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28 Jun 09 #127476 by steve401
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i though i'd just pop in and see what this was all about since i found out last week my wife had joined this little community after reading an article in the Mail.Thank god for internet browsing history)
i havent told her i know yet as i'm waiting to see what happens over the next few days.

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28 Jun 09 #127477 by Ephelia
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Maybe you should talk with her.... maybe she was looking out of simple curiosity...

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28 Jun 09 #127478 by Deedum
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You obviously don't trust her or you wouldn't be looking through her browsing history! Just because we look up websites, doesn't mean we are involved in what goes on in them. When I was with my husband, I never ever checked what websites he was looking up and I like to think he never did that to me.

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28 Jun 09 #127481 by steve401
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I would have believed that except that A, you don't need to register to browse. B,if you hadn't been thinking about it,why would you come here? it's a good support group i suppose but hardly a barrel of laughs and C, and this is the killer, she did it under an assumed name that bears no resemblance to her own and used her work email as a contact address

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28 Jun 09 #127483 by steve401
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i wasnt checking her history, its a shared home computer that i was using one night. Sorry to shatter your preconceptions of me.

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28 Jun 09 #127485 by kezzarick
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As someone else has said your relationship must be in a bit of trouble if you are checking her browsing history....has something happened previously to make you do this/not trust her. You do need to talk to her, it is the only way you are going to find out why she is on this site and if you can work at your relationship to save it.

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28 Jun 09 #127487 by steve401
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Like i said,i wasnt checking her history, i was shocked to see it to be honest. Oh and she was actually looking whilst i was in the room so if it was just browsing she could have mentioned it,if she is looking for a divorce then shouldnt she have raised the issue at the time. I didnt think we had secrets

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