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cafcass bias, abusers of childrens rights.

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17 Dec 09 #169893 by Onlylexus
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Dear Fiona.
While i thank you for you comments, i cannot agree with them. The logic of what you state is this--if you complain during the reporting stage, then one runs the risk of "antagonising" CAFCASS, (musnt do that!!) if you complain after, its sour grapes from the judges perspective. so then what ever i do i cant win!! catch 22. NEVER ever COMPLAIN, MIGHT GET THIER BACKS UP!! ahhh! I have Absolute proof and evidence that Cafcass is indeed corrupt and biased in favor of the resident parent mother,eg,- The Cafcass report contains every utterance my X made about me, EVERY!! my absolute denials of them have not been recorded in any way. my accusations against her have NOT been recorded, NOT ONE!! no negative mention of her at all, Non at all!! I have mentioned my X's routine attempts to alienate my son from me, even ones witnessed by others, do CAFCASS record them? not at all. I showed my son how to use a yoyo, during a session observed by a reporter, i asked him if he wanted to go to the park, i asked him did he want to go to Mcdonalds,, the reporter saw nagativity in all these actions, you think im joking!! no im not! the report came back that i was trying to control my son throught these things, absurd? totally ridiculous and so petty i couldnt believe it!! I ask my son about his schooling, they tell me i shouldnt, i ask about his holidays, i shouldnt!! they have me totally emasculated and crushed, these evil people are destroying me and my sons love. Dont tell me they are not corrupt!!
i know, i really know!! you want proof, ill send it if you like. The report contains no facts, just forcful opinions masqerading as facts, Cafcass are masters at fabricating evidence out of thin air, i tell you truthfully, they just say whatever they want abouit you. its so unjust and these people are there to protect my child!!! no they abuse us both, with little respect at all, but lots for my X, lots!!
respectfully yours, Paul

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17 Dec 09 #169895 by hawaythelads
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They done a nice hatchet job on my mate.
A married father who for 12 years brought up the 3 children quite ok and normally.
All of a sudden was supposedly a monster after he left for another woman who should never see the kids again and CAFCASS backed it all.
They seem to view being upset and giving a shoite about being unfairly denied access as being abusive if you are a man.
All the best
Pete xx

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17 Dec 09 #169896 by Onlylexus
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You have it in one M8. yes if you show any anger, then you are dereranged, if you show any tears, then you are emotionally unstable, (NOT SO IF A WOMAN CRYS) if you protest, they accuse aggression. if you complain, they give you hell in retun.. yes my friend you have it all in your head as i do, i really have been treat like a total fool, can i do anything? can i hell!!

paul

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17 Dec 09 #169897 by hawaythelads
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He hasn't seen any of his kids in 3 years now.Had to after £1000's at court gave up.
cafcass swallowed every lie she told and seemed to encourage her.
He had to give up in the end after the kids had been that brainwashed they all on cue said they didn't want to see him.
This was such a carve up it was heinous.
Don't be a bloke if you are dealing with CAFCASS.

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17 Dec 09 #169912 by Forseti
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Fiona is correct, Onlylexus, that complaining may well backfire. There is a very good chance the complaint will be dealt with by the same officer you complain about, and they will hold any complaint against you in perpetuity.

The Cafcass complaints system has long been a source of ridicule. For a long time there was no complaints system at all, and even now you should note that there are only certain things you can complain about. The sort of allegations you are making will not be covered by their complaints system and will have to be brought up in court.

Have a look at Re N where even though the father proved that the Cafcass officer and solicitor were in contempt of court the judge ruled that they should remain on the case.

I'd probably also agree that Cafcass are not corrupt; for something to become corrupted there needs to have been a time when it was not corrupted, and Cafcass aren't necessarily any worse now than they have ever been.

Do they lack funding? Just look at how their budget has increased since 2001 - where has that money gone? Recently they were given additional funding to run their new obligations under the Children and Adoption Act; according to a parliamentary reply it had only been used to support 26 parents. Where did that money go?

They are certainly badly trained; again, look at their recruiting policy, which encourages applications by people (80% of the workforce are women) who are prejudiced against 'absent' fathers. Their training literature - which is available - is grossly sexist and anti-father, particularly on issues like domestic violence. Or read the notorious NAPO anti-sexism policy - NAPO is the union to which many FCAs belong. The policy is entirely anti men and anti families and discusses ways in which the family courts can be used to further feminist ideology. There is similar bigotry within Nagalro, the other Cafcass union.

Or consider the role played by Cafcass - and especially by Brian Kirby, who is still an FCA - in scuppering the Early Interventions project, which has been the only hope for parents for taking conflicted cases out of the courts and into mediation. Instead of an effective programme which had huge support from everyone involved in family law it was replaced by a scheme which held that where contact was satisfactory there was no need to increase it, where it was unsatisfactory it should stop, and where there was doubt it should be suspended pending investigation.

Various organisations - e.g. ukcorruption.com, F4J, etc - have compiled dossiers on Cafcass incompetence and corruption (is there a better word?); there is absolutely no shortage of evidence.

Onlylexus also complains that the law itself is biased against fathers: mothers automatically get PR but fathers effectively only get it depending on their relationship with the mother or on application to the court (which may be challenged). Many people say the law is not biased, but it is there in the Children Act in black and white, and there are other examples in other legislation. I myself lost PR as a result of paternity fraud. I still think that technically I should still have PR or at least the right to make a s.8 application, but the judges of the RCJ and my legal team took the opposite view, and it is certainly the case that the law isn't clear, It does, however, provide an opportunity for protracted proceedings, and plenty of earning potential for the lawyers and Cafcass.

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17 Dec 09 #169917 by D L
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Paternity fraud? Huh?

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17 Dec 09 #169942 by Onlylexus
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Forgive me,Im sorry, i am not understanding the thrust of your statement left here, re-paternity fraud huh?

regards paul.

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