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Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.

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What happens now? Well we have just had our first couples counselling session - 1/2 an hour each individually....he went first. He admitted to the counsellor that there ... 24 Aug 12, by Kazzabell80 Latest 28 Aug 12 by mag 1 2	Replies:12 :974	Latest by mag 28 Aug 12
I hate nightimes Hi Everyone My husband left me 3 days ago after 3 months of trying to live together following his "I no longer love you" speech then ... 22 Aug 12, by taff45 Latest 26 Aug 12 by taff45 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1004	Latest by taff45 26 Aug 12
Hobbies and interests in a relationship I am a big believer that both persons in a relationship should have hobbies and interests to keep the mind stimulated. Maybe these are ones that are shared tog ... 21 Aug 12, by not such a bad guy Latest 22 Aug 12 by hawaythelads 1 2	Replies:11 :785	Latest by hawaythelads 22 Aug 12
The wine drinking culture As a child born in the 70''s I remember how the typical working man had the proclaimed right to go for a beer on his way home from work. It was almost as if, h ... 19 Aug 12, by not such a bad guy Latest 21 Aug 12 by TeamWiki 1 2 3 4	Replies:27 :1665	Latest by TeamWiki 21 Aug 12
What am I doing? It will be seven weeks tomorrow that he walked out on me and our two children. I was absolutely devastated at first but as time goes on the urge to wan ... 19 Aug 12, by Kazzabell80 Latest 20 Aug 12 by Canuck425 1 2 3	Replies:18 :1026	Latest by Canuck425 20 Aug 12
Are certain ages a time bomb for a relationship? Does anyone else out there feel that there are certain ages that for men or women are almost like time bomb in a relationship. There are so many people that I h ... 15 Aug 12, by not such a bad guy Latest 17 Aug 12 by Stingrayj 1 2 3 4	Replies:27 :1604	Latest by Stingrayj 17 Aug 12
New Partner seeing Old Boyfriend I''ve not used the site for a long time as divorce is a distant memory and life is good on the whole. I''ve been seeing a lady for about 3-4 months, be ... 12 Aug 12, by Itgetsbetter Latest 14 Aug 12 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:13 :936	Latest by Marshy_ 14 Aug 12
getting psychiatric help Hi, my marriage is falling apart, threats of divorce etc. We have 4 children, all under the age of 11. Now, without going into too many details, I real ... 11 Aug 12, by Progressor Latest 13 Aug 12 by soulruler	Replies:6 :336	Latest by soulruler 13 Aug 12
The "Other Woman" Hi everyone Was hoping for some advice on how to cope with jealousy and suspicion. I now know there is woman who is involved with my husband, he howeve ... 13 Aug 12, by taff45 Latest 13 Aug 12 by Boo2u21964	Replies:3 :408	Latest by Boo2u21964 13 Aug 12
dealing with the lose of others In brief I have no real idea why my husband married me but my beflief was for finanical, and someone to take care of him generally, while his love interest is w ... 22 Jul 12, by Lori321 Latest 11 Aug 12 by Action	Replies:5 :282	Latest by Action 11 Aug 12
How to finally end it when living together.. Hoping for some advice please. I told my husband I wanted to end our marriage a month ago now. I won''t go into all the details but no-one else is involved or ... 07 Aug 12, by sunshine5050 Latest 07 Aug 12 by sunshine5050 1 2	Replies:7 :829	Latest by sunshine5050 07 Aug 12
Update and a thank you Hi everyone Just wanted to share an update with you all on how things are. but most of all wanted to say a great big "thank you" to t ... 07 Aug 12, by taff45 Latest 07 Aug 12 by maisymoos	Replies:2 :358	Latest by maisymoos 07 Aug 12
Just seperated I came across this site purely by chance one evening when I was scouring the net looking for help. I am so glad that I found you all 29 Jul 12, by Kazzabell80 Latest 07 Aug 12 by Kazzabell80 1 2 3 ... 7	Replies:43 :2360	Latest by Kazzabell80 07 Aug 12
How to divorce in Florida Hello, Please tell me step by step divorce process in Florida ... 26 Jul 12, by mariascott Latest 26 Jul 12 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :435	Latest by rubytuesday 26 Jul 12
The Prison Analogy I think most of us could relate to the analogy of being in prison when you are going through a messy and protracted divorce: the loneliness and isolation, the f ... 24 Jul 12, by QPRanger Latest 25 Jul 12 by QPRanger	Replies:6 :897	Latest by QPRanger 25 Jul 12
There''s no going back I''m not sure I fully qualify to be here but as the title says, there''s no going back, at least right now there doesn''t seem to be anything more to say than i ... 23 Jul 12, by mya Latest 25 Jul 12 by taff45	Replies:5 :594	Latest by taff45 25 Jul 12
Why? I am sick of seeing my friend in pain, worried to death. Her ex left her and the kids for someone else 5 years ago. He has lived his new life (cancellin ... 23 Jul 12, by hattiedaw Latest 24 Jul 12 by revenge	Replies:3 :639	Latest by revenge 24 Jul 12
Help, this is ripping me apart. I have three kids, 13, 11, 9. One new partner of one year, separated now divorced from their father almost 3 yrs. Middle child hates new partner, and I have unt ... 23 Jul 12, by Cinnabar123 Latest 23 Jul 12 by mya	Replies:1 :347	Latest by mya 23 Jul 12
How do I live with him? Hi Am feeling pretty desperate at the moment and hoping sharing here will help. Heres a quick version of my situation. My of 19 years, and fa ... 21 Jul 12, by taff45 Latest 22 Jul 12 by Crumpled 1 2 3 4	Replies:22 :1703	Latest by Crumpled 22 Jul 12
Should I ask for a decision? Not sure if this is the right place to post but could use some advice. My partner has two children aged 4 and 5, he has been seperated for 3 years. Initially ... 17 Jul 12, by Jenna29 Latest 22 Jul 12 by jar of hearts 1 2	Replies:11 :869	Latest by jar of hearts 22 Jul 12
Happy but sad at same time Well just thought i would share something with you all, something i have very mixed feelings about. Last night my stbx announced that he is seeing some ... 11 Jul 12, by missguided Latest 13 Jul 12 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:11 :912	Latest by Marshy_ 13 Jul 12
I saw this today and it resonated with me ''When somebody walks out of your life, let them. There is no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your futu ... 10 Jul 12, by Sunshine10 Latest 10 Jul 12 by yellowrose	Replies:4 :344	Latest by yellowrose 10 Jul 12
Abuse & Relationship: Charming Man Please see the link below. It can apply to men or women More importantly what can be done and what aspects of law are there for protection and ... 10 Jul 12, by Yummy_Mummy Latest 10 Jul 12 by Fiona	Replies:2 :461	Latest by Fiona 10 Jul 12
Back again......So soon !!!!! Hi everyone Back again ! After a brief spell of trying to work things out and many positive signs such as making plans for the future, holiday ... 06 Jul 12, by Down_in_a_hole Latest 07 Jul 12 by Now Gone From Wiki	Replies:3 :514	Latest by Now Gone From Wiki 07 Jul 12
"why are you so angry?"...she asked I''m OK...but I''m not OK "really." That''s how I feel at the moment. I felt "OK"...for many weeks...now I''m sitting here i ... 02 Jul 12, by samchik1 Latest 03 Jul 12 by hattiedaw 1 2	Replies:9 :815	Latest by hattiedaw 03 Jul 12
wanting the truth Hi, I apologise in advance now, this has turned into a long rant! :-my husband is leaving at the end of the month, as yet to tell the children, but the hard ... 01 Jul 12, by lostlucy Latest 02 Jul 12 by Crumpled 1 2	Replies:11 :1177	Latest by Crumpled 02 Jul 12
The eve of her return from Europe I''m sitting here on the eve of my wife''s return to the UK. I have been away for a break with my son, my Mum, and her partner. We spent a week in the new fores ... 29 Jun 12, by samchik1 Latest 02 Jul 12 by Canuck425	Replies:3 :333	Latest by Canuck425 02 Jul 12
The next 24 hours Hi All Now starts one of the worst 24 hours of my life, the last time I felt like this was when I was lying in a hospital bed not knowing if I would be ... 22 Jun 12, by Down_in_a_hole Latest 29 Jun 12 by Marshy_	Replies:6 :490	Latest by Marshy_ 29 Jun 12
Can we live like this.... Hi All, My wife recently told me that she no longer felt the same way about me and said our marriage was over. There have been many tears shed ... 21 Jun 12, by bobbeckit Latest 25 Jun 12 by hawaythelads 1 2	Replies:13 :853	Latest by hawaythelads 25 Jun 12
What is my Ex entitled to I have just found out that my partner of 8 years and 1 day is on websites looking for new partners. As upset as I am, I am trying to keep a level head. ... 24 Jun 12, by Davidb2959 Latest 24 Jun 12 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :393	Latest by LittleMrMike 24 Jun 12
A bad week This has been a bad week. After no contact for several months I have had an abusive note left on the drive way in front of my house, 2 unpleasant emails regardi ... 17 Jun 12, by Warrior Princess Latest 22 Jun 12 by sim5355 1 2	Replies:8 :1061	Latest by sim5355 22 Jun 12
Advice needed please (HELP) Hi All Just a quick question as I am getting a little tetchy at the moment. She comes back from holiday on Saturday, no doubt will be full of life desp ... 21 Jun 12, by Down_in_a_hole Latest 21 Jun 12 by jslgb	Replies:1 :348	Latest by jslgb 21 Jun 12
Coping with separation Hello all, Apologies in advance for the long post.. I am having such difficulty coming to terms with it all. My wife & I separated eight m ... 20 Jun 12, by WN4 Latest 21 Jun 12 by Canuck425	Replies:2 :379	Latest by Canuck425 21 Jun 12
Can you really be "just friends"? So two nights ago my ex and I had a heated Internet chat discussion from either side of the English Channel. It wasn''t quite Agincourt...but not far off. Thing ... 13 Jun 12, by samchik1 Latest 19 Jun 12 by donkler 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:41 :1869	Latest by donkler 19 Jun 12
Father''s day Good morning, My daughter are young women now and decided that they do not want to see their father on this special day,their choice. ... 17 Jun 12, by afonleas Latest 17 Jun 12 by jslgb 1 2	Replies:7 :754	Latest by jslgb 17 Jun 12
How to deal with ex? Hello, I was working today,so ex husband had our daughter,as he was off.We both spoke about this couple times,and he agree to take her.Looks everything ... 16 Jun 12, by coliuke Latest 17 Jun 12 by hattiedaw 1 2	Replies:9 :674	Latest by hattiedaw 17 Jun 12
Somebody said to me today... Wasn''t sure where to post this but...somebody said to me today "Life must be treating you good". I thought how ironic....my husband has left ... 13 Jun 12, by Sunshine10 Latest 15 Jun 12 by DrManhattan1	Replies:2 :369	Latest by DrManhattan1 15 Jun 12
Getting to grips with things So I''m two weeks into a difficult period for me. As many of you know, the ex is away for a while over the summer. I''m somehow trying to look after our son 24/ ... 11 Jun 12, by samchik1 Latest 11 Jun 12 by hawaythelads	Replies:4 :312	Latest by hawaythelads 11 Jun 12
Domestic Abuse and Recovery Hello I am very worried as there has been Domestic Abuse from both parties and divorce has been submitted by both parties. There has been phys ... 07 Jun 12, by Yummy_Mummy Latest 08 Jun 12 by jaw	Replies:4 :311	Latest by jaw 08 Jun 12
Controlling, obsessive husband Hi, Any advice appreciated. I only married last july and am now considering ending my Marriage as my Husbands behaviour is becoming increasingly irrational. ... 05 Jun 12, by ScobbyDoo Latest 07 Jun 12 by ScobbyDoo	Replies:4 :543	Latest by ScobbyDoo 07 Jun 12

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