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Feeling so confused with current relationship.....

tillibud
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11 Sep 13 #406854 by tillibud

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Thank you all for your advice.

I do feel comfortable sharing my feelings with him and he does with me to a point but it''s that point that may cause a problem in the future. I don''t want to be with him, no matter how deep my feelings are if he can''t communicate with me , it''s important to me and I am not willing to change who i am and what i want, so I would walk away. In the meantime he has all the time and patience from me to try but if it doesn''t work then we just weren''t meant to be together.

Shoegirl
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11 Sep 13 #406896 by Shoegirl

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Sorry I had understood that you were trying not to show your insecurities to him from you previous post.

Glad you are comfortable sharing your feelings.

tillibud
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11 Sep 13 #406922 by tillibud

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Sorry Shoegirl, what I meant is I can share my feelings with him about how I feel, I have shared a little bit of my insecurities with him but try not to show too much on that as I am conscious of driving him away. My insecurities are caused by my past and his inability to communicate deeply doesnt help me but I don''t want to apportion blame as that wouldn''t help either of us.

Does that make sense

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