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Just to say hello.. Hello I have already posted a couple of times but thought i would say hello properly! I divorced in 2004 after ex h walked out in 2003. I fell in l ... 06 Oct 09, by retrievie Latest 22 Oct 09 by retrievie	Replies:2 :230	Latest by retrievie 22 Oct 09
Where the hell do i start Hi all What is the first step when seperated and contemplating divorce? I know i need to see a solicitor but what do i do when husband is being awkwar ... 14 Oct 09, by lydia09 Latest 21 Oct 09 by lydia09	Replies:3 :228	Latest by lydia09 21 Oct 09
hi everyone hi fellow sufferers I am new to this as well last Saturday my stbx wife broke the news she wants a divorce at a friend's wedding (cold, cruel), and ... 19 Oct 09, by dominic_london Latest 21 Oct 09 by Shezi	Replies:5 :245	Latest by Shezi 21 Oct 09
Seeking advice Hello everybody, I've stumbled across this site while surfing the web looking for advice on how to go about facing a divorce. I'm not yet at the stage ... 21 Oct 09, by rforte62 Latest 21 Oct 09 by rforte62	Replies:2 :239	Latest by rforte62 21 Oct 09
New no idea what to do? Hi I an new on here so just a quick summary of my situation and any advice would be appreciated. I have been married to my husband 16 years together 18. Ha ... 19 Oct 09, by Gemma_67 Latest 21 Oct 09 by Gemma_67	Replies:3 :264	Latest by Gemma_67 21 Oct 09
Greetings from Limboland! Hi All, I'm a 48 yr old with 3 kids (aged 9, 7 and 3). Married for 13 yrs. My wife (who is 10 years younger than me) had an affair in 2007 with a younger gu ... 15 Oct 09, by Annamoe Latest 21 Oct 09 by ausgirl	Replies:5 :230	Latest by ausgirl 21 Oct 09
Dealing with an unreasonable husband i have recently filed for divorce. My children are 13 and 14. My husband had an affair 9 years ago which i tried my best to get over for the children's, but th ... 17 Oct 09, by windingmeup Latest 20 Oct 09 by Fortysoon	Replies:5 :232	Latest by Fortysoon 20 Oct 09
Hello Hello, this is the first time posting to a forum, depsite 15 years on the net; so my apologies if my eticate is lacking somewhat!! I left my wife aroun ... 15 Oct 09, by justmeagain Latest 20 Oct 09 by Lucretia	Replies:3 :206	Latest by Lucretia 20 Oct 09
Hi Hi new guy on the block, need a bit of advice been seperated 4 months i pay for kids, my wife is in our house and i am aware that untill kids are 16 she can ... 19 Oct 09, by Kiteboy Latest 19 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :212	Latest by NellNoRegrets 19 Oct 09
After decree nisi Hi I'm new to all this! Have just got my decree Nisi and am not really sure what happens next. No agreement has been made on finances and I've read tha ... 17 Oct 09, by DancingButterfly Latest 19 Oct 09 by DancingButterfly	Replies:5 :408	Latest by DancingButterfly 19 Oct 09
Hi from Devon Hi my name is Karen and I live in a lovely part of east Devon. I joined this site a while ago but hadnt got around to saying "hi" and as having a bad ... 16 Oct 09, by choccymum Latest 18 Oct 09 by choccymum	Replies:6 :281	Latest by choccymum 18 Oct 09
I'm from Devon too and in need of help Hi There seems to be quite a few of us from Devon. I am in North Devon so hi to you all. My situation is that my husband is an alcoholic and t ... 17 Oct 09, by angeline Latest 18 Oct 09 by choccymum	Replies:2 :257	Latest by choccymum 18 Oct 09
New here Hi everyone, Just introducing myself and my situation. My main problem is that my stbx lives and works in England and he's trying to push things through the ... 15 Oct 09, by witzend Latest 18 Oct 09 by witzend	Replies:3 :207	Latest by witzend 18 Oct 09
Hello Hi everyone, new to all this. I am currently married with 2 young childern but I am not getting on with my wife. She has depression and talks(more likes ... 18 Oct 09, by bomber Latest 18 Oct 09 by Elle	Replies:3 :176	Latest by Elle 18 Oct 09
first timer Fed up with financially and emotionally iresponsible husband who is an alcoholic - threw him out in May this year. We have five children togther he is unemploy ... 18 Oct 09, by Flea Latest 18 Oct 09 by chris75	Replies:2 :288	Latest by chris75 18 Oct 09
lost hello. its been 10 months since the seperation from my stbx and so much has happened since. my Nisi came through very quickly in july this year and 1st ... 17 Oct 09, by azwillows Latest 17 Oct 09 by azwillows	Replies:2 :174	Latest by azwillows 17 Oct 09
I'm new to this business Hi Been seperated from STBX 10 months. I kicked him out as I discovered he was having an affair with a woman 14 yrs his junior. Mid-life crisis comes ... 14 Oct 09, by sugar_snap Latest 16 Oct 09 by JackieH 1 2	Replies:9 :502	Latest by JackieH 16 Oct 09
Hello to all Hi peep's, Just thought I should introduce myself before begining to post on other peoples threads. The basics are im 25 and going through div ... 16 Oct 09, by harry10 Latest 16 Oct 09 by Macey7	Replies:4 :216	Latest by Macey7 16 Oct 09
Hello from Normandy Hi For the last ten years I have been living and working in France. My husband and I separated two years ago and I bought a new house using a bridging ... 14 Oct 09, by le sujet Britannique Latest 14 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :213	Latest by NellNoRegrets 14 Oct 09
Divorce? Re-housing? Hi all, Ive just registered on this site, and i hope maybe some1 might beable to help! im a 32 year old man, im currently thinking long and hard ab ... 13 Oct 09, by william8 Latest 13 Oct 09 by william8	Replies:2 :211	Latest by william8 13 Oct 09
Housing Hello I need some advice on housing. I am separated and unemployed. I am currently living at my parents while my wife is 180 miles away with the children. ... 12 Oct 09, by hardtimes Latest 13 Oct 09 by TBagpuss	Replies:1 :201	Latest by TBagpuss 13 Oct 09
weekends are the worst!!! Just joined! Seperated form my hubby a year today, you would think I would be getting better, but actually worse!!! Was married 30 years and with him 33years!! ... 10 Oct 09, by Trisha16 Latest 12 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:13 :515	Latest by NellNoRegrets 12 Oct 09
Losing my son as well as my husband? Hi, I separated from my husband of 18 years last month. He is a controller. I tried everything to make it work but his temper tantrums became unaccepta ... 04 Oct 09, by Fortysoon Latest 11 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:30 :1198	Latest by NellNoRegrets 11 Oct 09
I'm dreading Christmas... Hi All, I'm not sure what to do about Christmas. Usually we go away but obviously that's not going to happen this year. Asked my husband the other day ... 09 Oct 09, by herida Latest 11 Oct 09 by Lucretia 1 2 3	Replies:20 :769	Latest by Lucretia 11 Oct 09
Regional Threads?? Not been on here that long and hope I am not overstepping the mark but was wondering if there was an interest in "regional" threads. Ive seen a lotof ... 05 Oct 09, by meerkatmanor Latest 11 Oct 09 by andru 1 2	Replies:7 :539	Latest by andru 11 Oct 09
I shouldn't be here!!!!!! I have/had the most amazing wife you could wish for.been together 10 yrs married for almost 3.When i met here she had 3 boys who are now 12.15.17.The youngets o ... 21 Sep 09, by andru Latest 11 Oct 09 by Lucretia 1 2 3 ... 17	Replies:113 :4940	Latest by Lucretia 11 Oct 09
How wrong can they be [img] hello i am jacqui female just about to remove the excess baggage i h ... 08 Oct 09, by jacqui48 Latest 11 Oct 09 by Mrs Mellors	Replies:4 :250	Latest by Mrs Mellors 11 Oct 09
HELP!! Hi I'm new here and just wondering if anyone that has gone through this could help! I seperated from my husband in May 2008. We are still living together as ... 10 Oct 09, by dark dreamer Latest 10 Oct 09 by elvis_fan	Replies:3 :195	Latest by elvis_fan 10 Oct 09
Just separated Hi everyone I am a 51 year old male retired police officer. I am "married" to a 36 year old. We were together 16 years until 15 June 2009. ... 30 Sep 09, by wilbur01 Latest 09 Oct 09 by wilbur01 1 2	Replies:13 :558	Latest by wilbur01 09 Oct 09
\"Fair & reasonable?\" Agree or fight? Hi,another newbie. I've been encouraged by some of these stories, saddened by others but hope to remain positive! Here's my tale.. I'm 41, ex is 43. We ... 05 Oct 09, by miffy1 Latest 09 Oct 09 by hadenoughnow 1 2 3	Replies:14 :659	Latest by hadenoughnow 09 Oct 09
mornings are the worst anyone else find this? am feeling better having no contact with ex at the mo and just trying to find peace in the house on my own...anyone else having or ha ... 06 Oct 09, by byronette Latest 08 Oct 09 by WhatWentWrong 1 2	Replies:10 :486	Latest by WhatWentWrong 08 Oct 09
Recovering from divorce Hi everyone, Looking through these forums there is so much hurt and pain that I want to fix. I can't do that, so for now I just want to introduce mysel ... 07 Oct 09, by BobH Latest 08 Oct 09 by Brunswick	Replies:3 :282	Latest by Brunswick 08 Oct 09
Why? First time here, hope someone can help me......Hey, is it just me, but why is it that everything I say and do is wrong according to my ex? He ask's a question, ... 06 Oct 09, by sane Latest 08 Oct 09 by JackieH	Replies:4 :172	Latest by JackieH 08 Oct 09
Deverstated to say the least [HY to all my name is Garry i am the respondent in what i can say a rather shocked and suprised Divorce proceedings althou ... 06 Oct 09, by Gaz2512 Latest 08 Oct 09 by JackieH	Replies:3 :223	Latest by JackieH 08 Oct 09
New Girlfriend? Where do I stand. Hello, my name is Flo I have just joined this forum. And even though I intend to seek professional legal advice, I was wondering if anyone has had ... 07 Oct 09, by Flo1960 Latest 07 Oct 09 by meand3	Replies:1 :225	Latest by meand3 07 Oct 09
final hearing order After my final hearing my ex husband did not comply with the first order, being the assignment of two endowments, not only did he not comply but he tried to enc ... 04 Oct 09, by minnie mouse Latest 07 Oct 09 by minnie mouse	Replies:4 :264	Latest by minnie mouse 07 Oct 09
NEWBIE Hi all I'am Phil going through the start of a seperation wife left me and 3 teenage boys last week {I think the young free and single life appeals to her }any a ... 06 Oct 09, by PELSNAP Latest 06 Oct 09 by Elle	Replies:3 :196	Latest by Elle 06 Oct 09
Am I being stupid? Just want to sound off to see if I am being taken for a ride. My wife and I have agreed to seperate - I have already found another flat. We have two sons (14&am ... 06 Oct 09, by Speedbird Latest 06 Oct 09 by WeeKate	Replies:1 :224	Latest by WeeKate 06 Oct 09
Oh Boy !!!! was it me Hi all just 3 weeks ago my wife of 17 years decided to drop the bomb shell. I WANT A DIVORCE I have been in denial that my life house ... 01 Oct 09, by alim Latest 06 Oct 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:5 :221	Latest by dissapointed dad 06 Oct 09
my world has been crushed!!! hello everyone, my husband of 3 years has just told me he doesn't love me anymore completely out of the blue. it only happened 5 days ago and I have cried but n ... 03 Oct 09, by hippychick14 Latest 06 Oct 09 by chris75	Replies:5 :256	Latest by chris75 06 Oct 09

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