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Struggling to carry on (long post)

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20 Nov 09 #163516 by Michael_W
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eeerrmm guys if you want to continue your discusion would you be so kind as to do it on your own thread

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20 Nov 09 #163517 by enliven
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Michael W wrote:

eeerrmm guys if you want to continue your discusion would you be so kind as to do it on your own thread

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Sorry Michael, mea maxima culpa.
I will go and flail myself with some osier.:blush:

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20 Nov 09 #163519 by Lucretia
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Michael W wrote:

eeerrmm guys if you want to continue your discusion would you be so kind as to do it on your own thread

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Huge apologies Michael - it is my fault. I took great exception to something someone said and it sort of esculated from there.

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20 Nov 09 #163529 by Elle
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So no Elle I will not give him a break. I will not give anyone who constantly makes nasty little jibes against my sex a break. THAT is not what I am about.


Luc I was referring to the OP (Michael) but can see how that may not have been too obvious:silly:

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20 Nov 09 #163532 by Michael_W
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enliven - no need to chop down some willows just yet :)

Lucretia - there are many people out there who's views I will never understand or be able to change but if we all thought the same about every thing the world would be a very boring place.

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20 Nov 09 #163534 by Elle
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Elle - thanks for the post - have been to the GP and he referred me to counselling. She did notice which is why she suggested finding another job but by then it was pretty much to late as I was trapped.


Morning Michael hope your feeling a little better today. :)

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20 Nov 09 #163563 by Michael_W
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Hi Elle

Yes I am, spent a very nice evening in front of the TV with my OH watching various things, chatting and laughing. Something we havn't done for a very long time - either I was on the PC or she would fall asleep. Going to watch The Boat That Rocked on dvd tonight with her which she's been wanting to watch for ages. Saturday we're of to the cinema with the kids, my daughters are 9 and 4 and I never gone to the pictures with them. My wife has many times but for various reasons I've never done it - lol feel like a bad parent now. So for me this is the start of trying to rekindle our relationship little steps at a time I just hope it's not all to late.

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