| | When to tell children...? My little brother has just split up with his wife:
20 years marriage
one child (boy, turning 9 next month)
all still living together in the family h ... Latest 04 Feb 09 by hairyfairy | Replies:8 :956 | Latest by hairyfairy 04 Feb 09 |
| | Concern for my children's wellbeing Hi
Advice and comments please.
My s2bx moved out early in January to live with her new partner and since then our children have been spending ... Latest 03 Feb 09 by bertie670 | Replies:5 :388 | |
| | she's moving my children hi thank you for your help earlier
my ex is moving to birmingham with my 3 kids aged 2,3 and 4 years old i currently live about 30 miles away from them ... Latest 03 Feb 09 by Kalamari | Replies:10 :1062 | |
| | Latest 03 Feb 09 by Sparkles | Replies:12 :890 | |
| | parental/legal rights of the ex??? Hello, am an Australian (and live back in Australia, long story)and was married to an English man but he returned back to the UK when I was pregnant and waited ... 18 Jan 09, by mumtoitcyboy | Replies:4 :486 | |
| | Spending time together with our child? Hi all,
My daughter is 3yrs old and is getting upset at not spending time together with her mum and dad. My ex came over for 2 hours on christmas morni ... Latest 02 Feb 09 by bossyboots | Replies:4 :428 | Latest by bossyboots 02 Feb 09 |
| | Not Very Proud Of Myself Made an error last night. My young boy, who is four, swears at me a bit too often and it depresses the hell out of me, because no matter how I ask him not too, ... Latest 02 Feb 09 by bossyboots | Replies:16 :1387 | Latest by bossyboots 02 Feb 09 |
| | Not at all amicable Hi people, I ve been a good place, having ignored my stbx for some weeks over the festivities and today I replied to a message she sent. I sent one of my own wh ... Latest 30 Jan 09 by Mrs Ingledew | Replies:17 :1592 | Latest by Mrs Ingledew 30 Jan 09 |
| | Arrangements prior to divorce I moved out of the matrimonial home two weeks ago - out of concern for my wife and son (who has Asperger's Syndrome). Since then, my wife has controlled any ti ... Latest 29 Jan 09 by GuernseyGuy | Replies:1 :348 | Latest by GuernseyGuy 29 Jan 09 |
| | fed up with absent parenting!! Thought I'd share this ...
my teenager decided to "kick off" about going to school etc - threatened suicide (yes I have taken it seriously an ... 26 Jan 09, by Mrs Ingledew Latest 26 Jan 09 by focus123 | Replies:2 :390 | |
| | the nightmare of a parent Hello to all who read this and hope parents can maybe get a little insight into how a caring parent actually feels
Read this if you have children
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| | 22 Jan 09, by madaboutcars | Replies:1 :385 | |
| | Contact with Children Hi,
When my partner spoke to his solicitor when the divorce started regarding contact with his son she said that it should be dealt with at a later dat ... Latest 23 Jan 09 by GuernseyGuy | Replies:10 :961 | Latest by GuernseyGuy 23 Jan 09 |
| | CSA Payments When my husband and I split in 2004 he asked me not to go to the CSA and would give me £X. At the time I was so overwhelmed by Relate sessions and him moving ... Latest 13 Jan 09 by The MightyD | Replies:4 :618 | Latest by The MightyD 13 Jan 09 |
| | \" Deduction Order \" Dear All
Has anyone experienced the " Deduction Oreder " by CSA? Does it work?
My stbx has missed the regular payment in November an ... Latest 09 Jan 09 by Meeks | Replies:2 :472 | |
| | Child maintenance I have a question about how child maintenance is calculated
My stbx earns a good salary and an additional £4,000 as car allowance. Is this included as ... 08 Jan 09, by doodlebug72 Latest 09 Jan 09 by Angel557 | Replies:1 :399 | |
| | How do we tell our 5 year old son? Hi
My husband and I are splitting up and we have only just begun the process. After Xmas H might move into a house he is planning to buy on a rental b ... Latest 31 Dec 08 by jacsmum | Replies:16 :1768 | |
| | Latest 31 Dec 08 by loopylucy | Replies:6 :617 | |
| | Children meeting partner's girlfriend My husband left the FMH last March (after 24 years marriage - bored, wanted me to be like I was when we met, I spent too much time with the children etc, etc!) ... Latest 30 Dec 08 by Athlete | Replies:6 :488 | |
| | Question: re Contact Order Without too much detail (I'd written this once and deleted it as it went on and on)...
Have a contact order in place agreed by CONSENT about 10 months ... 30 Dec 08, by serenityeast Latest 30 Dec 08 by serenityeast | Replies:8 :917 | Latest by serenityeast 30 Dec 08 |
| | What can we do? I could really do with some advice.
Left my stbx 4wks ago (no affairs or anything like that- I left because of his behaviour towards, and treatment of, me f ...
07 Dec 08, by independentwoman Latest 30 Dec 08 by serenityeast | Replies:5 :509 | Latest by serenityeast 30 Dec 08 |
| | What are the Schools responsibilities?? Hi All, My divorce is currently going through the courts and we have a final hearing for the ancillary relief in March. Our children (10 + 7) go to a public sch ... | Replies:5 :526 | |
| | losing my step children Hello,
I was wondering if there was a lawyer on line that could give me some sound advice regarding my fiance's children. The advice required touches ... | Replies:1 :402 | |
| | Counselling for children? Is there such a thing as counselling for children whose parents are going through a divorce and if there is how do I find out where?
Any help would be welco ...
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| | child support agengy Just wondering if anyone has any recent dealings with the child support agency as a new customer. Have had an arrangement between us thats sort of worked - usi ... 09 Dec 08, by loserinlove Latest 22 Dec 08 by gorgeous | Replies:9 :1048 | |
| | CSA update... Well well well, I had no other choice but to contact the CSA on 26/11 and I have just had my maintenance increased by £22 a week.
It amazes me that so ... Latest 22 Dec 08 by gorgeous | Replies:3 :413 | |
| | advice needed Hi everyone,
I was hoping to get some free advice after finding out about solicitor's fees this afternoon! My husband left me at the beginning of June, ... Latest 17 Dec 08 by Itgetsbetter | Replies:2 :478 | Latest by Itgetsbetter 17 Dec 08 |
| | Taking my child abroad for 4 months Hi,
I wonder if anyone can help.
I live in England and am now in the financial stage of my divorce. I have to go abroad for 4 months to comple ... 07 Dec 08, by tryingtocope Latest 14 Dec 08 by tryingtocope | Replies:9 :1073 | Latest by tryingtocope 14 Dec 08 |
| | Statement of arrangements I'm trying to help my bf fill in form D8a which is difficult as the children live with his wife (the respondent) and the form doesn't appear to be designed for ... Latest 14 Dec 08 by Squiddly | Replies:2 :447 | |
| | C100 - what things happen with CAFCASS? Ive issued a C100 to the courts regarding my ex calling my daughter by her maiden name and my surname (double barrel)
I was told by the court that i wi ... 11 Dec 08, by madaboutcars Latest 11 Dec 08 by focus123 | Replies:1 :542 | |
| | 15 Nov 08, by ripped off mum | Replies:5 :535 | |
| | My Little Girl I need your advice again.
I My wife and I have been seperated for 9 mths now. I have a 7 year old daughter and a 5 year old son.
When we split up there ... Latest 08 Dec 08 by Sadgit | Replies:10 :1225 | |
| | Splitting and children Hi i am new to this site and am hoping someone can give me some advice. (sorry its long but i don;t know where to turn)
my husband (of 14 years) and i ... 06 Dec 08, by InaBetterPlace Latest 07 Dec 08 by NellNoRegrets | Replies:4 :490 | Latest by NellNoRegrets 07 Dec 08 |
| | CSA... I am thinking of arranging maintenance through CSA.
stbx currently pays voluntarily but less than he should be paying and will not disclose income.
... Latest 07 Dec 08 by fedupaes | Replies:4 :623 | |
| | What are my chances of residency? I have been married for 8 years and now my wife is going for a divorce as she doesn't 'love' me anymore. From what she has been saying the past few weeks she i ... Latest 05 Dec 08 by TheAbused | Replies:2 :569 | |
| | first time seeing kids hi to everyone . i am seeing my kids for the first time in two years and looking for some hints on what to do . a bit unsure . thanks to anyone that can help. ... Latest 05 Dec 08 by flash21 | Replies:7 :1081 | |
| | Interference from Granny.... Despite my ex & I separating amicably a few months ago (and remaining amicable to date), her mother seems to have launched a vendetta against me. In the ve ... Latest 05 Dec 08 by Fiona | Replies:4 :535 | |
| | 1st Directions hearing - What to expect Hello
I have a first directions hearing coming up. The background is that I have had no contact with my children for over a year. My attempts to initia ... 19 Nov 08, by letmeseethem Latest 05 Dec 08 by justm3x | Replies:6 :819 | |
| | How to tell my kids we have separated A bit of background.
We have been separated for a year but still living in the same house and the kids don't know - two boys aged 10 and 12. I stayed in the ...
Latest 26 Nov 08 by perrypower | Replies:50 :4270 | Latest by perrypower 26 Nov 08 |
| | Is she making excuses ?? Had a deep-ish chat with new G/F last night and was trying to get her to tell her 3.5 yr old son "who I was" (ie B/F). She was keen last month for me ... Latest 25 Nov 08 by Alive_in_the_water | Replies:14 :1586 | Latest by Alive_in_the_water 25 Nov 08 |
