Help - what do I say?

Just wanted to pass on my best wishes. There are plenty of us who have been there - I would have gladly killed my ex - quite literally - several times - for the pain and hurt he caused. If only I could have got away with it....
Seriously, it WILL get better. It WILL take time. But we are all thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way. Good luck - sleep on any decision before you iniate it.
x

Survive
More (((((hugs))))).

Even if we can't help much with dealing with your ex, don't underestimate the strength which comes from knowing that people care.

I hope you find help for your son so that you and your little family unit can settle down and get on with your lives.

Mitchum x

Oh Survive

Stay Strong & know that we are thinking of you, your kids know that you are doing your best for them. Your eldest can act out with you becuase he trusts you can take it, you can be dependable & Strong & you are the one that is there for him.

He will realise in time that you are the consistent one.

It is hard, kids will play you off against each other that is a fact, dosent matter if you are together or not, that bits just normal.

You have come so far, you have kept your self-respect & are doing the best for all concerned. Just remember that.

Know we are all thinking about you & that you can & you will get through this. You can do it. (((((hugs))))

JJ

I'm adding my hugs - huge hugs to you and your 3 children (you don't have to tell them) but you know someone is sending out some positive thoughts to slightly counterbalance all the negativity you are hitting. It is clear from your blog that you put your children first all the time, to your own detriment - as we all do, and that you are dealing with a mad man. I have no answers (I wish) but I do have this huge virtual hug which I hope will help. Please keep blogging - tell us how you are - good and bad - we really care. The whole world is not like you stbx. (My parenting skills have gone AWOL too - who knew?, we are only human - take care)