errr where to start!

lol oh you are soooo good ill try that one at least you made me laugh rare these days!!!!

marjan wrote:

lol oh you are soooo good ill try that one at least you made me laugh rare these days!!!!

GOOD!!!! Start to laugh at the poor fool .... FFS you are not his mother ..god girl you are best shot of him and you will see that soon. And when you do, god help him!

Well another day gone ...he has now told my son that he will soon be getting another dad!!! fgs what is he on
My son told him that he would always be his dad even if i got a new partner or got married again. He told him that i would always be his mum and that noone could take my place
What a thing to say to your son when your out with him at footy not nice its not as if i got someone anyway fgs!!!!
think its to ease it for him seen as he has got HER
Son told him we were going out for a meal on thursday( day of Absolute divorce).
Didnt go down too well , he said would he come out for a meal with him and her poor lad didnt know what to say so he said he would think about it.
Bless him he came from footy and told me all this without any prompting !! says he doesnt really want to meet her but doesnt want to upset his dad by saying no
Even said the reason he doesnt go to dads is cos she might be there . ive told soon to be x this but he just says he has got to meet her sometime!!!!!!!
Well maybe so but i think he has enough on his plate trying to get his head round the fact they we are divorced and that he chooses her over him
sorry for moaning but he makes me so mad he doesnt see what he is doing to him, she says im using the lads im NOT i just want him to have the contact he needs with his dad!! is that so wrong ?????My eldest has decided that his dad is not worth the effort because of what he did to him recently and that was her fault (well he chose her)
Rant over
Sorry Everyone

I'm dammed if I'd give him advice on his love life, in fact I don't know why you are having contact with him at all. You are torturing yourself.
Your youngest is sixteen, not six so your ex doesn't need to enter your home to fetch him. When he arrives he could text and your son go outside to be picked up.
Frankly your ex sounds a bit strange, telling a sixteen year old he's soon to have a new dad. The GF sounds a class act too giving lovebites, thought they stopped at about age fifteen.
For your own sanity, you need to stay away from the ex, for if he tells you all about the GF, you can be sure he tells her all about you. Not a nice thought.

True its not a nice thought but then she has texted me to tell me im a fishwife seen as rang her to tell her that his son had been expecting him for a meal that was planned a week ago!!! but as usual chose her and he said told her i was crap in bed!!! Asked him if he had said that and he didnt answer!!!The love bites she says are to mark him as hers!! fgs she is 51 not as you say 15!!!
Can i just say im so down about myself i feel what they say about me must be true including all the hurtful comments he makes to me ie i have a pot belly and arms of an olympic shot putter while she has a flat stomach and is slim fgs im not that big
well yet again rant over sorry folks but not too good today
Thanks for the advice and listening to my rants it means a lot x

marjan wrote:

True its not a nice thought but then she has texted me to tell me im a fishwife seen as rang her to tell her that his son had been expecting him for a meal that was planned a week ago!!! but as usual chose her and he said told her i was crap in bed!!! Asked him if he had said that and he didnt answer!!!The love bites she says are to mark him as hers!! fgs she is 51 not as you say 15!!!
Can i just say im so down about myself i feel what they say about me must be true including all the hurtful comments he makes to me ie i have a pot belly and arms of an olympic shot putter while she has a flat stomach and is slim fgs im not that big
well yet again rant over sorry folks but not too good today
Thanks for the advice and listening to my rants it means a lot x

Ewh! Pass the sick bucket, 51 and giving lovebites, not sure whether to heave or laugh.

Another good reason to break contact with them marjan is you are beginning to believe them.

Both your sons are adults and can ring their dad themselves if they feel put out by his behaviour. If you don't rise to it, they can't hurt you.

I do hope you mean the meal was planned in a restaurant and not at your home.

You obviously get under the ow's skin or she wouldn't say such things, must be insecure. That's her penalty for knowingly taking up with a cheater, and it will get worse as she ages, not better. Meanwhile you are rid of him.

Ask yourself this. If you are as they say, how come he stayed for 28 years.

You should get yourself off to a wiki social meet. I went to a couple when I was first dumped and it helped no end.

If you ever want a private rant you can always pm me.

marjan,

You are one hell of a fish wife...you are looking after your children and finding ways to cope with an overgrown baby you did not birth...keep yelling out the wiki window...the overgrown baby and his problems are not yours...take care.

Elle x