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milou wrote:

Hi Mark,

Don't know if it helps, but my story is remarkably similar to yours and I felt/feel just the way you describe (including how she has changed since I found out what was happeing).

My familly and friends are being great and keep telling me in the end I will be better off, but I just wish that day could come soon. I know deep down that I was being taken for a fool for some years and that is hard to come to terms with when I thought my wife loved me.

Anyway keep looking to the point when things start to pick up again for you. I am doing the same and I know it wil happen one day.

Hi Milou

have you got children?

Yes I have 3 children.

The youngest 2 are too young to understand what is going on, but my Wife told my eldest that we had been growing apart for the last 2 years and it was bound to end up with us splitting up. That is a complete lie as far as I am concerned and, of course, I can't even tell my daughter the truth as it will look like I am trynig to turn her against her mother.

same here, my wife told me she was not interested in anyone else and subsequently she was, I am in limbo and she just denies talking about my revelations and poit blank refuses to talk to me. Friends tell me she is like the cat that got the cream and I don't know what she is telling her parents but they are having a huge role to play in my childrens upbringing and my weekday access has been stopped as a result of their problem with me, ????

tell me about your story then, get it off your chest