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Background: they are aged 4 and 6 and have been kept..." class=" topictitle">How to tell young children</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> <img src=data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHdpZHRoPSIyMCIgaGVpZ2h0PSIyMCI+PC9zdmc+ data-src=https://d1wvzw4tebwj88.cloudfront.net/media/kunena/emoticons/unsure.png alt=:unsure: title=:unsure: class="bbcode_smiley jch-lazyload" width=20 height=20 /><noscript><img src=https://d1wvzw4tebwj88.cloudfront.net/media/kunena/emoticons/unsure.png alt=:unsure: title=:unsure: class=bbcode_smiley width=20 height=20 /></noscript>Help,<br> <br> stbex plans on moving out of mh in a few d ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 29 Jul 08, by <span class=kwho-user>tiredandemotional</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/36019-how-to-tell-young-children#36326 title="Dear stillalive, Thanks a million for your practical advice, really useful, have spoken to stbex and he is willing to gloss over things and not get dramatic. 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I've read quite a bit about this now & am hoping that I'll be able to finally complete the C1 form soon, temporary removal seems quite..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 27 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-user>Free_at_last</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/advice/children/26659-taking-child-abroad?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children/26659-taking-child-abroad?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children/26659-taking-child-abroad?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>15</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>2803</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/advice/children/26659-taking-child-abroad?start=14#29213" title="Thank you for the link, I haven't received anything via email. I've read quite a bit about this now & am hoping that I'll be able to finally complete the C1 form soon, temporary removal seems quite..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Free_at_last</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 27 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/28525-private-child-maintenance-arrangements><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/28525-private-child-maintenance-arrangements title="Hi. My ex and I have discussed and agreed a level of child support. It is less than the CSA calculation. Is there a way to draw up the agreement? i am under the impression it cannot be done within..." class=" topictitle">Private Child Maintenance arrangements</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi.<br> My ex and I have discussed and agreed a level of child support. It is less than the CSA calculation.<br> <br> Is there a way to draw up the agreement? i ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 24 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-user>Robert1977</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/28525-private-child-maintenance-arrangements#28530 title="A private arrangement is where you and your ex-partner decide between yourselves how much child maintenance should be paid. This means you don’t need to involve other people in the decision. What..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 24 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-user>Angel557</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>1</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>706</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/28525-private-child-maintenance-arrangements#28530 title="A private arrangement is where you and your ex-partner decide between yourselves how much child maintenance should be paid. This means you don’t need to involve other people in the decision. What..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Angel557</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 24 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/28041-my-family-is-changing><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/28041-my-family-is-changing title="Dear All Just to let you know that Cafcass has now put its workbooks for children whose parents are separating online here: www.cafcass.gov.uk/publications/leaflets_for_children.aspx There..." class=" topictitle">My Family Is Changing</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Dear All<br> <br> Just to let you know that Cafcass has now put its workbooks for children whose parents are separating online here:<br> <br> <a class="bbcode_u ... </div> </div><div class="pull-right"> </div><div class=started> 23 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-blocked>D L</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/28041-my-family-is-changing#28197 title="thanks amanda very useful! Good to find something for younger children. Jude" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 23 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-blocked>ivorytower</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>1</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>678</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/28041-my-family-is-changing#28197 title="thanks amanda very useful! Good to find something for younger children. Jude" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>ivorytower</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 23 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/27656-ex-wife-is-taking-kids-on-holiday-with-out-my-knol><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/27656-ex-wife-is-taking-kids-on-holiday-with-out-my-knol title="me and my wife are divorced from january but financial has not been finalise nor has excess been agreed but my two children stay with me at the weekends..... My ex and her partner have booked a..." class=" topictitle">ex wife is taking kids on holiday with out my knol</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> me and my wife are divorced from january but financial has not been finalise nor has excess been agreed but my two children stay with me at the weekends.....<br ... </div> </div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 20 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-user>ancona</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/27656-ex-wife-is-taking-kids-on-holiday-with-out-my-knol#27800 title="I'm sorry she's not keeping you informed, I took my child abroad with me at Easter, for 4 weeks & didn't tell my ex but I would love to have good clear communication & to feel able to tell hum, but he..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 21 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-user>Free_at_last</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1040</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/27656-ex-wife-is-taking-kids-on-holiday-with-out-my-knol#27800 title="I'm sorry she's not keeping you informed, I took my child abroad with me at Easter, for 4 weeks & didn't tell my ex but I would love to have good clear communication & to feel able to tell hum, but he..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Free_at_last</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 21 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/26545-children-accepted-into-the-family-scotland><i class="fa fa-comment fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/26545-children-accepted-into-the-family-scotland title="Can anyoneplease explain exactly what "children accepted into the family" means please? I have had conflicting advice on this. I have 2 children from a previous relationship from before I got..." class=" topictitle">children accepted into the family. (scotland)</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Can anyoneplease explain exactly what "children accepted into the family" means please? I have had conflicting advice on this.<br> <br> I have 2 child ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 16 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-moderator>rubytuesday</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>0</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>675</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/26193-children-keep-things-honest><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/26193-children-keep-things-honest title="I have just been reading through a lot of the posts. What I find amasing is that there are so main things mentioned by people, mothers and fathers, that I am getting accussed of personally. As a..." class=" topictitle">Children - keep things honest</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I have just been reading through a lot of the posts. What I find amasing is that there are so main things mentioned by people, mothers and fathers, that I am ge ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 13 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-user>cody girl</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/26193-children-keep-things-honest#26241 title="Cody Girl, Thank you for clearly articulate some points that I have found hard to appreciate, I am tempted to post again.... So the incredibly hard issue for me has been to (me). (Especially after..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-user>Kalamari</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>1</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>600</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/26193-children-keep-things-honest#26241 title="Cody Girl, Thank you for clearly articulate some points that I have found hard to appreciate, I am tempted to post again.... So the incredibly hard issue for me has been to (me). (Especially after..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Kalamari</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/26099-when-ex-remarries-do-payments-go-down><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/26099-when-ex-remarries-do-payments-go-down title="Hi , Im new to this site and im looking for a little advice. I have tried emailing the CSA , but because im not on there books , they will not advice me. I pay £260 a month to my ex wife to care for..." class=" topictitle">when ex remarries do payments go down ?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi , Im new to this site and im looking for a little advice. I have tried emailing the CSA , but because im not on there books , they will not advice me.<br> I ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 12 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-user>kentman101</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/26099-when-ex-remarries-do-payments-go-down#26113 title="Re-marriage of a spouse ends her right to receive spousal maintenance, but this doesn't apply to children. In most cases the maintenance payable is linked to a fixed proportion of the payer's net..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 12 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-user>LittleMrMike</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>870</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/26099-when-ex-remarries-do-payments-go-down#26113 title="Re-marriage of a spouse ends her right to receive spousal maintenance, but this doesn't apply to children. In most cases the maintenance payable is linked to a fixed proportion of the payer's net..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>LittleMrMike</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 12 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/26051-who-can-help-me><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/26051-who-can-help-me title="My husband left to live with another family . During our marraige we had 4 children. I was a stay at home mum, as thats how we as parents wanted our children brought up. When my husband left he took..." class=" topictitle">Who can help me</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> My husband left to live with another family . During our marraige we had 4 children. I was a stay at home mum, as thats how we as parents wanted our children br ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 12 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-user>cody girl</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/advice/children/26051-who-can-help-me?start=7#26082" title="Dunno if this helps, but if u fancy a career in the NHS, then they pay ur study fees, and u also get a busary towards living costs and children. I was married wiv 2 kids when I trained to do..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 12 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-user>puffafish</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/advice/children/26051-who-can-help-me?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children/26051-who-can-help-me?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>8</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1323</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/advice/children/26051-who-can-help-me?start=7#26082" title="Dunno if this helps, but if u fancy a career in the NHS, then they pay ur study fees, and u also get a busary towards living costs and children. I was married wiv 2 kids when I trained to do..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>puffafish</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 12 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/24749-is-my-maintenance-reasonable><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/24749-is-my-maintenance-reasonable title="Hello New here and hoping someone can help. I've been separated from my husband for almost a year - we've tried many times in that time to get back on track, but are finally realising that we cannot..." class=" topictitle">Is my maintenance reasonable..?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hello<br> <br> New here and hoping someone can help.<br> <br> I've been separated from my husband for almost a year - we've tried many times in that time to get ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 04 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-user>Tequila</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/24749-is-my-maintenance-reasonable#25042 title="Just to clarify, if we were looking at maintenance for all 3 children, it would in fact be 25% of his nett income. 1 child = 15% 2 children = 20% 3 or more children = 25%" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 06 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-blocked>IKNOWNOW</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>709</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/24749-is-my-maintenance-reasonable#25042 title="Just to clarify, if we were looking at maintenance for all 3 children, it would in fact be 25% of his nett income. 1 child = 15% 2 children = 20% 3 or more children = 25%" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>IKNOWNOW</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 06 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/24837-help-potty-training><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/24837-help-potty-training title="I need some advice. My stbx keeps stopping and starting our two and half yeard old son with his potty training. If our recent split is not enough for him to deal with he ahs this to cope with as..." class=" topictitle">Help - potty training</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I need some advice. My stbx keeps stopping and starting our two and half yeard old son with his potty training. If our recent split is not enough for him to d ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 05 Jun 08, by <span class=kwho-user>jm53629</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/24837-help-potty-training#24853 title="I have to say that I really would not get too worked up about this. Also, very important, do not use this as a way to show your ex how well you can do with your son. It is frustrating if she is..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 05 Jun 08 by <span class=kwho-user>braindearth</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>622</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/24837-help-potty-training#24853 title="I have to say that I really would not get too worked up about this. Also, very important, do not use this as a way to show your ex how well you can do with your son. It is frustrating if she is..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>braindearth</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 05 Jun 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/24115-stbx-refusing-overseas-travel-for-child><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/24115-stbx-refusing-overseas-travel-for-child title="Hi all, Need somw advice please. Nisi granted April 2008 with agreement for her to have custody of 13 yr old lad with reasonable access for me. On separation I moved out of family home to live with..." class=" topictitle">stbx refusing overseas travel for child!!</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi all, Need somw advice please.<br> Nisi granted April 2008 with agreement for her to have custody of 13 yr old lad with reasonable access for me. On separatio ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 31 May 08, by <span class=kwho-user>soontobebroke</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/24115-stbx-refusing-overseas-travel-for-child#24167 title="its a very long road, but you can apply to the courts to have the passport given to you for a trip abroad but i can imagine that the fact that your Son is 13, the court will let him decide if he wants..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 31 May 08 by <span class=kwho-user>madaboutcars</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>918</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/24115-stbx-refusing-overseas-travel-for-child#24167 title="its a very long road, but you can apply to the courts to have the passport given to you for a trip abroad but i can imagine that the fact that your Son is 13, the court will let him decide if he wants..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>madaboutcars</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 31 May 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/24019-how-are-school-fees-calculated><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/24019-how-are-school-fees-calculated title="I'm posting this on behalf of a friend who's partner is getting divorced. His soon to be ex wants to send the children to fee paying schools, but he is unable to afford it based on assesable income...." class=" topictitle">How are school fees calculated??</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I'm posting this on behalf of a friend who's partner is getting divorced. His soon to be ex wants to send the children to fee paying schools, but he is unable ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 30 May 08, by <span class=kwho-user>paperbackwriter</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/24019-how-are-school-fees-calculated#24030 title="Kevin, I would suggest you see if it is possible to get some kind of assessment to support the need for additional tuition. Perhaps whoever is doing the tutoring could supply it - or advise the best..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 30 May 08 by <span class=kwho-moderator>hadenoughnow</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>4</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>625</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/24019-how-are-school-fees-calculated#24030 title="Kevin, I would suggest you see if it is possible to get some kind of assessment to support the need for additional tuition. Perhaps whoever is doing the tutoring could supply it - or advise the best..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-moderator>hadenoughnow</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 30 May 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/19833-new-issues><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/19833-new-issues title="Hello, my name is Rocky. I am an American, stationed here in England. I have been here for quite a few years now, with only one year left. I married a local girl, with what I thought was a good idea...." class=" topictitle">New issues?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hello, my name is Rocky. I am an American, stationed here in England. I have been here for quite a few years now, with only one year left. I married a local gir ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 17 Apr 08, by <span class=kwho-user>rockyB</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/19833-new-issues#23196 title="From what you say about your finances, I think that your worst problem is probably your worry about the uncertainties. Financial settlements can vary according to what the judge thinks is reasonable..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 22 May 08 by <span class=kwho-user>splat</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>4</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>735</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/19833-new-issues#23196 title="From what you say about your finances, I think that your worst problem is probably your worry about the uncertainties. Financial settlements can vary according to what the judge thinks is reasonable..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>splat</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 22 May 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/22618-support-at-uni><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/22618-support-at-uni title="my son is 18 and going to uni this summer. although he lives with his dad and i support him there if he moves out into student res is it legal for me to pay him money directly as his dad says all..." class=" topictitle">support at uni</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> my son is 18 and going to uni this summer. although he lives with his dad and i support him there if he moves out into student res is it legal for me to pay him ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 16 May 08, by <span class=kwho-user>loz1961</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/advice/children/22618-support-at-uni?start=7#22747" title="daisygreen, If you go through the CSA now and there is provision in an existing order for tertiary education it will still stand or could be extended before it ends at age 18." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 17 May 08 by <span class=kwho-user>Fiona</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/advice/children/22618-support-at-uni?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children/22618-support-at-uni?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>8</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1371</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/advice/children/22618-support-at-uni?start=7#22747" title="daisygreen, If you go through the CSA now and there is provision in an existing order for tertiary education it will still stand or could be extended before it ends at age 18." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Fiona</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 17 May 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/22180-how-to-tell-young-children-of-separation><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/22180-how-to-tell-young-children-of-separation title="Help! I'm having issues surrounding what is the best way to tell our 4 years old that her mummy and daddy are separating. My mother-in-law (and one of her friends) is of the opinion that we..." class=" topictitle">How to tell young children of separation?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Help!<br> <br> I'm having issues surrounding what is the best way to tell our 4 years old that her mummy and daddy are separating.<br> <br> My mother-in-law (an ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 12 May 08, by <span class=kwho-user>downAndOutInParisLondon</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/22180-how-to-tell-young-children-of-separation#22359 title="What has been said so far is all very sensible. What really matters, I think, is that you do tell her what is happening. Following your mother in law's suggestion is just storing up trouble for the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 May 08 by <span class=kwho-user>sexysadie</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1645</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/22180-how-to-tell-young-children-of-separation#22359 title="What has been said so far is all very sensible. What really matters, I think, is that you do tell her what is happening. Following your mother in law's suggestion is just storing up trouble for the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>sexysadie</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 May 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/22256-don-t-no-my-options><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/22256-don-t-no-my-options title="Hi, I am having a proper drama. My x2b has taken my daughter to a European country without my consent about a week ago. She is threatening not to return unless I move out of the house. All my friends..." class=" topictitle">Don't no my options</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi, I am having a proper drama. My x2b has taken my daughter to a European country without my consent about a week ago. She is threatening not to return unless ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 12 May 08, by <span class=kwho-user>NWM</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/22256-don-t-no-my-options#22259 title="Your wife could take your daughter on holiday but not returning would be abduction. You need to see a sol ASAP. See; www.reunite.org" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 12 May 08 by <span class=kwho-user>Fiona</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>1</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>565</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/22256-don-t-no-my-options#22259 title="Your wife could take your daughter on holiday but not returning would be abduction. You need to see a sol ASAP. See; www.reunite.org" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Fiona</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 12 May 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/advice/children/21596-fao-nrps><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/advice/children/21596-fao-nrps title="???? No NRPs prepared to have a guess @ www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Forum/...to-cover/Page-2.html" class=" topictitle">FAO NRPs</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> ???? No NRPs prepared to have a guess @<br> <br> <a class=bbcode_url href="http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Forum/Maintenance/21255-What-is-child-mai ... </div> </div><div class="pull-right"> </div><div class=started> 04 May 08, by <span class=kwho-user>Fiona</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/advice/children/21596-fao-nrps#21626 title="Based upon utilities, food, possibly car, insurances, school trips, 'leisure', toiletries (NOT including essential spousal shoes :ohmy: and hair 'design' :angry: ).... My guess would be around £55 per person per week." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 05 May 08 by <span class=kwho-user>mike62</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>1</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>545</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/advice/children/21596-fao-nrps#21626 title="Based upon utilities, food, possibly car, insurances, school trips, 'leisure', toiletries (NOT including essential spousal shoes :ohmy: and hair 'design' :angry: ).... My guess would be around £55 per person per week." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>mike62</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 05 May 08</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> </tbody><tfoot> <tr> <td class="center hidden-phone"> <a id=forumbottom> </a> <a href=#forumtop rel=nofollow> <span class=divider></span> <i class="fa fa-arrow-up hasTooltip" aria-hidden=true></i> </a> </td> <td colspan=6 class=hidden-phone><div class=input-append> </div> </td> </tr> </tfoot> </table> </form><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination hidden-phone"><ul> <li><a href="/advice/children?start=0" title=Page:Start>Start</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children?start=1160" title=Page:Prev>Prev</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a class=disabled>...</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children?start=1080" title=Page:28>28</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children?start=1120" title=Page:29>29</a></li><li><a href="/advice/children?start=1160" 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