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cafcass bias, abusers of childrens rights.

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16 Dec 09 #169659 by Onlylexus
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Dear all.
I find that on reading the many comments obout Cafcass, that i must concur. I have always been a wonderful Father to my 7 yr old son. But now due to Cafcas's total bias, i now see my son for only 2 hours every fortnight, and with supervision. I have been seperated from my partner for over 3 years we had a sharing arrangement of our son, which went well... until she met someone else! My x the decided to stop letting me see my son, and applied to court to prevent me access. I do not have PR for my son and am powerless to do anything! My x has made the most ridiculous accusations about me, all of which Cafcass have recorded. Strangely NOT ONE of my accusations appear in thier reporting. I have found CAFCASS to be absolutely corrupt through and through, they fabricate evidence out of nowhere and forward it is fact to the court. You are left powerless to change anything written about you, even if you can prove its not true! At the moment these terrible people are destroying my relationship with my loving son. As far as i am concerened they are child abusers. I plead with someone out there to help me get justice for my son and me. Cafcass the fabricators of evidence and destroyers of Fathers characters. They have just about ruined me, im on my knees now fighting them, its no use, its hopeless, they do what they want. Bias is just not a strong enough word. corrupt and heartless is their makeup. If someone outthere can help me fight them, please come forward.

Paul.

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16 Dec 09 #169664 by Mr decieved
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why do you not have pr?

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16 Dec 09 #169704 by Onlylexus
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I thank you for your message.
I have been caught in an unfair anomally of the law, which is absurd! Explain--

I was not married to my partner, our son was born in 2002, a time when a father had no automatic right to PR, unless he was married to the mother. The mother gets an automatic right to pr, instantly. The law changed six monthes later, stating that from then on any child born from that date, then any father would get automatic pr as long as thier name was on the birth certificate, (my name is on my sons certificate). The change in that law was not a retrospective one, only from the date it was institued. The only way i can get pr is by consent from my X,which being unreasonable she will not give.Or PR can be awarded to me by the court, which it is not doing, as the mother is preventing it with the aid of Cafcass bias. Eventually i will get pr, but it will take a long time, when i have exausted the court process. Without PR i dont even have the right to know what my son is doing at school, nor do i have any right to attend any school events, nor can i go near him without consent from his mother .Nor do i have any say in any medical decisions, or even if he can be taken out of country. I have no say in his life whatsoever, NONE!! i AM AT MY WITS END WITH IT! I thought we lived in a free country, we dont! how this is happening i dont know. My son is the dearest thing in my life, very precious to me, i was his main carer from birth, i stayed at home and we have a strong bond. He wants to see me, but his mother is french, (with that typical action de-rect attitude), she is doing her very best to alienate him from me. I am powerless to do anything. And i'm in hell over it.

sorry, but it is a never ending nightmare here is your answer, regards paul.

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16 Dec 09 #169863 by Onlylexus
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Dear ? i am touched by your advice and comments, i have the feeling you understand my present mind set, which is very near to break down.I am lost in all the injustice of it all. But the thing that i really cant understand, that really puizzles me is the lack of understanding, empathy, the sheer blatant pushing me to breakdown by CAFCASS. its as if they like doing it, as if they have little understanding of how i miss my son. I'm sorry but i regard them as evil in the extreme, and i tell you that is not easy for me to say as i am a true pacafist and lover of peace. Why hasnt someone donr something about this corrupt organization? I know im not alone, God! how many fathers out there that are suffering also? My heart goes out to them. I thank you again
BLESS YOU PAUL.

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16 Dec 09 #169865 by Onlylexus
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THANK YOU, i have taken note of this supposed procedure by CAFCASS, they have ignored it completely in it s application to me. believe it they have. i have complained and re complained, they still ignore me.

paul

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16 Dec 09 #169882 by Fiona
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You may be wasting your time and energy complaining. A complaint during the investigation stage may antagonise the CAFCASS officer. Complaints after the report has been filed may be regarded by the court as 'sour grapes.'

CAFCASS may be inept, badly trained and lack funding (although it is to be increased, I believe) but I don't think the organisation is corrupt.

Although CAFCASS recommendations are followed by the courts when there is a reason the judge may make a different decision. Therefore often it can be better challenging the report in court based on law and evidence.

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