Can he ask me to leave?

Please dont take up Seras offer otherwise your exhusband will be on here nearly as much as she is:)

Its a noble idea walking away and taking nothing but I really think seeing as you have an end in sight - just get some distance between the two of you and think what you both want to do. If hes being hurtful its because hes hurt if you hoped hed be alright about things or even be grateful you have to give him time to realise you are trying to be fair.

I trust theres no children involved so at least your situation is easier to sort than many.

I wish you well for the next 5 weeks
Rasher

Dear Sera,
I have often admired your calm, clever and supportive posts to many fellow wikipeeps.
But this time, hun, you are mixng your own feelings and what happened in your marriages with that of Silverfir, and that is not fair to her.
Please step back. We aren't here to attack other wikipeeps, we are here to support and offer advice in a constructive way.
Sweetie, you are hurting, this post has brought some ba ghosts back to life for you. Please don't take it out on others who don't deserve that.
Hugs,
Sprite xxx

hi Sera

I havn't been on here long, but for what its worth, I think you are great.

Joanna