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12 Oct 11 #292224 by acfair
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My ex-partner has just won a 30% beneficial interest in my house (which is in my sole name and home to my two sons) and I am seeking advice as to how I can get maintenance for my 2 children - 4 years and 8 years old. He has never paid a penny towards their upkeep and says he doesn't intend to.

The 30% share is worth about £40,000.

Can I instigate Children Act Proceedings against him to recover the amount and how would I go about it?

Any advice greatly appreciated

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12 Oct 11 #292227 by Lostboy67
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The first question I guess is are the children his? Assuming they are then you can go to the CSA to get child maintenance which would be 20% of his net pay less some allowance for the number of nights he may have them.


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12 Oct 11 #292228 by acfair
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He is on benefits and CAFCASS have written three reports that he is to have no contact because he is an alcoholic!!

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12 Oct 11 #292229 by mumtoboys
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then he would get a flat rate assessment of £5 a week which would be taken from his benefits and paid to you. Not much else you can do - it's not much but the principal is that he is contributing at least.

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12 Oct 11 #292230 by acfair
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I know but why should I give him £40,000 when he has paid a penny in maintenance to two young children.

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12 Oct 11 #292232 by WhiteRose
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I guess when you wrote he 'won' this amount - you mean he has been awarded it by a Judge?

I suppose even though he does not pay CM because he is on benefits, he is still entitled to a percentage or amount of the marital assets.

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12 Oct 11 #292233 by .Charles
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If he is an alcoholic and has no job he has no ability to pay maintenance. However, financial contribution for children and entitlement to a share of the matrimonial assets - less than a third in this instance - are not linked.

I imagine that the 30% is a deferred charge, redeemable when the youngest child finishes secondary education?

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