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STBXIsMoneyObsessed
Elite Member

30 Aug 09 #142474 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed

Reply from STBXIsMoneyObsessed

stay stick it out stay polite
and fight for custody
it should be 70/30 in your favour!

ian waterhouse
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02 Sep 09 #143172 by ian waterhouse

Reply from ian waterhouse

Wow...thanks...speaking from experience? - The fight thing worries me how this may affect the boys, being 13 and 10...I guess the oldest can "make a choice"...but though I hate the situation and what she has done...I don't want the boys to be "invloved" in a fight for them, would rather they chose, even though they might choose her (especially if I do not taint their thoughts of her) - but would have to live with that...I know when my parents split up...I chose to stay with my Mother, though it was different, my father had gone off and HAD left the marital home...... I am confused as to what I should do "for the best", whatever that is, and "Who's best"...mine, my lads?

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