A short introduction ? Take a deep breath....

Sera wrote:

Mr. Goldie,
I don't know you, your circumstances or have any recollection of your previous 19 posts. (Neither do I need to)

I suspect you could be my ex; since of the few posts you do make, seem to follow me around looking for an opportunity to start trouble, insult and kick my bootiliscious backside.

So you have no recollection of my posts but I seem to be following you around....??

The only reason I have responded to some of your previous posts is that you seem to offer your "unbiased" opinion in liberal doeses without actually knowing a great deal of the persons' circumstances. Have you ever considered writing for the Daily Mail..??

As for being your ex, I don't think so, but if you were able to moderate some of your views, we may have a future together.

I have seen the constructive advice that Sera has to offer always explained in simple easy terms, lots of advice.

She has given up a great deal of her time helping the ones on here that feel that they have absolutely NO HOPE at all.

She does not always tell people what THEY want to hear, and that offends some. The 'good advice' is taken readily, and has helped to clear the foggy path ahead for them.

And the 'thankyou' button probably has not been pressed enough for her.

zara

Marko
Without reading through all the other posts again I hope I'm not repeating something which has already been said.

What do you want to do? Would you like to repair your relationship with your wife? Does she? If it really really is beyond repair why have you stayed?

If there really is no hope you and your wife need to sit down and talk about separation and all that implies. The most important thing in this equation is your children. What do they want, where will they live etc etc.

You cant control what happens to your girlfriend, she needs to make her own decisions.

When and if your girlfriend decided to leave her husband you can support her but it is her decision.

But you cant wait forever!

Its a really complicated situation. Try to break it down into chunks and try to fix only what you can fix.

Hope that makes sense.

Tinny

If only she could be a little more objective!

Zara2008 wrote:

And the 'thankyou' button probably has not been pressed enough for her.

...thanks Zara. It wasn't invented when I started! Maybe we should have a kick-a*se button also, for the eternally, angry ar*e kickers amongst our community.

Sera wrote:

Zara2008 wrote:

And the 'thankyou' button probably has not been pressed enough for her.

...thanks Zara. It wasn't invented when I started! Maybe we should have a kick-a*se button also, for the eternally, angry ar*e kickers amongst our community.

A typical response, you expect other people to take what you say on the chin and then whine when somebody doesn't (heaven forbid) agree with you.

So is that a "no" to a date then...??

Goldie

sent you a 'thankyou'for the sense you talk (write?!)and your ability to retain your sense of irony and humour - sadly lacking elsewhere!