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What do I do??
Hi everyone I'm looking for some help/advice. I'm 62 been married for 29 years. The last year or so has been unbearable my husband(60) is out of work and just s ...
08 Feb 19, by Kingandi
Latest 06 Nov 19 by Ralphus Rufus
Replies:3
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Latest by Ralphus Rufus
06 Nov 19
Separated and severe depression
Hi my name is Anthony and i am 49 and my ex wife is 40 of twenty years left me 18 months ago and i am still struggling with depression and was told by counsello ...
12 Aug 19, by Coyne84
Latest 31 Oct 19 by Nikkimo
Replies:5
:856
Latest by Nikkimo
31 Oct 19
So...Now What?
Hi,

So here is my journey so far..

Met her 15 years ago at a joint course,together for 10 years or so before getting Married and purchased a h ...
26 Oct 19, by Ajw406
Latest 30 Oct 19 by TammyJ
Replies:2
:756
Latest by TammyJ
30 Oct 19
Well this is fun....
Hey,

So here's my story. Married 7 years ago to a girl I used to be at school with. We re-met about 15 years later at a school reunion when we were bot ...
21 Oct 19, by Enterprise1701
Replies:0
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How did I end up here?
Hi everyone, my name is Danamia.
This is an interesting forum and I look forward to some discussions and knowledge. ...
19 Sep 19, by Danamia
Replies:0
:743

Hello
Hi my name is Jayne and in process of divorce which is making me mentally and emotionally broken. I was with my husband 30yrs 10 cohabiting and 2weeks off of 20 ...
11 Sep 19, by Janwyn60
Replies:0
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Hello from me
More a re introduction!

I'm a McKenzie Friend who helps other in court. I went through it all myself about a decade ago (unexpected and unwanted hostil ...
29 Aug 19, by Steven Wade
Latest 29 Aug 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
29 Aug 19
Hi from Toronto
Hello all,
I am Ronald from Ontario. I have just ended a relationship and now I am fully focussing on my career. I am about to start my new business. ...
27 Aug 19, by RonaldHamick
Replies:0
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Early days feeling
Hi. I've just registered on this site as feeling very down.
Not used to talking about things but here goes.
Been married next week 25yrs, myself and hub ...
02 Aug 19, by Milli66
Latest 03 Aug 19 by Milli66
Replies:2
:617
Latest by Milli66
03 Aug 19
Hi all
Hi all, new to this site so I thought I'd say hello.

So I've now been separated 7 months, married 17 years, loyal loving and supportive husband. My ex ...
31 Jul 19, by BazJwill
Latest 03 Aug 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:2
:656
Latest by hadenoughnow
03 Aug 19
Clinging on for dear life
Where to start, I have been with my partner for five and a half years, I was quickly wooed by him due to my difficult past and clingy nature, so we very quickly ...
01 Apr 19, by beccyjc
Latest 02 Aug 19 by Buster007
Replies:1
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Latest by Buster007
02 Aug 19
Where do I start?
My husband and I have decided that our marriage is to finish and I just don’t know where to start.

Particularly when it comes to the financial situat ...
29 Jul 19, by Lindsbil
Latest 01 Aug 19 by Lindsbil
Replies:2
:593
Latest by Lindsbil
01 Aug 19
Struggling today
Hi everyone, 5 months ago I found out my husband had lied to me about money and also asked our daughter to lie to me, I flipped and told him to get out and he l ...
25 Jul 19, by Staysassy
Latest 26 Jul 19 by Allcry
Replies:1
:744
Latest by Allcry
26 Jul 19
Hi, newbie here
Hi, I'm 46 yrs old and have been married for just over 27 yrs but I'm not happy and haven't been for a long time.

We have 3 children aged 28, 24 and 15 ...
15 Jul 19, by confused1972
Latest 17 Jul 19 by Grrrrrrrrrr01
Replies:4
:470
Latest by Grrrrrrrrrr01
17 Jul 19
Selling Husban
Hi my name is Lucylou, my husband walked out 10 months ago, I have no idea where he is. There might be mental issues but nothing confirmed. Can I sell his car ...
10 Jul 19, by lucylou01
Latest 11 Jul 19 by lucylou01
Replies:2
:513
Latest by lucylou01
11 Jul 19
Require a template for proof of service
Hello. I am a process server in Canada. I was sent Divorce papers from England (Family Court at EAST MIDLANDS DIVORCE UNIT). I cannot locate any form of docu ...
10 Jul 19, by tumsey@shaw.ca
Latest 11 Jul 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
11 Jul 19
Hello.
What a great service this is!
Just starting out on this process although i have been living in an outhouse for 2 years with no bathroom attached ( I use the ...
30 Jun 19, by AJH911
Latest 01 Jul 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:491
Latest by rubytuesday
01 Jul 19
Intro
Hi there
I was married for 38 years _ my late husband passed away in 2011.

I subsequently remarried and had been married for around four years, the ...
16 Jun 19, by JJC!
Latest 18 Jun 19 by JJC!
Replies:2
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Latest by JJC!
18 Jun 19
Once again....
So here I am again - was her a number of years ago when I first got divorced - have since remarried and now the bombshell has dropped she wants to divorce - onl ...
18 Jun 19, by Notsealg
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Where on earth do I start?
Hi all,

So, here goes.

I met my wife at school, moved in together around 1988, bought our first house in 1991, married in 1993, boys born 1994 ...
17 Jun 19, by Beemad
Latest 18 Jun 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:2
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Latest by hadenoughnow
18 Jun 19
“Ring fenced “ Private school fees
Hi ...I’m recently divorced. My ex wife and i came to a financial agreement re assets and liabilities and included in the agreement £58k was “ring fenced ...
16 Jun 19, by Bob7777
Replies:0
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“Ring fenced “ Private school fees
Hi ...I’m recently divorced. My ex wife and i came to a financial agreement re assets and liabilities and included in the agreement £58k was “ring fenced ...
16 Jun 19, by Bob7777
Replies:0
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Hi - urgently need advice
Hi. Just stumbled upon this forum and now wishing I’d found it sooner. I’m after some advice before tomorrow morning if possible (sorry for short notice)
13 Jun 19, by _broken_
Latest 15 Jun 19 by Rickoshea
Replies:15
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Latest by Rickoshea
15 Jun 19
Funny how quick the milk turns sour
My wife left 4 weeks ago, I have reported incidents to the police and am in councilling dealing with emotional abuse for years. she just turned up lastnight sa ...
31 May 19, by Johnt1227
Latest 09 Jun 19 by Maggiemay123
Replies:3
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Latest by Maggiemay123
09 Jun 19
Ex wife going away
Hi, I’m a newbie to this,
my ex wife (still going through a divorce)
She is going away for two weeks on a cruise.
If she leaves our two children w ...
06 Jun 19, by timyslocy
Latest 07 Jun 19 by timyslocy
Replies:8
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Latest by timyslocy
07 Jun 19
Pension and offset
I have just received proposal for settlement he wants to buy my equity in the house £60,000 he proposed I keep my business sale money and take £43,000 from th ...
14 May 19, by Fairy dust
Latest 17 May 19 by Fairy dust
Replies:4
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Latest by Fairy dust
17 May 19
Hi....
Hello to everyone in this forum.
Hope we can all find some time to smile whilst going through this stressful time
08 May 19, by Jaguar77
Replies:0
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need help urgently
hi my ex partner left me over 3 years ago for another man we have 2 children together and when she left while i was at work she took my son and daughter with he ...
06 May 19, by daftact91
Latest 07 May 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
07 May 19
How to live together through divorce?
Hi everyone,

I'm new to this site and been muddling through the divorce process by myself but now I'm stumped...

I instigated a divorce after ...
21 Apr 19, by AMME159
Latest 21 Apr 19 by Cheesestring
Replies:1
:554
Latest by Cheesestring
21 Apr 19
Get over it doesnt help.
Hi 6 months in from the shock, still crying most nights. My head is so angry but my heart aches for him and our son doesnt mention him at all. I should hate him ...
08 Apr 19, by Hannah865
Latest 09 Apr 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:820
Latest by hadenoughnow
09 Apr 19
At a loss
I left my wife in November 2012 after I found she had an affair. It was amicable at first but then turned sour. I sought advice from a solicitor and was told th ...
05 Apr 19, by Mole54
Latest 05 Apr 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:551
Latest by hadenoughnow
05 Apr 19
At what point do you use the word 'ex'
Just a simple question, at what point do you refer to your partner as ex? Is it at the point of separation, during separation or at the moment of divorce? ...
04 Apr 19, by Farmer boy
Latest 04 Apr 19 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
04 Apr 19
Advice Post Divorce
I am hoping to get some advice/ help in relation to moving forward with my life post divorce.

I am in my 30s and recently divorced, it is coming up to ...
27 Feb 19, by Happiness Is
Latest 30 Mar 19 by Lymm
Replies:9
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Latest by Lymm
30 Mar 19
Still in shock
Hello.
Really still can’t believe I’m here.... never in a million years thought I’d be getting divorced, yet here I am.
I’m a 37 year old man. W ...
26 Mar 19, by JDM1982
Latest 30 Mar 19 by Lymm
Replies:5
:748
Latest by Lymm
30 Mar 19
Hi & help me please, I don't know what to do next.
Hi all

I did post a couple of months ago but Ive not got any further... with anything

I told my husband 5 months ago that it is over. Long st ...
17 Sep 18, by blacktulip
Latest 27 Mar 19 by blacktulip
Replies:5
:494
Latest by blacktulip
27 Mar 19
Hello !
Hello, I’ve been lurking a while & reading lots, so plucked up the courage to say hi!

It’s been over a month since she left me for someone else ...
14 Mar 19, by Hampshireman63
Latest 25 Mar 19 by Hampshireman63
Replies:4
:506
Latest by Hampshireman63
25 Mar 19
Another one bites the dust
A brief introduction at a very sad time of my life.
2 and a half months ago, whilst working away from my home, my wife of 11 years emailed to tell me that o ...
10 Sep 14, by ExiledDad
Latest 14 Feb 19 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
:481
Latest by WYSPECIAL
14 Feb 19
Jointly owned property in another EU country?
My first message but any advice how to deal with this? ...
05 Feb 19, by Orapist16
Latest 05 Feb 19 by Orapist16
Replies:2
:506
Latest by Orapist16
05 Feb 19
Hello this is my first post
Hi there,

I'm R and currently separated from my wife, who has mentioned divorce. I am here trying to not be naive and gen myself up for preparation for ...
03 Feb 19, by manr
Latest 03 Feb 19 by grassisgreener
Replies:1
:471
Latest by grassisgreener
03 Feb 19
Separated for 3 years
Hi I've been separated for 3 years now and we are now looking to finalise it via a divorce. Currently the family house that my self and our 2 children still liv ...
30 Jan 19, by Mary Jo
Latest 31 Jan 19 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
:519
Latest by WYSPECIAL
31 Jan 19

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