tell mum what they had done. So if mum says did you have a good day, what did you do? Poor things, they have got to say daddy said not to tell you. Thats pathetic and childish.

They love their mum. They don't want secrets from their mum. They may have had a lovely day and were so excited they wanted to tell their mum all about it, but they had to keep it a secret.

Not on, not on at all.