New and need advice

Lucretia wrote:

JoannaA wrote:

Im 49.

Would like a fit young 39 year old for a goog shag.

But someone my own age to chat to.

Jo x

Lol Jo...
I've healed up its been so long.

haha. C.

op

are you sure he met a bargirl

and not a ladyboy?!

just think of his rections if he finally found out...

Hi - you sound like you really know and understand the STBX - people could never understand how I could stand back and laugh at mine when he was having his suppposed secret flings - all I could think of was "Silly old fart"
Now i am divorcing him and have found out that he secretly bought a house in Thailand last year, this is probably the reason why he stopped paying the mortgage.

I no longer want him back in my life and have moved on - I am seeing a man who is even older than me than STBX was and who is only tall enough to look me in the chest - but who cares - after 2 years of living as a Sister of Abstinence I am enjoying the sex!

My advice is to dump the STBX and move on with your life - things do get better even if they take a bit longer as you get older!

rosieposie wrote:

Hi - you sound like you really know and understand the STBX - people could never understand how I could stand back and laugh at mine when he was having his suppposed secret flings - all I could think of was "Silly old fart"
Now i am divorcing him and have found out that he secretly bought a house in Thailand last year, this is probably the reason why he stopped paying the mortgage.

I no longer want him back in my life and have moved on - I am seeing a man who is even older than me than STBX was and who is only tall enough to look me in the chest - but who cares - after 2 years of living as a Sister of Abstinence I am enjoying the sex!

My advice is to dump the STBX and move on with your life - things do get better even if they take a bit longer as you get older!

YES!!!!!

You go girl.....


remind me... what is sex again???

Hi Notathaigirl

I'm not married myself and have been with my partner for 'just' four years. Our relationship is not a perfect one.i was always jelous of him and had those horrible thoughts that every time he was going away he defenately will cheat on me. i wasn't very confident in the first years of our relationship. it was like living in his shadow, i could't do almost anything without him. And then we had our first crisis when he wanted split up. i was genuinly shocked by that news. it was like very cold wake up call. then it just got me how much i really love him and that i cannot loose him. I knew i needed to change attitude to my own life. beginnings were very hard. there wasn't single day i wouldn't cry like mad. but later i started to feel stronger and stronger. I got on my feet and i felt just gerat about my growing independance. by fighting for myself i've rebuild my relationship with my partner. since then we were genuinley happy together.
and what is now? recently we had another big crisis when he again wanted to finish it all ( I don't feel at the moment to write about the deatails cause it is all too complicated. i will do it oon another ocassion ) . this time i thaught i have no more energy to fight again. i felt angry that it always is me who have to fix things up! i was crying and preparing myself for being a single. but my nature is to never give up. so we managed to get over the trouble again. i think if you love someone you just can't give it up too quickly. sometimes i'm thinking if he really loves me, cause it was already twice he wanted to split and if not for my hard trying we would't be here and now together. this is still cmplicated, but i still believe in us
Best regards