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Child Support 1610 topics

Here you can discuss all aspects of child support, including child maintenance issues and your experience of the Child Support Agency.
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Who do the kidss live with?
Hi,

Help and advice appreciated please.

My wife of 16 years left me in December 2006 - "it's all your fault" she said. She took my t ...
04 Oct 07, by tiesys
Latest 04 Oct 07 by Vail
Replies:1
:672
Latest by Vail
04 Oct 07
contact order
Hello,
new to the site. I am divorcing my husband as he left my 2 yr old and I 1 year ago as he was seeing another woman. This is the 3rd marriage she has s ...
03 Oct 07, by tortoise
Latest 04 Oct 07 by Fiona
Replies:1
:577
Latest by Fiona
04 Oct 07
some advice please, unsure what to do
I see my daughter every wednesday evening (court order agreement) and my x2b has asked if i will not have my daughter this wednesday as she is having her new ba ...
01 Oct 07, by madaboutcars
Latest 01 Oct 07 by sexysadie
Replies:1
:768
Latest by sexysadie
01 Oct 07
Is he right in what he is saying??
Hi

My x2b is telling me that my children's (age 13, 7) maintanence money will drop when he moves in with his partner (she has 2 boys, 14 and 17, the yo ...
28 Sep 07, by tarot
Latest 28 Sep 07 by Fiona
Replies:1
:656
Latest by Fiona
28 Sep 07
Contact order , court date set , what to expect?
Hi All ,
As title says i have applied for a contact oder to see my 2 little girls and now have the court date of October 2nd.

My wife wont give me ...
26 Sep 07, by robdf2
Latest 27 Sep 07 by madaboutcars
Replies:2
:539
Latest by madaboutcars
27 Sep 07
will a court listen
my wife left me and my son some time ago, she was coming to the marital home to see him when she could be bothered, she has now decided she wants to make other ...
09 Sep 07, by markp
Latest 26 Sep 07 by markp
Replies:24
:4121
Latest by markp
26 Sep 07
Agonising dilemma where to live
My British stbxw has been having an affair here in France and now wants to spend the rest of her life with him (he is French). She also wants the children to st ...
20 Sep 07, by braveheart
Latest 26 Sep 07 by mike62
Replies:11
:1829
Latest by mike62
26 Sep 07
What can she do?
Looking for some advice. Self and STBX own small hotel. She decided to end marriage last Jan. She wants me to move out. I am currently working a second job to ...
21 Sep 07, by mike62
Latest 21 Sep 07 by mike62
Replies:8
:1624
Latest by mike62
21 Sep 07
Maintenance
My ex-husband reduced the maintenance payment for my daughter by £250 last month. I have asked him why but he refuses to reply. The likely explanation is tha ...
06 Sep 07, by Blueberry
Latest 20 Sep 07 by DownButNotOut
Replies:1
:783
Latest by DownButNotOut
20 Sep 07
how do you proof its not you
hi wonder if any one can give me some help. my x2b was instisting on contact with our son just on her terms, but our son held out to get them on his terms, he i ...
18 Sep 07, by markp
Latest 19 Sep 07 by markp
Replies:7
:1354
Latest by markp
19 Sep 07
does anyone know anything about this please help
I am currently trying to sort out financial settlement with ex.He has tried every trick in the book to stop me getting my settlement.I have had to take him to c ...
19 Sep 07, by Gwenmoon
Latest 19 Sep 07 by Fiona
Replies:5
:716
Latest by Fiona
19 Sep 07
ex moving abroad
Hi, I'm about to receive my absolute this week! but with it seems to bring yet more problems. My ex has been seeing a woman who lives in America and he goes to ...
18 Sep 07, by honeysuckle
Latest 18 Sep 07 by honeysuckle
Replies:2
:754
Latest by honeysuckle
18 Sep 07
CSA Threats
Hi, I have just split and we have a house each now and are sharing the children approximately 60/40 split in my ex's favor.

I pay her £250 a month by ...
26 Aug 07, by mick_dan
Latest 15 Sep 07 by Sera
Replies:8
:1654
Latest by Sera
15 Sep 07
Contact
Hi,

Thought and comments would be appreciated. I have been married for 16 years - the first 13 years were fantastic and the last three were like hell o ...
31 Aug 07, by tiesys
Latest 14 Sep 07 by sexysadie
Replies:18
:2873
Latest by sexysadie
14 Sep 07
Custody hearing
Hi all

Can anyone give me any idea what happens in an initial custody hearing and then the procedure afterwards?

Is it important to have a leg ...
10 Sep 07, by beckster2
Latest 12 Sep 07 by wscowell
Replies:7
:1439
Latest by wscowell
12 Sep 07
If child is for previous marriage?
Hi there.
We are 5 years together. 2 of them married. On monday he tald me to leave house by Saturday or he will pack my things and put them in garage. I am ...
12 Sep 07, by Anya
Latest 12 Sep 07 by Anya
Replies:2
:604
Latest by Anya
12 Sep 07
Do I have to hand my baby over?
My husband left me for another woman,it was only once he had left that I came to realise the extent of his financial and business difficulties but more importan ...
09 Sep 07, by deve
Latest 12 Sep 07 by nathaliealfie
Replies:5
:871
Latest by nathaliealfie
12 Sep 07
Why won't ex Realise what he is doing
Been split from my ex nearly a year now, his choice, i know i mucked up with stuff but he seems to just give up. We have a 2and Half year old and 8month old, He ...
10 Sep 07, by nathaliealfie
Latest 12 Sep 07 by IKNOWNOW
Replies:4
:731
Latest by IKNOWNOW
12 Sep 07
unsure
My ex handed my 10 yr old son a letter on the 6th and said you might want to read this son, do you want me to take it away! to which my son said no its ok i wan ...
09 Sep 07, by donnab
Latest 09 Sep 07 by Fiona
Replies:1
:512
Latest by Fiona
09 Sep 07
csa
i had a letter off the csa after waiting nearly 7 months stating that my ex owes me x amount of money, but he is refusing to give over any details, can any one ...
09 Sep 07, by donnab
Latest 09 Sep 07 by donnab
Replies:2
:634
Latest by donnab
09 Sep 07
can she set contact
my wife left me and my 10 year old son some months ago to live with another man. she has been arranging to come and see him at home, and some times not keeping ...
05 Aug 07, by markp
Latest 08 Sep 07 by markp
Replies:36
:5354
Latest by markp
08 Sep 07
Couple of quick questions...
Hi All

I am looking into a divorce in which the blood father has left the scene years ago. I haven't adopted.

I am wondering what are my oblig ...
07 Sep 07, by BrianB
Latest 07 Sep 07 by Fiona
Replies:1
:635
Latest by Fiona
07 Sep 07
Marital Home
I moved out of the marital home 6 weeks ago due to a fling. My wife is divorcing me for adultery which I am not contesting. I am staying with friends. She has t ...
06 Sep 07, by vinceworm
Latest 06 Sep 07 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:1172
Latest by LittleMrMike
06 Sep 07
50/50 shared care and child maintenance
Could forum members please sign the petition at:-

Replies:0
:589

Time between court visits
There's plenty of info on the net about the divorce process, including timescales for an amicable divorce.
I just can't find anything on how long the steps ...
28 Aug 07, by JLGsDad
Latest 28 Aug 07 by Fiona
Replies:2
:601
Latest by Fiona
28 Aug 07
Going abroad.
I had a phone call from my 5 year old daughter yesterday. She told me that she has just come back from France. I didn't even know she had a passport, let alone ...
27 Aug 07, by Trev
Latest 27 Aug 07 by Athene
Replies:3
:680
Latest by Athene
27 Aug 07
Residency 50/50 shared kids but this guy pays CSA
Just wondering what the angle is here and if anyone heard of something so unfair...

Someone I know got divorced 5 years ago and had 2 kids, the kids li ...
27 Aug 07, by mick_dan
Latest 27 Aug 07 by Monitor441
Replies:4
:689
Latest by Monitor441
27 Aug 07
27 Aug 07, by jay160602
Replies:0
:436

Should I let him have staying contact?
I am divorcing my husband for many reasons but one of the main reasons is that I believe he has a drink problem - which he doesn't admit. He is now living with ...
23 Aug 07, by IKNOWNOW
Latest 26 Aug 07 by IKNOWNOW
Replies:10
:1466
Latest by IKNOWNOW
26 Aug 07
Shared Residency, ???
Hello,

Can anybody advise me please?
I am going through a very bitter divorce battle after being married 10 years and have two young children.
...
23 Aug 07, by joanna
Latest 24 Aug 07 by jay160602
Replies:4
:995
Latest by jay160602
24 Aug 07
Custody battle
Hi,

I wonder if anybody may be able to give me some advice or opinions on the following:

My wife and I separated in a hostile manner a couple ...
22 Aug 07, by rdcox
Latest 23 Aug 07 by Fiona
Replies:5
:750
Latest by Fiona
23 Aug 07
not sure how this will go??
Hi everyone
Im posting on behalf of my best friend who left her husband last saturday and has no internet access as is living with her parents.

Can ...
22 Aug 07, by cookla
Latest 22 Aug 07 by cookla
Replies:2
:543
Latest by cookla
22 Aug 07
Access to FMHome by wife whos left??
Help/comments very much appreciated, my first post, a great site.
Wife of 22 yrs walked out about 6 weeks ago now, total suprise, been having affair for a c ...
18 Aug 07, by jony
Latest 22 Aug 07 by Sera
Replies:7
:1706
Latest by Sera
22 Aug 07
Types of Custody
How many types are there of custody? I believe you can have a joint custody of children totally where both have 50% rights, then another where one parent is see ...
01 Jul 07, by mick_dan
Latest 17 Aug 07 by Fiona
Replies:19
:2614
Latest by Fiona
17 Aug 07
Introducing children to my new home
Hi all,

I am in the early stages of my divorce and I have just found somewhere to live, my soon to be ex insists on viewing my new property and even in ...
10 Aug 07, by BigAl
Latest 11 Aug 07 by Sera
Replies:4
:660
Latest by Sera
11 Aug 07
help
I don't really know where to start and could be here and bore you all to tears.

to cut a long story short, i left the marital home with the children af ...
07 Aug 07, by sammcg
Latest 09 Aug 07 by sammcg
Replies:7
:1357
Latest by sammcg
09 Aug 07
do i split 50/50 or hang out for more?
split last nov, goin through amicable:unsure: divorce. i have our 6year old child and give unlimited access to ex. orginally agreed to 50/50 split however deba ...
07 Aug 07, by zoleigh
Latest 09 Aug 07 by Fiona
Replies:4
:742
Latest by Fiona
09 Aug 07
06 Aug 07, by Fiona
Replies:0
:490

She Suddenly stopped contact
Been separated for 4 months and decree absolute was last week. My wife had agreed through the solicitors that i was to have alternate weekends with the kids and ...
16 Jul 07, by ejazmughal
Latest 05 Aug 07 by Fiona
Replies:9
:1717
Latest by Fiona
05 Aug 07
Children cutting me out of their lives
Hi all
Im really hoping someone can help or offer suggestions.

The bare facts - 2 children aged 10 & 13, I left their dad over a year ago and n ...
26 Jul 07, by Tinny
Latest 29 Jul 07 by Tinny
Replies:6
:762
Latest by Tinny
29 Jul 07

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