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An intro where do I go next? Hi, I am in the shock stage of separation at the moment as my wife has just walked out (2 weeks)and left me with the children (3). No warning - no indications ... 20 Feb 10, by Machiavelli Latest 21 Feb 10 by Lookto2012	Replies:4 :228	Latest by Lookto2012 21 Feb 10
After 20yrs am I naive? I finally broke up with my wife earlier this week after 19 1/2 yrs of marriage and a further 18months before hand, while things are still a bit raw I'm beginnin ... 19 Feb 10, by Pretamanteau Latest 21 Feb 10 by Lookto2012 1 2	Replies:11 :537	Latest by Lookto2012 21 Feb 10
Repondent won't respond to the petition. I petitioned my wife last year on an agreed 2 year separation. She has not responded to the Petition as she filed for bankruptcy 2 years ago and is now saying t ... 13 Feb 10, by ponymoore Latest 21 Feb 10 by .Charles	Replies:5 :330	Latest by .Charles 21 Feb 10
Help! My wife traded me in for a newer model 14 months ago leaving me at home with our 2 children (D 19 and L 17). She pushed me to divorce her and that seems to be g ... 18 Feb 10, by davehamilton Latest 21 Feb 10 by davehamilton 1 2	Replies:8 :494	Latest by davehamilton 21 Feb 10
Just starting the hard bit I told my husband 3 weeks ago that I wanted to separate. We will have been married 15 years in May. We have 2 children 12 & 7. I am the main wage earner. 20 Feb 10, by fionaatkins Latest 20 Feb 10 by rasher	Replies:2 :288	Latest by rasher 20 Feb 10
Where do you begin Hi Have been married for over 35 years and last year my husband left and is now living in a bedsit. He is still struggling to decide what he wants to do. I ... 19 Feb 10, by rosalind3 Latest 19 Feb 10 by Bon431	Replies:4 :213	Latest by Bon431 19 Feb 10
Hello! Hello everyone… Think I am a little late in introducing myself as I have been asking questions for a couple of months, but here goes! First ... 18 Feb 10, by kirstyg1234 Latest 18 Feb 10 by Donelovinhim	Replies:4 :206	Latest by Donelovinhim 18 Feb 10
New - any advice welcome My stbx mortgaged the house partly using proceeds from the sale of his former MH before I met him. Anyway, 8 years on and he wants to get divorced, I'v ... 23 Sep 09, by justdumped Latest 18 Feb 10 by justdumped 1 2 3	Replies:15 :718	Latest by justdumped 18 Feb 10
new here Hello all, New to this. Have filed for divorce (stbx has no idea - he will be served next week). Have a 3 year old girl and a dog and two cats and just try ... 13 Feb 10, by orange13 Latest 17 Feb 10 by orange13 1 2	Replies:9 :515	Latest by orange13 17 Feb 10
down in the dumps Hi everyone. I stumbled on this website just now after feeling depressed for the last couple of days and not knowing what to do with myself. My husband ... 16 Feb 10, by butterfly78 Latest 17 Feb 10 by butterfly78	Replies:5 :395	Latest by butterfly78 17 Feb 10
Lost and abandoned I found out early January that my husband of 13 years had been ... 14 Feb 10, by donashford Latest 16 Feb 10 by sharonp2 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:31 :1738	Latest by sharonp2 16 Feb 10
What Do I Do? Hi, I am in a bit of a weird situation. I got divorced in 2008 last year (Overseas) and it finalised last year. I have now found someone who I ... 15 Feb 10, by LondonGent Latest 16 Feb 10 by Elle	Replies:1 :255	Latest by Elle 16 Feb 10
breaking court orders/ ex let me live with her hi my ex as me charged with assault wich i srongly deny court orders i stay away injuction ive broke as ive gone and lived their even though her permission now ... 14 Feb 10, by callumman0151 Latest 15 Feb 10 by callumman0151	Replies:3 :213	Latest by callumman0151 15 Feb 10
can anyone help ? please hi im a 47yr old male living in uk, im going through difficult time,firstly im accussed of assault on my ex partner in october 09, im bailed by courts and have ... 15 Feb 10, by callumman0151	Replies:0 :213
Would good will be enough? I left my husband last September. We shared our poverty as happily as we could. When things got slightly better financially it seemed to be harder to share, God ... 13 Feb 10, by Was a good wife Latest 15 Feb 10 by Lucretia	Replies:2 :280	Latest by Lucretia 15 Feb 10
Broken - advice needed At Xmas my husband & I decided we were going to start a family (I am 37 with no kids). We had been together 12 years and married for 2 years. We had been th ... 10 Feb 10, by Scout2606 Latest 12 Feb 10 by needafreshstart 1 2	Replies:10 :571	Latest by needafreshstart 12 Feb 10
What do I do for the best? Hiya, Feel a bit strange doing this but have spent the last four weeks boring my friends to death with my situation and just can't face phoning them to ... 06 Feb 10, by skirmish Latest 10 Feb 10 by skirmish	Replies:4 :220	Latest by skirmish 10 Feb 10
he finally asked for a divorce and I am shattered After being separated for a couple of months, but saying that he loved me all along, my stbx asked for a divorce this weekend. I am shattered and see no hope a ... 10 Feb 10, by LeahS Latest 10 Feb 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :356	Latest by NellNoRegrets 10 Feb 10
stbx clothes hi just need some advice, stbx has moved out 5/6 weeks ago and most of his personal possessions, watches, clothes etc are still in the house. it just does not ... 08 Feb 10, by newyearnewme Latest 09 Feb 10 by Lucretia 1 2	Replies:8 :486	Latest by Lucretia 09 Feb 10
new and confused Hi there .. well i dont want to drag on with an introduction no one wants to read an issue on my life on a sunday . I am almost 30 years old a ... 19 Apr 09, by newandconfused Latest 09 Feb 10 by lookingahead 1 2	Replies:12 :463	Latest by lookingahead 09 Feb 10
Divorce My name is Jenni. I am a lady of a certain age about to go down the road of divorce. Although I am the respondent we have been seperated for 10years so are goin ... 09 Feb 10, by odonovan2 Latest 09 Feb 10 by odonovan2	Replies:5 :199	Latest by odonovan2 09 Feb 10
Bad Situation Hi New to this and just looking for advice. Wierd situation as to cut a long story short my Husband has been having an affair since March last year and I only f ... 08 Feb 10, by gillb1 Latest 09 Feb 10 by robinson25	Replies:2 :284	Latest by robinson25 09 Feb 10
Divorce, access and maitnenace/mortgage payments Hi, i,m john and on behalf of a friend i,m writing this post to see if anyone can give me some advice to pass onto my friend. My friend is div ... 08 Feb 10, by johnpaul100 Latest 08 Feb 10 by Donelovinhim	Replies:1 :248	Latest by Donelovinhim 08 Feb 10
Life and its challenges.. My husband told me our marriage was over about 3 weeks ago. Have just begun telling people, I suppose I felt it wasn't real until others knew. We have 2 childre ... 08 Feb 10, by perkins Latest 08 Feb 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :221	Latest by NellNoRegrets 08 Feb 10
23rd November 2008 Just another Sunday night, wife was standing ironing while we watched TV and I finished eating my dinner. She looked a bit fed up and I asked her if sh ... 10 Feb 09, by Just feelinglost Latest 08 Feb 10 by newyearnewme	Replies:6 :224	Latest by newyearnewme 08 Feb 10
Advice needed Hi, my husband and I have decided to divorce, and I am going to see a solicitor tomorrow, I have been advised to get a seperation order drawn up, as we currentl ... 07 Feb 10, by needafreshstart Latest 08 Feb 10 by Elle	Replies:4 :221	Latest by Elle 08 Feb 10
Introduction Hello Well I have to say I feel quite lucky I've read some of your ordeals and can't believe what a horrific time people have had. I left my h ... 07 Feb 10, by Divorcesoon Latest 07 Feb 10 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:1 :186	Latest by Itgetsbetter 07 Feb 10
Worst Week Ever Hi All, I am into my fourth week and being honest, this is my worst week ever. Infact it has felt like the worst week of my life. I thought i ... 05 Feb 10, by Charllie Latest 06 Feb 10 by skirmish 1 2	Replies:7 :507	Latest by skirmish 06 Feb 10
Kicked husband out of house Hi, I am new on here. I have recently kicked my husband out of our house because I have found out he has been having an affair and he has admitted it, ... 05 Feb 10, by 50andfree Latest 05 Feb 10 by 50andfree	Replies:2 :384	Latest by 50andfree 05 Feb 10
starting off Hi, im just starting the process of divorce, want to do it myself and avoid solisitor fees as me and my husband have agreed to divorce. Our marital home is up f ... 04 Feb 10, by SarahSonley Latest 04 Feb 10 by dukey	Replies:1 :327	Latest by dukey 04 Feb 10
Hi All, been treatened with enforcment order. Hi, I must say this site is really good, I am new but have been reading through the threads, it seems so helpful. Wonder if anyone is in my position? My ex has ... 04 Feb 10, by missisie Latest 04 Feb 10 by missisie	Replies:4 :205	Latest by missisie 04 Feb 10
New member Hi My name is Alan.. Well I suppose this is just the start of a long and winding road. Recieved a Petition yesterday. 03 Feb 10, by alan1j Latest 03 Feb 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :258	Latest by NellNoRegrets 03 Feb 10
mortgage, children, benefits hi, first time here, can anyone help me please, My wife and i have had a joint mortgage for 10 years, she paid the initial 4k deposit but has been unemploye ... 03 Feb 10, by robocop33 Latest 03 Feb 10 by robocop33	Replies:2 :236	Latest by robocop33 03 Feb 10
CAN HE DO THIS ????? Hi, I am new to this site and have a question. We have both consulted solicitors for free advice but neither of us has started proceedings as yet. My OH is ... 24 Jan 10, by SHOEBABE5 Latest 02 Feb 10 by .Charles 1 2	Replies:9 :513	Latest by .Charles 02 Feb 10
help needed!!! I am currently going through my divorce, I am desperate for info as my legal aid is running out! My solicitor is not being overly helpful. Can anyone tell me ab ... 02 Feb 10, by char1234 Latest 02 Feb 10 by perrypower	Replies:3 :242	Latest by perrypower 02 Feb 10
oh my god! Hi I am new member. My situation is messy. My husband came home 4 weeks before our 2nd child was due and said he didn't love me anymore but he would stay with m ... 31 Jan 10, by soup1 Latest 02 Feb 10 by MooToo 1 2	Replies:7 :583	Latest by MooToo 02 Feb 10
No longer love him I've only joined Wikivorce recently and am wondering if anyone out there is in the same situation as me. I have been married for 9 years, have two children, and ... 01 Feb 10, by Zobo Latest 02 Feb 10 by Zobo	Replies:5 :232	Latest by Zobo 02 Feb 10
Hi, new here Hi all, just thought I would introduce myself here before posting questions etc. Im Lea So, hi everybody. ... 01 Feb 10, by leavened star Latest 01 Feb 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :258	Latest by NellNoRegrets 01 Feb 10
I want a divorce Just introducing myself, I have been married for the last 21years. I have a 16year old daughter. My husband has not worked for the last 5 years and says he is t ... 01 Feb 10, by Lydie B Latest 01 Feb 10 by Lydie B	Replies:2 :241	Latest by Lydie B 01 Feb 10
Advice please Hi I am now on here, I will a bit of background first Married 15 years 2 children 11 and 14. 14 months ago caught him having a realtionship over the i ... 31 Jan 10, by Hiphop Latest 01 Feb 10 by jjenkins1 1 2	Replies:9 :553	Latest by jjenkins1 01 Feb 10

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