Dump a pregnant woman

Toms
I wouldn't advise living with your gf on the reasons you state above. It will be much harder for her to cope with if you are there for 1 - 3 - 5 years and then leave than if you were not living there at all. It will also be much harder for your child at that age.
You can support your gf without living with her and have a relationship with your child.
I am glad my daughter's father was honest with me from the start. I never had any false hope and I never expected anything from him. What you may have to deal with is another man coming into your son/daughter's life and them being a "dad" and your child calling them dad. This may be very hard for you, but there are many men out there willing to "take on" women with children. I met my husband when my daughter was 1 year old and even though we are now seperated and my daughter is 15, she still has days out with her stepdad and calls him dad and they have a very close relationship as he is the only real dad she has known.

Toms


All of us on this site bare the psychological scars of our broken relationship.We do heel in time .

Noone can guarntee if any relationship is going to work you could last forever but i certainly would'nt be with some if i never had any feelings for them two unhappy parents living together make for an unhappy child, much better for a child to have two happy parents living abaprt.

If you decided to live apart you would be required to pay 15% of your net income for your child ,but having said that you just need (both of you) to make sure the child is ok.

Whichever way it goes you'll be ok we all get there in the end.