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HOW did I become the enemy??

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02 Aug 13 #403088 by MrsMathsisfun
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When the party that is was left behind / replaced by ow/om moves on and makes a new life despite the hurt and betrayal, the one who had the affair have to accept that maybe they are the flawed one and they really don''t like it!!

The best revenge is definitely to be happy and live life to the full.

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03 Aug 13 #403132 by Nigella19
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Speaking as a burnt down shed that smouldered for a long time, there are many wise words in this great thread.

Gosh, I love that shed analogy.

Nige

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18 Aug 13 #404780 by Onajourney
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I like that yes I am definitely a burnt down shed and I am sure that there are quite a few on this forum. Still it''s nice to know that your not on your own.Sometimes its difficult to know how things are going to turnout but for me at the moment denial i feel is ending and i can see the truth was what I new all along.

Stay strong.

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