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Need Advice......... Hi, I have just joined this forum and I must say if I knew it actually existed I would have joined a long time ago. Oh where do I start?? Well I wa ... 15 Jan 10, by theunlucky1 Latest 16 Jan 10 by theunlucky1	Replies:1 :231	Latest by theunlucky1 16 Jan 10
One last step Hello all, I would welcome any advice/help. I've been divorced for exactly a year. I moved from the marital home with our two sons ( 18 & 12yrs) over two y ... 15 Jan 10, by qqb85s Latest 15 Jan 10 by Milby	Replies:5 :411	Latest by Milby 15 Jan 10
Like so many others here! I have read many of the posts and can very easily relate to what I am seeing and reading here. The rollercoaster of emotions, the lack of sleep, the ups and dow ... 25 Nov 09, by Milby Latest 15 Jan 10 by Milby 1 2	Replies:8 :565	Latest by Milby 15 Jan 10
thanks for your support I found wikivorce a few days ago, I guess, and went into the online chat areas to listen and watch and get some support. My wife told me a couple days ... 04 Jan 10, by realdad Latest 15 Jan 10 by realdad 1 2	Replies:13 :642	Latest by realdad 15 Jan 10
Hello Hello all, Husband and I have decided to go our separate ways. More my decision than his but he has agreed we can no longer be together. We've been in ... 15 Jan 10, by Tink28 Latest 15 Jan 10 by Tets	Replies:1 :220	Latest by Tets 15 Jan 10
User Name Hi Can I change my user name and if so how? Or do I just have to create a brand new profile? Thanks ... 15 Jan 10, by chocolategirl Latest 15 Jan 10 by rubytuesday	Replies:3 :237	Latest by rubytuesday 15 Jan 10
New here.... Just posting to say hello. Here's a bit of my story. Been with my bloke 14 years, married for 5, we've got 4 children from 10y to 2y old. Thin ... 13 Jan 10, by jemimapuddleduck Latest 15 Jan 10 by startagain	Replies:5 :273	Latest by startagain 15 Jan 10
Tough Times Am new to the Wiki site but it is great to see lots of people in the same boat as me! I have been divorced for 2 years now. Husband moved to Turkey initiall ... 14 Jan 10, by bubble1705 Latest 15 Jan 10 by bubble1705	Replies:2 :238	Latest by bubble1705 15 Jan 10
hello hello just joined so saying hello. Just found so incriminating evidence on my pc re wife and a man after review the keylogger software installed to mon ... 13 Jan 10, by coyote Latest 15 Jan 10 by chris75	Replies:6 :226	Latest by chris75 15 Jan 10
Going Backwards Hi, I'm recently seperated from my husband of 28years after he told me he'd been having an affair for seven years. I forgave him initially and wanted him back m ... 11 Jan 10, by jal999 Latest 14 Jan 10 by Donelovinhim 1 2 3	Replies:14 :716	Latest by Donelovinhim 14 Jan 10
Just introducing myself Hi, the week before Christmas I asked my wife what was wrong and what I could do to help as she'd been seeming quite low from the previous Thursday. I expected ... 11 Jan 10, by beatledrive Latest 14 Jan 10 by Lucretia	Replies:6 :285	Latest by Lucretia 14 Jan 10
Hello Hi - I'm going through a divorce - husband decided he did not want to be married after 16 years and two lovely boys. There was 'no one else' although he introd ... 13 Jan 10, by bel9195 Latest 13 Jan 10 by bel9195	Replies:3 :178	Latest by bel9195 13 Jan 10
Where do I start My Husband blurted out that he didn't want to be married to me anymore, about 5 months ago. If I'm honest, things hadn't been right for some time. He stopped we ... 13 Jan 10, by LOYLOY Latest 13 Jan 10 by Milby	Replies:1 :259	Latest by Milby 13 Jan 10
Where do I begin?? I am in the process of seperating with my wife, to whom I have been married for 18 months. We have one-year-old daughter who nmeans the world to us both, and it ... 09 Jan 10, by boyle Latest 12 Jan 10 by boyle	Replies:6 :220	Latest by boyle 12 Jan 10
10 years on -Back at square one!! Hi all, I hope one of you wise people can help me. I was divorced from my husband in 1999, but we reconciled and have been living together for ... 12 Jan 10, by elsbeth Latest 12 Jan 10 by elsbeth 1 2	Replies:10 :539	Latest by elsbeth 12 Jan 10
What happens after 2 Years Hi Folks I was adviced by the police to leave my home due to d/abuse. I have lived in refuges for severfal months and now find out that I only have 2 ... 11 Jan 10, by AmostFree Latest 11 Jan 10 by AmostFree	Replies:2 :223	Latest by AmostFree 11 Jan 10
diy divorce help needed my husband of 30 years has been having an affair with my best friend,he is trying to put the blame on me by saying its my fault i have not shown him enough love ... 10 Jan 10, by sharpoppy Latest 11 Jan 10 by sharpoppy	Replies:3 :280	Latest by sharpoppy 11 Jan 10
Want to get divorced I am feeling a bit stuck. We live in Gloucestershire with 3 kids aged 7, 5 and 2. We've been married just over 9 years but I have been unhappy for some time. Ne ... 11 Jan 10, by bibsmum Latest 11 Jan 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :210	Latest by NellNoRegrets 11 Jan 10
Left on my own My wife of 34 years formed a close emotional relationship with another man 3 year ago she told me and it stopped before it had gone too far. But this august it ... 26 Dec 09, by prm7 Latest 11 Jan 10 by prm7	Replies:5 :245	Latest by prm7 11 Jan 10
Xmas eve at 4:51 What a good site! Iv'e been awake for 2 hours as sleep has abandoned me again. Looking outside its a snowy morning 1st one at xmas I can remeber in years. Trial ... 24 Dec 09, by tigger2 Latest 11 Jan 10 by mum2.2girls 1 2	Replies:10 :561	Latest by mum2.2girls 11 Jan 10
partners ex breaches contact order continuously New to this site.I have been with partner for 18 months and he has been divorced for a year (he was separated when we met) His ex took him to court to arrange a ... 09 Jan 10, by tory123 Latest 10 Jan 10 by zonked	Replies:6 :266	Latest by zonked 10 Jan 10
Seperation My husband left me on boxing day 2009 yes 2 weeks ago, said he had not loved me for two years and had had enough. I did not know there were any problems he ... 09 Jan 10, by Diamonds Latest 10 Jan 10 by Milby	Replies:4 :181	Latest by Milby 10 Jan 10
I am an elderly person considering divorce I am in my 70s and thinking about divorce.So much stress and anger from my kids though I have been unhappy for many many years. I have a state pension and a ... 10 Jan 10, by LEFEVREBOB Latest 10 Jan 10 by Tets	Replies:2 :371	Latest by Tets 10 Jan 10
Considering divorce I am new to blogs but thought maybe those familiar with divorce could give me some insights. I live in the US on a small farm. I have 5 dogs and 1 horse. I have ... 08 Jan 10, by Elazar Latest 08 Jan 10 by rubytuesday	Replies:3 :221	Latest by rubytuesday 08 Jan 10
My unusual situation! I have been living apart from my wife for 3 years (This time - we were apart for 4 years from '94 to '98) Our children are now independant and in their own home ... 07 Jan 10, by notdavid Latest 08 Jan 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :221	Latest by NellNoRegrets 08 Jan 10
newbie with a question hello to all my name is michael 34 from essex i am after some advise as i am thinking about leaving my wife of 8 years and getting a divorce,she just doesn' ... 05 Jan 10, by mickyf Latest 07 Jan 10 by Marshy_ 1 2 3	Replies:14 :796	Latest by Marshy_ 07 Jan 10
Really really need advice re financial settlement Hi there, I had my decree Nisi through in September and am due to go into an expensive court battle in a few months due to ex-husband refusing to discl ... 06 Jan 10, by twinkletoes26 Latest 06 Jan 10 by Donelovinhim	Replies:2 :233	Latest by Donelovinhim 06 Jan 10
Advice Please! Hi, i think after 11 years, my marriage is now over. I have a lovely house that after inheritance money for both me and my wife, is nearly paid off. We have bee ... 01 Jan 10, by merlot1962 Latest 06 Jan 10 by narnia 1 2 3 4	Replies:21 :871	Latest by narnia 06 Jan 10
where do i start? hello everyone, and I am sure you are going to be able to support me over the next whenever and I am sure you have heard this before... where do i start....... ... 27 Dec 09, by newyearnewme Latest 05 Jan 10 by Hoping for better 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:40 :1388	Latest by Hoping for better 05 Jan 10
life!!! just joined this site not quite sure what to say but here goes:was in a top marriage for 8 1/2 years moved away from my own family to be with my wife,we have to ... 28 Dec 09, by minty1234 Latest 05 Jan 10 by minty1234	Replies:5 :235	Latest by minty1234 05 Jan 10
Finally realised divorce is the only answer We have been married 39 years with 3 adult children who do not live with us. For the past 2 years our marriage has been virtually over and my husband is out ev ... 01 Jan 10, by Holly8 Latest 04 Jan 10 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:7 :582	Latest by Shezi 04 Jan 10
Child Contact We were in the process of buying our first house last December when my husband decided he didn't want to be with me anymore. So we separated, he wouldn't move o ... 03 Jan 10, by Blackmood Latest 03 Jan 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :248	Latest by NellNoRegrets 03 Jan 10
another bad year behind me. i really though i would be free of my husband by now but its just not happening. another destroyed new years eve! i wish i was strong enough. he makes me feel s ... 01 Jan 10, by choc123mich123 Latest 03 Jan 10 by girrelephant 1 2	Replies:8 :484	Latest by girrelephant 03 Jan 10
hello to all Hi to all, My story: Was married for 17 years with 2 kids (now 16 and 14). in feb 07, found out my wife had been having an affair with a close f ... 03 Jan 10, by badger333 Latest 03 Jan 10 by Milby	Replies:5 :255	Latest by Milby 03 Jan 10
Hello Hi, i seperated from my x husband 10 months ago and am wondering if anyone else in this situation is finding it hard to move on and start life again, i have mov ... 02 Jan 10, by my freedom Latest 02 Jan 10 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :203	Latest by NellNoRegrets 02 Jan 10
advice needed please hello , i have been seperated since may 2004 . i want to start devorce proceedings , but i dont know where ex partner is living ! i think she still lives in and ... 26 Dec 09, by monners Latest 02 Jan 10 by Debbiew	Replies:2 :230	Latest by Debbiew 02 Jan 10
Just incredibly sad Hello. This is my first time at this type of thing but really feel the need to get help and tips from those that have experienced what I am now going through.< ... 30 Dec 09, by Crol Latest 01 Jan 10 by whitepetal 1 2 3	Replies:14 :657	Latest by whitepetal 01 Jan 10
what a terrible xmas Just come across your site, am hopping with your support I might actually get through this! My wife has been distancing me for quite a while, but in Septemb ... 28 Dec 09, by mart1968 Latest 01 Jan 10 by Lucretia 1 2 3 ... 8	Replies:53 :2058	Latest by Lucretia 01 Jan 10
Can it get any worse I've planned my early retirement for a long time. I was even putting 6% of my salary into my pension when I was an 18 year old apprentice. Well the time arrived ... 31 Dec 09, by Kinrara Latest 31 Dec 09 by elvis_fan	Replies:2 :234	Latest by elvis_fan 31 Dec 09
Newbie! Hallo all. I am new! I am 41, divorced, a teacher and I live in Austria! I am a non resident mother. Not a bitter one at all! I am ... 29 Dec 09, by Sommer1 Latest 30 Dec 09 by Sommer1	Replies:4 :200	Latest by Sommer1 30 Dec 09

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