How can someone so special rip your heart out

My heart goes out to you, hope your having a better day today. Mine too left at christmas 2007 and didn't contact the kids for 2 whole weeks. will never forget what he did to me and our children. I realised that he is totally self centred and a big fat liar, a coward and a cheat. We deserve better. Take good care of yourself, spoil yourself, treat yourself, do things you want to do xxx

Chris

Im sorry but I had a giggle at "a big fat liar". I remember saying this to my ex "your a big fat liar" I just couldnt think of another way to express my self at thatmoment. Very surreal going back to childhood but "your a liar" just doesnt have the same effect does it??

Teen

I hope today has been better and that you have been able to read all the messages that everyone has posted. We are here for you and dont forget small steps, one day at a time....

Marsa

hi teen,
i am realy sorry for what you are going through, i have to agree with smurffy, he is not so special, even if he is not in love with you, how can he do this to you on xmas i cant believe, and his kids!! bloody hell what a shit, dont sit around get up and be strong for your kids, they are the most important ones in this, they will be worried for you, you will see in time that you dont need him.
keep posting on here, i only found this site a few days ago, and wish i found it months ago, i was feeling that i was the only person in the world that has been treated like crapp by there ex, and started to think all women where nasty after what she was doing to me, but after reading some storys here, can see that male or female, some people have no morals, i know its hard and you just want the world to go away, but get up stick up to fingers to the world, and look after your kids, you can get through this.
regards pete.

Thank you for your kind words- i will find comfort in this site and people like yourself taking the time to talk to me God Bless Teen