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Thinking about leaving my husband Hi there, I am new to this site, and I could do with a bit of advice. I have been married for 7 years and together with him for nearly 10 yrs. The thing i ... 09 Dec 09, by shellfish26 Latest 10 Dec 09 by Lucretia 1 2	Replies:8 :539	Latest by Lucretia 10 Dec 09
coming to an agreement Hi I am new to this site.It is as if it is never ending when you try to reach an agreement on finances. No one wants to back down. ... 07 Dec 09, by mjnow Latest 08 Dec 09 by dukey	Replies:6 :266	Latest by dukey 08 Dec 09
Hi people Just saying hello. I'm a stay at home mum, separated for over 3 years now and about to start mediation with a view to divorce some time in 2010. 08 Dec 09, by Riveroftears Latest 08 Dec 09 by dukey	Replies:2 :221	Latest by dukey 08 Dec 09
Help please. Hi, I could use some help please. I don't know how to tell my wife and children that I want to leave. I have been married for 13 years and for the past 9 it has ... 28 Nov 09, by Useless Latest 08 Dec 09 by diddly 1 2 3 4	Replies:22 :1036	Latest by diddly 08 Dec 09
was doing well, but have relapsed. Hi - I'm new to this site and have been looking at all your posts and I was inspired to tell you my story. I was with my partner for 11 years and married just ... 24 Nov 09, by justsosad Latest 07 Dec 09 by JackieH 1 2 3	Replies:17 :768	Latest by JackieH 07 Dec 09
Just so hard.... ... 01 Dec 09, by Emotional Latest 06 Dec 09 by Lucretia	Replies:2 :229	Latest by Lucretia 06 Dec 09
Devastated Hello, My name is Mike, I'm 27 years old and I have been involved with a woman for 10 years now. We met when I was 17, she has been my one and only true love. W ... 29 Nov 09, by Mike C Latest 01 Dec 09 by mumtoboys 1 2	Replies:12 :651	Latest by mumtoboys 01 Dec 09
Help needed After receiving her indefinite leave to remain, my wife has disappeared with my child. She is in this country and may of gone back to a refuge. She received her ... 23 Nov 09, by Mr decieved Latest 29 Nov 09 by Mr decieved 1 2	Replies:7 :536	Latest by Mr decieved 29 Nov 09
separation hi everyone a freind told me obout this web site. i have 3 children 8,6,&3 years old 2 girls & a boy. i'm 38 years old self imployed gradener/landsc ... 27 Nov 09, by pukudad Latest 28 Nov 09 by pukudad	Replies:4 :222	Latest by pukudad 28 Nov 09
What do i do? Hi, my wife recently filed for divorce after our relationship broke down a few months ago. We were married abroad and she is not a british citizen and i beleive ... 28 Nov 09, by den3775	Replies:0 :228
i feel a failure After only 2 and a half years married my husband decides he dont love me, dont wanna be with me and dont want to bother trying to work things out... I feel ... 26 Nov 09, by pinky716 Latest 27 Nov 09 by freyja	Replies:6 :347	Latest by freyja 27 Nov 09
Worst rollercoaster ride ever!!! Hi guys, I'm new to this friendly community and basically looking to offload some stuff hoping someone can relate to and tell me i'm not going completely nuts!< ... 23 Nov 09, by arker Latest 26 Nov 09 by arker 1 2	Replies:8 :555	Latest by arker 26 Nov 09
it's all so confusing hi all, i've just recently walked out on my husband of 5 1/2 years,we have a 3 year old together,and i have a 9 year old who my hubby took on as his own and wan ... 26 Nov 09, by bluekell Latest 26 Nov 09 by bluekell	Replies:2 :306	Latest by bluekell 26 Nov 09
Nearly divorced, hurt and confused Just need to get things off my chest tonight. Brief summary. Met 7 years ago, he was divorced with 2 children. Married 4 years ago and had 2 of our own children ... 17 Nov 09, by freyja Latest 25 Nov 09 by freyja 1 2	Replies:9 :597	Latest by freyja 25 Nov 09
Another one of the Walking Wounded I didn't think it would happen to me. I had a good marriage. I loved my husband...he loved me...up until about 7 or 8 months ago, I was his best friend, he to ... 24 Nov 09, by jjenkins1 Latest 25 Nov 09 by jjenkins1	Replies:2 :247	Latest by jjenkins1 25 Nov 09
Self representation at family court Hi all, done a web search and read an artical on this site about self representation and contact, residance, contact orders etc. cant find the case or blog, but ... 24 Nov 09, by Darnoo001 Latest 25 Nov 09 by Elle	Replies:4 :407	Latest by Elle 25 Nov 09
What to do now! Hi everyone! I have been separated for over 2 years now and think the time has come to get my divorce as my new partner and i have just bought a house ... 23 Nov 09, by J2o Latest 23 Nov 09 by Fiona 1 2	Replies:7 :542	Latest by Fiona 23 Nov 09
missing my family i have been in a 8 year Relationship i have 2 kids my boy is 3 and my daughter is 6 my ex has been on facebook talking to lads this is the second time now b ... 22 Nov 09, by johnny boy Latest 23 Nov 09 by johnny boy	Replies:4 :268	Latest by johnny boy 23 Nov 09
Deja vu Here we go again, got divorced a couple of years ago met new girl friend age 40, quite a bit younger than me and we went out for nearly a year. Had nice times, ... 22 Nov 09, by will33 Latest 23 Nov 09 by Michael_W	Replies:1 :237	Latest by Michael_W 23 Nov 09
quicky divorce u,ve just learnt this evening that i am illedgedly to be divorced with in 6 wks.. that my husband has said he does not know where i live for me to sign papers ... 23 Nov 09, by dawnock Latest 23 Nov 09 by dawnock 1 2	Replies:7 :555	Latest by dawnock 23 Nov 09
Struggling to carry on (long post) not sure where to post this but seeing as it's my first post I'll pop it in here. I've been with my other half for 20 years now and married for 13 year ... 19 Nov 09, by Michael_W Latest 22 Nov 09 by Michael_W 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:34 :1434	Latest by Michael_W 22 Nov 09
Hello Hello, I am new to this website, and would like to thank people for the helpful things I have been reading since I joned a few days ago. My feelings of ... 19 Nov 09, by rmm3 Latest 22 Nov 09 by rmm3 1 2 3	Replies:14 :684	Latest by rmm3 22 Nov 09
hi Hi, Just thought I'd say hi to everyone. This looks like a massively useful forum. I've been separated for 5 months now, after 26 years togeth ... 19 Nov 09, by ggg123 Latest 21 Nov 09 by ggg123	Replies:2 :195	Latest by ggg123 21 Nov 09
query query ... 19 Nov 09, by Wendy29 Latest 20 Nov 09 by Bon431 1 2	Replies:7 :588	Latest by Bon431 20 Nov 09
Just about to start! What a mess...we are in our early 40's and been married 12 years been together 17.5 years. 14 years ago we were broke and our first child was born, we now have ... 15 Nov 09, by jay00 Latest 19 Nov 09 by jay00 1 2	Replies:8 :514	Latest by jay00 19 Nov 09
Teetering on the brink I suppose this is where you start. I am coming to the realisation that I have to divorce my husband. I have always felt this is an awful thing ... 18 Nov 09, by shyblonde Latest 19 Nov 09 by sophe 1 2	Replies:9 :677	Latest by sophe 19 Nov 09
Divorced, but children issues not settled Hi I've left a fair bit about my background on my "about me" section, so won't repeat but will introduce my worries. I will add that in my residen ... 21 Oct 09, by Giraffe Latest 19 Nov 09 by Giraffe	Replies:3 :236	Latest by Giraffe 19 Nov 09
You've lost that loving feeling Husband of 6 years and partner of 13 years rekindled feelings for an old flame with the help of facebook. Months of lies followed lots of signs that he was havi ... 18 Nov 09, by rose22 Latest 18 Nov 09 by rose22	Replies:3 :265	Latest by rose22 18 Nov 09
Where to start? We've been married for 12 years, together for 17. We have three small children of 8, 5 and 4 and my dh works away quite a bit. I've just discovered th ... 16 Nov 09, by donatella Latest 18 Nov 09 by shyblonde	Replies:3 :231	Latest by shyblonde 18 Nov 09
Even I can't believe I am so stupid!!!!!!! I have been married for 28 yrs have 3 kids 18, 25 & 27nearly 3 years ago my H started an affair with one of our employees. She was a good worker with 4 kids ... 17 Nov 09, by Seek1ng Latest 17 Nov 09 by YNK000	Replies:3 :316	Latest by YNK000 17 Nov 09
Going through a tough time Hi, my husband broke the news to me a few weeks ago that he wanted to call it a day and on questioning him he informed me he had not loved me for some time. Wi ... 02 Nov 09, by larkin Latest 17 Nov 09 by larkin 1 2	Replies:10 :667	Latest by larkin 17 Nov 09
Soon to be divorced father of two Hi everyone, j Just about to start down the road of being a divorced father of two boys 7 & 9 at the age of 46 after almost 10 years of marriage. Wife s ... 09 Nov 09, by Wheelie Latest 16 Nov 09 by Mick1927	Replies:3 :232	Latest by Mick1927 16 Nov 09
Hello Hello to everyone ! I've just joined this community and briefly want to introduce myself. I'm one of a small numer of IFA's who have been awar ... 13 Nov 09, by Paul@IFSPC Latest 15 Nov 09 by Paul@IFSPC 1 2 3	Replies:16 :644	Latest by Paul@IFSPC 15 Nov 09
A short failed marriage. Hello all, My name is Michael, I have had a very short marriage, I married a Filipina in April 2008 in the Philippines it then took until September 2009 to ... 13 Nov 09, by Mickiow Latest 15 Nov 09 by moca	Replies:3 :312	Latest by moca 15 Nov 09
Hi there Hi there I have been married for 41/2 years but have been together for 10years. We have 2kids together a girl of 9years and a boy of 2years old.We have been fig ... 14 Nov 09, by nadine33 Latest 14 Nov 09 by Elle	Replies:5 :310	Latest by Elle 14 Nov 09
Finally Hi all, Names Phil and it looks like I am on the road to divorce. After suspecting for quite some time I have just found out my wife is having an affair. Co ... 12 Nov 09, by Padraig Latest 14 Nov 09 by Padraig 1 2	Replies:12 :524	Latest by Padraig 14 Nov 09
Hello Hi everyone, I just wanted to say hello and introduce myself. My husband and I are going through (another) rough patch. This is a recurring event in ou ... 13 Nov 09, by Imscared71 Latest 14 Nov 09 by Lucretia	Replies:6 :202	Latest by Lucretia 14 Nov 09
more developments Just thought i would give an update on new developments. As i previously posted my husband left the marital home on oct 13th , saying he did notlove me anymore ... 10 Nov 09, by nossinuke Latest 13 Nov 09 by FlamingKaty	Replies:3 :239	Latest by FlamingKaty 13 Nov 09
How do you survive the divorce process Hi, Never really expected to be in a forum like this, but 3 months ago my wife told me that she had been to see solicitor to start divorce proceedings. ... 12 Nov 09, by Mick1927 Latest 13 Nov 09 by Marshy_	Replies:5 :221	Latest by Marshy_ 13 Nov 09
Hello :( I'm not sure what to do. I have been accused of looking to date other women whilst being married to my wife, she has now told me she wants a divorce. I have not ... 12 Nov 09, by mlphj Latest 12 Nov 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :254	Latest by Elle 12 Nov 09

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