Did he ever love me?

Hi Sadrhino,

Welcome to wiki. I was in your situation 16 months ago. My ex had been having an affair for 12 months when he finally came clean and told me. It was with a girl 27 years he junior.

At that time my whole world fell apart, how could the person I loved with my life have done this. I could not eat or sleep, I was lost and alone. It was the love I have for my son that kept me going. He was my reason for getting out of bed in the morning and forcing myself to carry on.

You may not think it now but it will get easier, when you reach rock bottom there is only one way to go. It will be a painful and emotional time and each day you will feel differently but you will get stronger and you will get through this.

For now take care of yourself and your children, dont think about the future just think of the here and now and deal with it as best you can.

Thinking of you.


Poppie x