Urgent advice needed

I haven't read all this thread but just to clarify two points;

1) A respondent needs to ask the court to stay the absolute if it is going to make a substantial difference to the financial outcome

2) matrimonial home Rights are lost when you are no longer married

SO I am no longer can stay in this house? He is an owner.

Hi Catty,

I have been reading your threads. All of them.
And I have been admiring Sera's patience in explaining to you again and again....
and again..... what a good deal you are being offered.
Now it is up to you to understand this and make the best of it.

As has been said before, there are many people on here who are in awful financial and emotional situations and really need help from this site.

Forgive me for being harsh, but it does not sound to me as if you were desperate.

When your sol comes back, I a sure she can advise you much better than we can here.

Red

Do you think my solicitor can be really truly regarding my husbands offer? She never in one million years can be totally objective about it!!

Perhaps your solicitor is as fed up with this as I am. I can't speak for anyone else on this as no doubt someone else will contribute to this thread not knowing all the circumstances.

I told you 3 weeks ago as others did that your offer was good.

Then you start up another thread asking questions about this that and the other but not mentioning what you had been offered as you originally did. I then had to alert people to that fact.

This is what I would say now to hopefully end this matter:

1. You either accept the offer or you don't.
2. You either ask your solicitor or you don't
3. You either go to court or you don't

Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn!

My dear!

Firstly,i want to know why you so rude with me???

Hi Catty!

Trying time this divorce stuff!
I reckon we should all be told to be familiar with family law when getting married. )

Lots of things we dont understand and want answers to.
The law is like a slow turning cog , however it gets there eventually.

It is a very hard time for all concerned and almost becomes an all to unwanted game.
Its hard to stay calm and have mental clarity when legal things are thrown your way however fair or unfair they may seem .

I would say to you in this case If you are not satisfied with your solicitor as seems to be in this case , maybe think about getting another one.
Or making sure when you next speak to them ,that you ask the questions and make sure you get the answers in full.

Whatever the outcome you will eventually have peace of mind that it is all over. and that is worth more than any riches.

Hazel:)