I'm new - What can I expect ?

She takes home £700 more than me, so I'd be really upset at paying her anything !

Today I saw her mobile and a mans name keeps cropping up on her text headers. She refuses to show me the messages despite showing me my sisters, which she says were out of order ones.

Finally she is threatening everybody with police visits if they disagree with her.

hi Captain Villa,
there is a strong possibility that there is a degree of post natal depression going on even now, I would firstly consider speaking to your GP OR HEALTH VISITOR and take it from there.the behavior your wife is exibiting re your baby's sleeping ,her possessiveness with him etc are not safe for your baby and her drinking also is a huge worry.many people can carry on day to day with this just below the surface but there are such risks involved regarding your child.her irrationality is a symptom ...calling the police isn't rational behaviour unless she's feeling threatened by being questioned.I wouldn't push her too far until you've spoken to a professional for advice.deal with issues re phonecalls etc after you've taken medical advice.

I totally see that point, honestly I do.

But.....to say, "I think you have an issue mentally", well the balloon will definatyely go up on that.

She is capable enough to get to work everyday and teach a classroom of kids presumably she makes this journey by public transport?She must also leave the child with carers when she is teaching full time I presume?
And yet you list with you she is a wreck, someones pulling your chain!
My ex made out she was depressed and always going to bed and always arguing and generally making it really miserable.When all the time she was out banging someone else daily.No wonder she was always tired.
If she's got the mobile superglued to her she's having an affair her depression will be caused by being stuck with you.
If she wants you to start financing a load of house improvements it's a dead cert.
All the best
Pete xx

Hmmmm....yeah

For the record, the school she works at is 200 yards away and the baby's carers (her parents) are 2 streets away.

On this very rare occasion I have to say I agree with Hawaythelads. Sorry.
Good luck. x

Papers came last night, from her to me.

They said that they want a divorce but no reasons yet. My Lawyer asays I have her on loads of counts.

I'm gobsmacked and devastated.