Divorce is good ....

Pebble.

Support is here if you need it.

Xxx

Pebble

Taking back your power .. Good on you .. not easy ,worth it though .

Yes, lots of support here on wiki.. You go girl , find her eh . listen to her she will never let you down that girl inside you .
D x

Pebble, I hope your ok.... I and others feel for you... I have also had a difficult time.. The past 48 hours gave wanted to walk away from it all

Sorry to be blunt but I to made a vow, to love, honor and cherish, til death do us part.
I thought i would keep my vow as well.

I think most of us believed our vows were for life... Unfortunately selfish partners walk cos they can .. Sometimes because they fall out of love, sometimes because they cheat.... I just think that the decent thing would be too talk try to resolve problem first.. Then if it doesn''t change both parties are aware

What a world we live in .

When we are true to ourselves , all,goes well . When we are not , we create disharmony Some that walk away are being true to themselves . Not all , however , they choose a path to follow.

What we need to do is get out of their business and get into our own business . We count , and we have to do what is in our best interest .
What is best for me right now, right this minute .
If it is to cry and grieve then so be it . If it''s to talk to others and reach out so be it . If it''s to go out so be it .

No one can tell you what is best for you . Recognise , you have all the power you need right now right this minute . You are on your time now , you decide.

See, it is you that decides , it''s you with the power , it''s you that has the power and have always had it . We kinda somehow let someone else have some .

So , come on turn your light up brighter .

Rusty and others are beginning to turn on their light .

Proud of you all

D

Thanks all. Most of the time my light is shining just today was a tough one.

I did believe my vows were for life but my STBX didn''t. Not this time or the last time he had an affair. Just this time I wouldn''t back down. I had enough of his lies and the pain he caused me and being the problem in our marriage. I didn''t sign up for that. I worked so hard to keep our marriage on track but in the end he simply didn''t want to stay. Actually what he wanted was to stay and still have me at home working to pay his bills and his OW to go and have fun without me knowing. I didn''t remember that being part of my vows.

I would never trust him again... Love, honour, cherish he didn''t remember those so why should I stick to them?

Pebble xx