New and need advice

Pete, you are funny!

Apparently, from what I have read alot of middle aged men want much younger women. In dating adverts men are looking for women younger than them. And I have read articles from women in their 50s/60s saying the same.

So, maybe if a man looking for a younger woman cannot get a european one, their only option is to look further afield, perhaps as this gentlemen had done.

I agree with what you say Pete, your posts don't seem to cause the controversy mine do when I say it as it is, but at the end of the day some people will forgive anything and I think mid life crisis is a recognised phenomenom and if this is what this chap is going through, there may be a chance he will get over it and get back to where he was with his wife, who clearly loves him.

Jo x

notathaigirl wrote:

Hi

I'd like to thank all the folk who have taken the trouble to reply to my question.

In time to come, I maybe back on again asking some more.

Many thanks
notathaigirl

In all seriousness, have you been intimate with this man since you found out he was sleeping with a Thai bar maid?

I would seriously consider having a sexual health check done if the answer is yes AND tell him you are having it as well. That will jolt him...

JoannaA wrote:

Pete, you are funny!

Apparently, from what I have read alot of middle aged men want much younger women. In dating adverts men are looking for women younger than them. And I have read articles from women in their 50s/60s saying the same.
Jo x

You think? I am 54 and I aint looking for a 24. Men are not all the same. Like not all women where pink shoes with brown outfit.

U need to select someone thats on your wavelength. And someone thats 24 is no where near 54 in wavelength terms. If I was in the market for someone I wouldnt go less than 10 years younger than me. In fact thats way to much of a difference. More like 5 years. Recently I got chatting to a 17 yo girl. She was more like my mum than my mum. Mind you she was a hair dresser. So maybe hair dressers are more mature. Go figure. C.

Marshy_ wrote:

JoannaA wrote:

Pete, you are funny!

Apparently, from what I have read alot of middle aged men want much younger women. In dating adverts men are looking for women younger than them. And I have read articles from women in their 50s/60s saying the same.
Jo x

You think? I am 54 and I aint looking for a 24. Men are not all the same. Like not all women where pink shoes with brown outfit.

U need to select someone thats on your wavelength. And someone thats 24 is no where near 54 in wavelength terms. If I was in the market for someone I wouldnt go less than 10 years younger than me. In fact thats way to much of a difference. More like 5 years. Recently I got chatting to a 17 yo girl. She was more like my mum than my mum. Mind you she was a hair dresser. So maybe hair dressers are more mature. Go figure. C.

Same here... when that time comes I want someone my age - mid forties - not older or younger.

Im 49.

Would like a fit young 39 year old for a goog shag.

But someone my own age to chat to.

Jo x

Hi All

Thanks again for your reply's. Just to answer some points if I may.

I've already been checked out along time ago, when I found out. The good side of that, it brought to light health problems not associated with him or her. It is hugs I seek more from him than anything else.

She is 13yrs younger than hubby, he's not fat or balding. He sends her money every month, he knows I know, but he'd told me he'd stopped. Little does he know i've seen his bank statement today, he's still sending it!!!
But while we live with no money, she's lording it on our money, that could go towards the mortgage, paying off the overdraft etc etc.
But if he has enough rope he'll hang himself in time to come, with his stupid mistakes he's making.

Believe me, I hate what he's doing and so do the kids. Mid life crisis - who knows? All I know is he's making a big tit of himself.

Regards
Notathaigirl

JoannaA wrote:

Im 49.

Would like a fit young 39 year old for a goog shag.

But someone my own age to chat to.

Jo x

Lol Jo...
I've healed up its been so long.