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Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.

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Getting out and about. My stbx left almost 3 months ago to live with a very good mutual friend. I have been getting on with my life and have had a few quite happy, settled da ... 27 Mar 12, by fallingapart Latest 28 Mar 12 by Canuck425	Replies:4 :342	Latest by Canuck425 28 Mar 12
Gotta Say.... ....that I don''t understand the game. How come an attractive, mid 50''s woman, good friendship/sex relationship with decent husband, nice daughter, a ... 15 Mar 12, by leftwondering Latest 28 Mar 12 by jjones123 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:32 :1253	Latest by jjones123 28 Mar 12
Why do our brains torment us? This is hard for so many reasons. But my brain isn''t making it much easier on me. For some reason, my mind keeps forcing me to consider the fact that she will ... 26 Mar 12, by samchik1 Latest 27 Mar 12 by Phoenix2yk9 1 2	Replies:7 :912	Latest by Phoenix2yk9 27 Mar 12
Contemplating the impact of lies & affect on trust If your partner lies repeatedly over many years, and admits that he lies even over small and unimportant things, do you think it possible to really ever believe ... 14 Mar 12, by Sunshine10 Latest 26 Mar 12 by samchik1 1 2	Replies:8 :604	Latest by samchik1 26 Mar 12
Waiting for her to go So she''s dropped the bombshell. She is off...to London. Loves me but not in love with me...blah blah blah. I''ve done my begging, crying, and pleading...to no ... 25 Mar 12, by samchik1 Latest 26 Mar 12 by samchik1 1 2	Replies:10 :646	Latest by samchik1 26 Mar 12
Music I turn to Some people asked about the music I listen to so here are thoughts for today. There are loads more... Affairs I still miss you a little bi ... 26 Mar 12, by Canuck425 Latest 26 Mar 12 by Lostboy67	Replies:1 :343	Latest by Lostboy67 26 Mar 12
I still miss you a little bit I''ve been turning to music to amplify my moods and feelings lately. Sometimes I cry and sometimes I laugh. Here is a great song that makes me laugh. A great Ca ... 23 Mar 12, by Canuck425 Latest 24 Mar 12 by Young again 1 2	Replies:7 :983	Latest by Young again 24 Mar 12
Low self esteem Hello Wikivorcees, wonder if any of you might be able to help? 3 years ago my ex wife left me and I took it really badly. A lot was said at the time th ... 05 Mar 12, by trimmtrabb Latest 09 Mar 12 by trimmtrabb 1 2	Replies:8 :646	Latest by trimmtrabb 09 Mar 12
Happy Birthday? It is another one of those firsts for me post separation and I find myself alone on my birthday. My family have a celebration planned at home later and ... 04 Mar 11, by Shoegirl Latest 05 Mar 12 by pixy 1 2 3 ... 7	Replies:44 :2125	Latest by pixy 05 Mar 12
Wiki Mills+Boon Ok, These are the rules. Every poster has to pick up the story where it left off and add to it. There may .. or may not .. ever be an end to it. Mills and Boon ... 21 May 08, by hadenoughnow Latest 03 Mar 12 by freefalling 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:30 :3589	Latest by freefalling 03 Mar 12
being civil to the stbx hello i was wandering how people have managed to actually have a conversation with the stbx especially when there are children. I have been separated 1 ... 28 Feb 12, by whichwaytuturn Latest 28 Feb 12 by blonde cazza 1 2	Replies:7 :716	Latest by blonde cazza 28 Feb 12
trail seperation countdown and feelings So here I am 2 years on from when I realised that my only way forward would be to leave my wife and sadly 2 children for a trial seperation. Married for 7 years ... 27 Feb 12, by sensible man Latest 27 Feb 12 by Marshy_	Replies:2 :326	Latest by Marshy_ 27 Feb 12
Relationship whilst divorcing Hello, I have been seeing a separated man who is currently about to Petition for divorce. He is currently working on the financial consent prior to fi ... 18 Feb 12, by Marlena Latest 22 Feb 12 by Marlena	Replies:6 :283	Latest by Marlena 22 Feb 12
we are going backwards Hi I have just got divorced but have been separated for nearly 3 years. I have been in a relationship with someone for over 18 months. He was ... 11 Feb 12, by Claba Latest 13 Feb 12 by livinginhope 1 2	Replies:9 :742	Latest by livinginhope 13 Feb 12
words of wisdom Cheating is a choice, not a mistake! ... 29 Jan 12, by SPORTY15 Latest 13 Feb 12 by Triste en France 1 2	Replies:9 :690	Latest by Triste en France 13 Feb 12
It feels like I am divorcing my daughter? I can''t get blog to publish either in chrome or explorer. So I''ve had to use forum again. If someone could transfer it that would be great. As ... 06 Feb 12, by sun flower Latest 08 Feb 12 by Nanny18 1 2	Replies:9 :809	Latest by Nanny18 08 Feb 12
STBX with mental health issues All, I dont want to go into to many details (even in this pretty anonymous forum) but my STBX has some mental health issues which largely manifest as s ... 24 Jan 12, by tdiv3389 Latest 03 Feb 12 by Fiona	Replies:6 :481	Latest by Fiona 03 Feb 12
Reasons for Infidelity Just read this in a magazine. What do you think wikis? According to psychiatrist Frank Pittman in his book '''' Grow up - How taking responsibility ... 29 Jan 12, by MrsMathsisfun Latest 03 Feb 12 by jjones123 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:33 :1649	Latest by jjones123 03 Feb 12
Interesting article? www.menshealth.com/be ... 31 Jan 12, by sun flower	Replies:0 :383
i think i should divorce my husband My husband is having an affair with a woman who lives in europe somewhere (I am not sure as he wont give me any details about her i think she is spanish but do ... 29 Jan 12, by Crumpled Latest 31 Jan 12 by Dazed 1 2	Replies:7 :629	Latest by Dazed 31 Jan 12
wtf My ex-partner has gone and blew my head apart again. Last night had a call telling that if I wanted I could go over and say good night to my kids as I was g ... 30 Jan 12, by saddad1203 Latest 30 Jan 12 by fairylandtime 1 2	Replies:8 :712	Latest by fairylandtime 30 Jan 12
Living together Wife told me she wants a divorce on 23rd dec. We have 2 young children. The house goes on the Market next week. My solicitor has told me not to leave the family ... 28 Jan 12, by holmes32 Latest 28 Jan 12 by MrsMathsisfun	Replies:1 :271	Latest by MrsMathsisfun 28 Jan 12
Love of his life? Ha don''t make me laugh So he was always going to leave me, even if I hadn''t found out, but was going to wait 2 years. She was the love of his life and worth leaving me and our 4 year ... 24 Jan 12, by Furball Latest 26 Jan 12 by Young again	Replies:1 :263	Latest by Young again 26 Jan 12
How to best support partner ???? Hello.. I just wondered if there was anyone out there who is the partner of a person going through a divorce/residency fight for children? I am in that position ... 18 Jan 12, by happy080 Latest 22 Jan 12 by happy080	Replies:4 :276	Latest by happy080 22 Jan 12
Is my wife commiting aldultary ? Am I ? Hi, Need some advise if anyone can help. My wife asked for a divorce at the beginning of September. I have been trying to win her back but without suc ... 03 Jan 12, by sportingpsv Latest 20 Jan 12 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:9 :754	Latest by Marshy_ 20 Jan 12
Make him sell to me I have finally convinced my husband that our marriage is over and we need to sell our house. He is not in a position to buy me out but I can buy his share and a ... 17 Jan 12, by Lynda58 Latest 19 Jan 12 by Katie12	Replies:2 :324	Latest by Katie12 19 Jan 12
The BF is now the fiance! I am the luckiest woman in the world !! I have been proposed to and accepted - he is the most amazing thing to ever happen to me ! Despite me ... 16 Jan 12, by Emma8485 Latest 17 Jan 12 by killbill 1 2	Replies:10 :648	Latest by killbill 17 Jan 12
Running All Over Town! Good morning Wiki Peeps! I just wondered if any other''s have experienced the strange behaviours of X''s or STBX''s and if so, how did you deal with th ... 14 Jan 12, by flowerofscotland Latest 14 Jan 12 by MrsMathsisfun	Replies:6 :285	Latest by MrsMathsisfun 14 Jan 12
Is adultery now a major epidemic??? I have been reading some very sad stories on Wiki lately about the after effects and fallout of adultery. Is it just more commonplace and acceptable to society ... 07 Jan 12, by flowerofscotland Latest 10 Jan 12 by patti.p 1 2 3 ... 7	Replies:46 :2079	Latest by patti.p 10 Jan 12
help!!!! Hi my husband and i split up in may 2010 and we were divorced may this year after 11 years, by chance i met the ex husband of an friend of a friend in sept ... 17 Dec 11, by cinders1 Latest 03 Jan 12 by cinders1 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:32 :1887	Latest by cinders1 03 Jan 12
Why mess with my head? I'm 9 months in from discovering he was having an affair. Maybe not even his first, I dont know. I'll never know, will I? Anyway, as we have a beautiful, b ... 29 Dec 11, by snailywaily Latest 03 Jan 12 by snailywaily 1 2 3	Replies:18 :866	Latest by snailywaily 03 Jan 12
hypocritical ex's HI all and happy new year... Some of you may know, I moved out of my GF's in september. Stayed at some friends for a while and now have my own hou ... 02 Jan 12, by Bobbinalong Latest 02 Jan 12 by teecher	Replies:1 :260	Latest by teecher 02 Jan 12
it all makes sense now As i sit here and think about the last few weeks up until i found out she was having an affair it all fits into place now.She seemed to argue with me alot over ... 29 Dec 11, by jinglebells Latest 30 Dec 11 by flowerofscotland 1 2	Replies:13 :746	Latest by flowerofscotland 30 Dec 11
Xmas cards to ex? My partner's family has sent Xmas cards to his ex. Via him, to send with the kids when they visit her this week. Grrrrrr. He and I have shared angst th ... 11 Dec 11, by strongerthanithought Latest 29 Dec 11 by strongerthanithought 1 2	Replies:7 :605	Latest by strongerthanithought 29 Dec 11
her new man Ive been having a bad day today but thanks to some kind words and advice from this site ive been feeling a little better so thankyou everyone ive been thinking ... 27 Dec 11, by jinglebells Latest 29 Dec 11 by Camelia 1 2	Replies:7 :562	Latest by Camelia 29 Dec 11
Ex's seeing someone My first post so please go easy. Although not yet divorced officially my marriage broke down about 2 and a half years ago (she has filled for divorce), we live ... 17 Dec 11, by oxomon Latest 27 Dec 11 by Shoegirl 1 2	Replies:9 :944	Latest by Shoegirl 27 Dec 11
dating after divorce - nightmare Hi I was seperated 2 years ago and divorced a year ago. In the last few months i have tried dating and met a couple of lovely guys but seem to mess it ... 17 Dec 11, by helenal Latest 22 Dec 11 by stepper 1 2	Replies:12 :674	Latest by stepper 22 Dec 11
Isn't it funny how things turn out... Hi all, Not posted for a while but am a regular reader still. It's been just over 3 months since I moved out of the MH & purchased my own ... 06 Dec 11, by Dazed Latest 06 Dec 11 by Marshy_	Replies:2 :575	Latest by Marshy_ 06 Dec 11
Betrayal After surviving a husband enduring a 10 year affair (never knew at the time the reason why we had grown apart) I finally became divorce around 18 months ago. 01 Dec 11, by loulou13 Latest 05 Dec 11 by sim5355 1 2	Replies:11 :587	Latest by sim5355 05 Dec 11
Is it ever right to treat children differently? I have a just turned 4 year old daughter and my partner has two children aged 3.5 and 4.5 years old. We have been together for just over 2 years and he is very ... 02 Dec 11, by Jenna29 Latest 04 Dec 11 by Deedum 1 2	Replies:8 :664	Latest by Deedum 04 Dec 11

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