hello from the confused and desolute

i think my offer was better than fair as it cost me 20% more, than split everything down middle and i make CSA style 20% payments.

it keeps her in the house and even before any government help she ends up with more money left after bills than i do:(

i wont qualify for any govment help and will posibly spend 10 years in a bedsit, whilst she gets the large 3 bed house.

At 37 years old im thinking parttime job at maccas, to get me spending money and discounted food:woohoo:

jbb

JB
Blimey, go and find the nearest brick wall and bang your head against, give it a good go, it will just save time, because you will be doing it on more than one occasion.

If her solicitors suck her into a lengthy debate there is not much you can do.

The fairer you are, the more they want, the more they spend on solicitors. It does appear though, for some, a hard concept to grasp!!!

Tell me which maccas you will be working in, can pop along and get my free whopper.

this one please



thank you. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm lovin itB)

hey ive lived with her for 17 years, all my walls have dents in them:laugh:

this way i do get the chance to start a fresh life, my kids get to stay in thier bedrooms, she can have as many flings as she likes and i wont care about them anymore.

Whoppers are burger king,havnt got one local, but thier burgers are much nicer:silly:

feeling very good as i dont get drawn into any silly comments about whopersB)

jbb

Hi JB

You sound like you are really trying to be fair. It must be so frustrating.

I am sure that you will get some legal advice or help which will help your situation.

It is nice to hear you are thinking about your children, there are many out there that do not.

Your wife's solicitor should encourage the mediation route. Let's just hope that that is what they recommend for your wife and that it all can be dealt with properly.

Perhaps others here might be able to offer some guidance for you,in steering this in the right direction.

zara

Hi JBB
I think your attitude towards the divorce is to be admired and I sincerely hope you can help your wife to realise that xxx