The UK's largest and most visited divorce site.
Modern, convenient and affordable services.
We've helped over 1 million people since 2007.

Click this button for details of our

email, phone nbr and free consultations.

How To Contact Us

Introduce Yourself 4834 topics

New to the site? Why not write a short post to introduce yourself and describe your situation. Reach out and connect with our community.

Useful Resources for this Topic

Subject	Replies /	Latest
Hi there - another newbie but wish I felt as young lol Just found this website, wish I found it earlier ... 05 Oct 09, by pinkbag Latest 05 Oct 09 by Shezi	Replies:5 :183	Latest by Shezi 05 Oct 09
judicial separation wonder if anyone can help? my husband casually announced that he is g ... 17 Sep 09, by oncebitten Latest 05 Oct 09 by Fortysoon	Replies:4 :226	Latest by Fortysoon 05 Oct 09
Divorce from foreigner Hi i have just registered with this site as i am desperate for some advice about foreign marriages. My friend has just informed me that on 3rd dec last year ... 05 Oct 09, by emlou86 Latest 05 Oct 09 by TBagpuss	Replies:1 :268	Latest by TBagpuss 05 Oct 09
beyond crap... Hi I'm very new to this whole scene, but now having to come to terms with a possible divorce. I'd be interested to hear anything from anyone who can gi ... 05 Oct 09, by chappy	Replies:0 :217
Hi there ! Oh blimey... well here i am looking at a divorce website. Can't say that i'm totally surprised, and actually pretty relieved. I've not been 100% wonder ... 04 Oct 09, by bluekangaroo	Replies:0 :192
letting off steam Hi there- I am new to this and just want to let off some steam. My STBX and I agreed to end our marriage just over two years ago but still stay in the same hom ... 03 Oct 09, by pinckney Latest 04 Oct 09 by Fortysoon	Replies:5 :213	Latest by Fortysoon 04 Oct 09
Climbing the walls! Hello everyone, posting on forums is new to me, but I'm feeling so desperate I thought it would hurt to give it a go! I'm 32 and have been married for ... 03 Oct 09, by brooksy09 Latest 04 Oct 09 by lonely48	Replies:6 :260	Latest by lonely48 04 Oct 09
Too much information in front of children! Hello, im goin through separation at the moment and was down this road 7 years ago but with no help and guidance i backed down for security purposes and childre ... 04 Oct 09, by Raggy Latest 04 Oct 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :244	Latest by Fiona 04 Oct 09
need a divorce hi, I'm new to the site and am at the end of my tether. This is my 2nd marriage that is about to go down the toilet. The first one left me bankrupt and homeless ... 03 Oct 09, by flipflop45 Latest 03 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :214	Latest by NellNoRegrets 03 Oct 09
Hatred How do i stop it My husband moved out in Feb this year. we were completelly in love but destroyin each other with arguments and hurtful words. I loved him so so much and ... 01 Oct 09, by kerrydab Latest 02 Oct 09 by wilbur01	Replies:2 :243	Latest by wilbur01 02 Oct 09
fear & pain hi there, i'm new to all this having just separated from my husband of 25 years - he was and still is having an affair. i'm finding all this terrifying at the m ... 29 Sep 09, by static Latest 02 Oct 09 by ausgirl 1 2	Replies:8 :540	Latest by ausgirl 02 Oct 09
Lost Hi The wife left me (kicked me out) three months ago. She said she was just fed up with me and unhappy. She has a daughter from a previous marriage and we h ... 01 Oct 09, by simon7068 Latest 02 Oct 09 by colours	Replies:2 :180	Latest by colours 02 Oct 09
THINKING ABOUT DIVORCE NEED AVICE hI i HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR JUST OVER 2 YEARS PRIOR TO GETTING MARRIED i HAD MY OWN HOUSE AND MORTGAGE WE DECIDED TO EXTEND THE HOUSE 3 YEARS AGO AND MY NOW HUSB ... 28 Sep 09, by ITSALLABOUTME Latest 01 Oct 09 by andru	Replies:3 :227	Latest by andru 01 Oct 09
Am a bit scared!! Hi, I'm passionfruit. Christ, dont even know what to say!!! I'm 28 have been married for nearly 7 years and applied for the big D nearly 2 mon ... 30 Sep 09, by passionfruit Latest 01 Oct 09 by passionfruit	Replies:4 :269	Latest by passionfruit 01 Oct 09
recently seperated Hi, i am recently seperated from my husband of almost 14 years, our wedding anniversary is next week. He has not just left he has chosen to harrass me with text ... 01 Oct 09, by APRILIA Latest 01 Oct 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :219	Latest by Elle 01 Oct 09
I wish I knew I have just started here on the recommendation of a friend, on very early days and just don't know where I'm going. All I know is that in my case, a re ... 30 Sep 09, by dogdays Latest 30 Sep 09 by .Charles	Replies:3 :281	Latest by .Charles 30 Sep 09
Need abit of guidance ... 30 Sep 09, by cutiepie Latest 30 Sep 09 by dukey	Replies:1 :280	Latest by dukey 30 Sep 09
new to this hi all, first time on this site, hope to gain some strenght from all of you out there going through the same thing. Feeling very down, no light at the end of th ... 30 Sep 09, by sane Latest 30 Sep 09 by Ephelia	Replies:1 :248	Latest by Ephelia 30 Sep 09
Hello Hello to everyone.I am Mark I am a single parent to 3 wonderful girls and have been for the last 6 years.Although I am not strictly Divorced,etc because myself ... 29 Sep 09, by cyclops Latest 29 Sep 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :330	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 Sep 09
Hello Hi Im new to this site, and found this site while i was looking on the internet. I am 25 years old and i am going through t ... 20 Sep 09, by babbs Latest 29 Sep 09 by lonely48	Replies:5 :232	Latest by lonely48 29 Sep 09
please advice a solution hi, i know a friend who is on student visa. i want to help her get a visa in uk, can i make her my dependant on my visa and later divorce. please advice . ... 29 Sep 09, by vishdevil Latest 29 Sep 09 by Shezi	Replies:5 :212	Latest by Shezi 29 Sep 09
my wife wants to separate and I'm not doing well I am a 41 year old man who has had the carpet torn from under him. For months, my wife has been behaving very odly and says now she wants to live apart. I am ... 28 Sep 09, by city willow Latest 29 Sep 09 by Phedre 1 2	Replies:12 :817	Latest by Phedre 29 Sep 09
I want my son back HI, I'm new here too. I think I have been separated for around 3 months? My husband at first said he needed a break & that was all & then I found ou ... 28 Sep 09, by alieddy Latest 29 Sep 09 by Gargoyle	Replies:5 :241	Latest by Gargoyle 29 Sep 09
Hi, newbie here It's heartwrenching reading these posts and I'm at a bit of a loss to know what to say. I seem to be one of the 'fortunate' few (in the loosest possibl ... 28 Sep 09, by Phedre Latest 29 Sep 09 by Phedre	Replies:5 :308	Latest by Phedre 29 Sep 09
Hello from me Apologies, I should have posted here first to introduce myself before starting new threads but I missed this part of the board! I'm posting on behalf o ... 28 Sep 09, by yellowhead Latest 28 Sep 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :234	Latest by NellNoRegrets 28 Sep 09
Saturday nights are hell Hi, dont really know how to start ... Caught my husband with another woman in a restaurant. eeks. Locked him out for 6 weeks then I gave in and let him back. It ... 27 Sep 09, by busylizzy28 Latest 27 Sep 09 by Duffy1 1 2	Replies:9 :502	Latest by Duffy1 27 Sep 09
mortgage payments hi i wonder if anyone can help out there. i am a friend of someone who is now divorced. She has a house in spain which is in joint names with her ex pjc elect ... 26 Sep 09, by alijoolsweim Latest 27 Sep 09 by alijoolsweim	Replies:2 :213	Latest by alijoolsweim 27 Sep 09
Hello I did introduce myself and my situation a few months ago, I got no replies! I recently separated after an 18 year relationship, married for 10, two son ... 24 Sep 09, by Denby Latest 27 Sep 09 by Denby 1 2	Replies:9 :508	Latest by Denby 27 Sep 09
Hello Hello all I'm a 38yr old father of two and have been seperated now for about a year after my wife had an affair with a previous boyfriend. We had not be ... 24 Sep 09, by stephen365 Latest 26 Sep 09 by mel	Replies:4 :283	Latest by mel 26 Sep 09
Will I recover from this?? Hi!! Just thought I'd introduce myself......... I'm almost at the end of divorce no 2, nope, I didn't learn the first time, but boy have I learnt this time!!! ... 21 Sep 09, by Tache Latest 24 Sep 09 by JackieH	Replies:4 :242	Latest by JackieH 24 Sep 09
New and need some advice I have been married 28 years. I have 3 daughters, 27, 22, and 21 years old. I separated from my wife 6 years ago, due mainly to financial pressures and debts. I ... 24 Sep 09, by alfredwilliams Latest 24 Sep 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :226	Latest by Marshy_ 24 Sep 09
very stressed out Hi Well as the title says am stressed out HUGELY.. I am currently seperated with one child (19mnth), married only 9 months ago, found out 1 mo ... 23 Sep 09, by nic2702 Latest 23 Sep 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :232	Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 Sep 09
Hello - please can someone help! Hello - I'm very new here, and hurting very much at the moment. My wife of 29 years has had a year long affair and is threatening to walk out on me. I ... 23 Sep 09, by M04082009 Latest 23 Sep 09 by ausgirl	Replies:1 :234	Latest by ausgirl 23 Sep 09
Ahem.... Hello everyone, I'm Caz, been separated for just over a year now. Still not used to being on my own after 16 years of marriage. I have a 15 yr ... 22 Sep 09, by caz52 Latest 22 Sep 09 by goldfish11	Replies:2 :220	Latest by goldfish11 22 Sep 09
can my wife bring men into our marital home hi after 28 years of marriege my wife has decieded we are to seperate we have three children left a home 19, 17 and 15 we cant agree for either od=f us to m ... 21 Sep 09, by unsure88 Latest 22 Sep 09 by andru 1 2	Replies:7 :756	Latest by andru 22 Sep 09
Going through separation... Hi my name is Anthony...I`m 45 years old and going through a separation. All my own fault, i admit that,but god its hard. Just don`t know what to do. I have hel ... 22 Sep 09, by scoobymojo Latest 22 Sep 09 by goldfish11	Replies:2 :219	Latest by goldfish11 22 Sep 09
Hello Evening everybody... Thought I'd say hello. I'm in the process of getting divorced, its at my instigation, neither of us has had an affair and unreason ... 21 Sep 09, by Bilbill Latest 22 Sep 09 by Tets	Replies:1 :193	Latest by Tets 22 Sep 09
Hello Hello to all members, I'm just about to start the divorce process after being married for 38 years. The stress during the past 10 years has cost me my job, earl ... 21 Sep 09, by Peter124 Latest 21 Sep 09 by Peter124	Replies:5 :222	Latest by Peter124 21 Sep 09
Should I or shouldn't I? Hi there, I'm thinking of leaving my wife, but not sure whether I've got the bottle or inclination. There is nobody else involved. I just don' ... 20 Sep 09, by FUNFUNFUN Locked Latest 21 Sep 09 by Shezi Locked 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:41 :1693	Latest by Shezi 21 Sep 09
My husband left me and my son At the beginning of july my husband stayed in a hotel for a week, leaving me and my 20 month old son. he came home the following saturday to tell me he had move ... 29 Aug 09, by lonelyplace09 Latest 21 Sep 09 by same_here 1 2 3	Replies:18 :793	Latest by same_here 21 Sep 09

Do you need help sorting out a fair financial settlement?

Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.