just looking

Maybe she was looking for a friend? It is going to go around in your head, why was she looking etc. until you talk to her.

Maybe she's embarressed by her prurient interest - maybe she's not hiding it from you because she's thinking of divorce but because she's embarrassed to admit she's so nosy....do ask her and set your mind at rest...

i dont think if you are just browsing that the 1st place you go is the calculator?

Steve

This site gives information about divorce and lets people learn from the experiences of those who have been through it, or are going through it. I can say from my own experience and that of my very nearly ex wife, that the way our divorce has turned out has not been what she expected. It may have been that if she knew more about divorce before she chose to have an affair she may not have got down the route she did. We will never know, but in your case I would urge you to talk to your wife.

The first place she went to on this site, may well have been driven by hear google search criteria and could be totally innocent.

Steve

So she was reading the Mail article and got the link to Wiki, she may have thought she would have to register to look around and get the bigger picture and see if what is being said is accurate. She may have friends who are thinking of divorce or going through divorce and they are worried about money or their spouse finding out they are using Wiki. Maybe she just wanted reassurance after the Mail article that if it ever happened to her what would she do? After all just ask anyone on here, not many really think it is gonna happen to them.

If you were in the room she is hardly hiding it from you is she? There could be as many innocent reasons, there are not only negatives on here, some people feel their relationship is threatened and want to see how other peoples' relationships are, to see if they need to be worrying. There have been some on here I am almost certain that have reconsidered, after their visit here. Could be a marriage saver, who knows?

Steve,

The article did provoke intrigue...

Elle x

Hi Steve

If you have no secrets from each other, why not ask her why she wss looking at this site.

Mind you, I thought my ex and I had no secrets from each other in our 20 plus year marriage, until I found out he had been shagging everything that walked! And i only found out because he told me as he couldnt keep it a secret anymore!

Suffice to say we are now divorced.

Im sure all is okay in your world though, so take no notice of me.

Jo x