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Unreasonable behaviours reasons - Is this ok?

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09 Oct 11 #291590 by dukey
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This is an example of a mild version,

The marriage has irrevocably broken down.

The respondent has recently started spending more time with hobbies/work including spending time playing golf/darts going to the pub/gym taking unnecessary overtime which takes up 3 nights per week/the weekend.

Due to the behaviour of the respondent the respondent and Petitioner spend less time together. The petitioner feels excluded and isolated from significant parts of the respondents life.

By spending less time together there has been a lack of communication between the respondent and petitioner which has caused a complete breakdown of the marriage.The respondent does not with for the petitioner to be part of his/her new life.

The petitioner does not believe that the respondent wishes for the marriage to work because of his/her attitude towards the Petitioner.

As such the petitioner cannot be reasonably be expected to live with the respondent.

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09 Oct 11 #291591 by rubytuesday
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yes that would be a good example to use, you could word it something like this:

There has been no semblance of married life as far as the Petitioner is concerned since this date, despite attempts and requests from the petitioner that they work towards rebuilding their marriage. The petitioner feels that he cannot be reasonably expected to remain in this marriage.

and there are no silly questions on Wikivorce, except for when someone asked "where are the while cliffs of dover".....:ohmy:

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09 Oct 11 #291592 by dukey
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And that question was asked by (drum roll please)



Rubytuesday

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09 Oct 11 #291593 by ncscooby
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HAHA!!

Have reworded these two....better?

The Respondant recently spent most evenings together on the internet watching sport or videos with his headphones on. The respondant showed no interest in interacting or spending his free time with the Petitioner. Thus the Petitioner felt lonely and excluded from the respondants life.

The respondant had abused substances constantly throughout the 6 months prior to seperation. The petitioner continually requested that the respondant did not continue with this behaviour, these requests were ignored. This caused constant unresolved arguments and on one accasion on Monday 18th January 2010 the respondant told the petitioner that these substances were more important to him than their marriage. The petitioner felt extremely hurt and rejected by this, and cannot be expected to live with this behaviour.

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09 Oct 11 #291595 by dukey
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Much better :)

Now go away and work much harder on asking stupid questions, you will have to work so much harder if you ever hope to enter into the Wiki daft question hall of fame.

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09 Oct 11 #291596 by dukey
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By the way i entered the all time top five by asking how you iron the middle of a curtain when the ironing board is so narrow.


Now that is proper daft :)

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09 Oct 11 #291597 by ncscooby
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dukey wrote:

Much better :)

Now go away and work much harder on asking stupid questions, you will have to work so much harder if you ever hope to enter into the Wiki daft question hall of fame.


:lol:

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