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new to all this Hello, I'm so glad I found this site - the stories and the support offered have taken my breath away. My stbx and I separated in June and I moved to a r ... 12 Nov 09, by hoejuggler Latest 12 Nov 09 by Bon431	Replies:4 :225	Latest by Bon431 12 Nov 09
Assistance Hi - i have requested seperation from my husband we have two children and he is refusing to leave the family home but says that i can leave but leave the childr ... 09 Nov 09, by disneyland09 Latest 11 Nov 09 by disneyland09 1 2	Replies:7 :558	Latest by disneyland09 11 Nov 09
Hi, I'm new to this site............. Hi..... I don't really know where to start. I'm supposed to be catching up on all the housework, etc. while ex has kids, but I discovered this site yesterd ... 08 Nov 09, by MaryJ Latest 10 Nov 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:5 :228	Latest by NellNoRegrets 10 Nov 09
Fed up of the battling. Hi new here, though I have been seperated around 15 months. I am trying to sort out a lot of financial stuff as have an 8year old daughter. My wife was not work ... 10 Nov 09, by Loneranger69 Latest 10 Nov 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :240	Latest by Marshy_ 10 Nov 09
Going round in circles My husband and I have been together for six years and married for three. We have two children who are 2 years and 4 months old respectively. I have men ... 07 Nov 09, by bathsheba79 Latest 08 Nov 09 by beckskb	Replies:2 :300	Latest by beckskb 08 Nov 09
Hello from very distressed and dazed newbie Hello everyone please excuse my typing because I have only discovered my husbands behaviour last Wed and I am still suffering from the initial shock SECOND TIME ... 07 Nov 09, by redfox50 Latest 07 Nov 09 by redfox50 1 2	Replies:10 :581	Latest by redfox50 07 Nov 09
unusual relationship I am a woman of 62 years old in a de facto relationship with a man of 71. We have lived together for almost 12 years, in my house. The problem is that he has bi ... 05 Nov 09, by Brittany Latest 07 Nov 09 by Brittany	Replies:5 :266	Latest by Brittany 07 Nov 09
Bolt from the blue! Hello everyone. Can't believe I have joined this website I thought all was great! Basically my husband of 10 years (we have 2 children aged 7 ... 05 Nov 09, by 2cherubs Latest 06 Nov 09 by JackieH	Replies:5 :278	Latest by JackieH 06 Nov 09
Intorducing myself Like a few others im here because my wife of 22 years has decided she wants a new life. She's now got a successsful business (set up and run by her) and aafter ... 05 Nov 09, by ronhill Latest 06 Nov 09 by enliven	Replies:2 :244	Latest by enliven 06 Nov 09
Consent order/Divorce Hi out there I have already posted a question but should have introduced myself first. My 'Divorce' is a joke to all my friends now because it has been ... 04 Nov 09, by selina71 Latest 06 Nov 09 by Ephelia 1 2 3	Replies:15 :760	Latest by Ephelia 06 Nov 09
Introducing myself Hello, I find myself here, as I have a lot of questions, and as I dont have many friends / family, I dont have many answers. I will post my issues when ... 04 Nov 09, by clarke200 Latest 05 Nov 09 by clarke200	Replies:3 :298	Latest by clarke200 05 Nov 09
HI EVERYONE Hi, came acroos this site and decided to join, I have been married 2years and actually with him 7, In March tis year i found out he was having an affair with a ... 29 Oct 09, by Summerdaze73@ Latest 05 Nov 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:6 :233	Latest by NellNoRegrets 05 Nov 09
Should never have got married! I was 39 when I got married, i'm now 47. Without advantage of parental support (both dead), I have worked hard all my life to get the stability I deserved. With ... 03 Nov 09, by decaf Latest 05 Nov 09 by Brittany	Replies:2 :241	Latest by Brittany 05 Nov 09
Unexpectedly here Hi my partner of 10 years announced out of the blue last week that he wasn't happy- his sloution? To walk out on me and 3 kids (15, 12+4) I wa ... 04 Nov 09, by FlamingKaty Latest 04 Nov 09 by lovelorn_maiden 1 2	Replies:7 :495	Latest by lovelorn_maiden 04 Nov 09
still cannot believe its happened hello everyone,never ever thought i would ever b writing this,3months ... 03 Nov 09, by mysophie Latest 04 Nov 09 by Lilibet 1 2	Replies:9 :560	Latest by Lilibet 04 Nov 09
when does a marriage end ? Hello,we've been married for 20 years have 2 lovely children 17 and 20.But not sharing a bedroom,joint bank account,social life for the past 10 years,while stil ... 31 Oct 09, by jamesdacosta Latest 01 Nov 09 by Marshy_	Replies:5 :264	Latest by Marshy_ 01 Nov 09
Introducinng myself Hi, I'm new to the forum. I had been married for 34 years when I discovered my husband was yet again in huge debt- hadn't told me and was paying the debts fromn ... 26 Oct 09, by gnomelady Latest 31 Oct 09 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:7 :553	Latest by Shezi 31 Oct 09
Don't know what to do.... Hi Still in shock. He admits to secretly seeing woman, 16 years younger than him, for about 2 years. He says 1-2 times a month. I know for a fact he saw ... 29 Oct 09, by secretfriend Latest 31 Oct 09 by elvis_fan 1 2 3 4	Replies:24 :1184	Latest by elvis_fan 31 Oct 09
Where do i stand? Hiya, I have been seperated from my husband for 2 years now. Yesterday a letter came through addressed to my husband from the local estate agents. I am living ... 30 Oct 09, by Susiejay Latest 31 Oct 09 by Elle	Replies:5 :236	Latest by Elle 31 Oct 09
developments I have been poking around on the laptop this evening and came across a site saved in my husbands favourites [retro passion], doesn't really sound that interesti ... 30 Oct 09, by nossinuke Latest 30 Oct 09 by Dewlands1	Replies:4 :198	Latest by Dewlands1 30 Oct 09
life after separation Hi all, here iam again. Since my last post i have tried really hard to have no contact with my x husband. However last night he appeared uninvited and claimed h ... 30 Oct 09, by nossinuke Latest 30 Oct 09 by Bon431	Replies:2 :204	Latest by Bon431 30 Oct 09
Loose of chat, now facebook? Hi all, with the sad lose of the chat room that I often viewed but never got around to taking the plunge and joining you all live, I have posted my FaceBook ... 30 Oct 09, by taken4amug Latest 30 Oct 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :230	Latest by Marshy_ 30 Oct 09
second wives Was it the words "second wife" that put everyone off? ... 29 Oct 09, by JoJo1165 Latest 30 Oct 09 by enliven 1 2	Replies:7 :537	Latest by enliven 30 Oct 09
NO excuses I would have been married 10 yrs on 11th Dec if it were not for the fact that my husband walked in one Monday afternoon in May as I was leaving to collect our k ... 29 Oct 09, by JoJo1165 Latest 30 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:6 :314	Latest by NellNoRegrets 30 Oct 09
Hello there.. Another one! Hello there, I just stumbled upon this website so thought I would say hello. I've been reading some of the other introductions and just wanted to send loads an ... 29 Oct 09, by Violet9 Latest 29 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :221	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 Oct 09
At a very low point today... Hello everyone, I've been aware of this forum for the last 3 months or so and have found reading other people's experiences on here so helpful in that ... 29 Oct 09, by tristesse Latest 29 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :269	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 Oct 09
introduction hi all,i'm new to this forum and would like to introduce myself.my name is mick i'm 51 and my wife has just decided she wants to live on her own ... 26 Oct 09, by mi58ck Latest 28 Oct 09 by JackieH 1 2	Replies:10 :488	Latest by JackieH 28 Oct 09
I want my son back Hello, My name is Anna, I was married at 19 and had a child by my partner, the marriage broke down when our son was just 18 months old. My son came wit ... 28 Oct 09, by Annabella Latest 28 Oct 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :255	Latest by NellNoRegrets 28 Oct 09
Hello Hi everyone, Am currently separated with divorce papers served on me. Have 2 children 13 & 6 and currently living in a flat away from the marital h ... 26 Oct 09, by ANDREW2209 Latest 28 Oct 09 by ANDREW2209	Replies:2 :190	Latest by ANDREW2209 28 Oct 09
life after separation Hi all, well today is the first day i have had no contact with him at all - taking his advice and moving on - so why do i feel crap and as if iam going mad! ... 25 Oct 09, by nossinuke Latest 26 Oct 09 by megan09	Replies:5 :228	Latest by megan09 26 Oct 09
Well here we are again Hi guys, I know a lot of u will already know me from chat and stuff and we no doubt have shared some laffs. That was while i was kicking about wonderi ... 24 Oct 09, by mankydog Latest 26 Oct 09 by Helianthus 1 2 3	Replies:14 :789	Latest by Helianthus 26 Oct 09
Divorce in Retirement Hi I am new to this site and am relieved to find this forum. I feel my circumstances are a bit different - I am 64 and my husband 61. We have been married 10 ye ... 20 Oct 09, by CommonBlue Latest 25 Oct 09 by CommonBlue	Replies:5 :322	Latest by CommonBlue 25 Oct 09
errr where to start! Hi Where do i start ! Divorce becomes final on 22nd oct not coping very well with it all. We were married for 28 years 2 children 16 and 20 He cheat ... 19 Oct 09, by marjan Latest 25 Oct 09 by Happydaze 1 2 3 4	Replies:21 :1055	Latest by Happydaze 25 Oct 09
newbie to divorce forum Hello all, After 5 years of marriage we have decided to divorce, it is amicable with no children involved. We have bought our house together and paid e ... 24 Oct 09, by jasetheace Latest 24 Oct 09 by Tets	Replies:1 :233	Latest by Tets 24 Oct 09
newby Hi all, Never been on any forums before so here goes. I split with my husband of seven years very recently [ the 13th oct] to be exact. He decided ... 24 Oct 09, by nossinuke Latest 24 Oct 09 by nossinuke	Replies:5 :200	Latest by nossinuke 24 Oct 09
Hi all Ok so I have been playing around with the idea of separation/divorce for yonks but never seem to be brave enough to take the plunge. My story in a nutshell is t ... 23 Oct 09, by yummymummy1234 Latest 24 Oct 09 by lonely48	Replies:4 :267	Latest by lonely48 24 Oct 09
Hi Hi to all. I have just joined and spent a while reading through everyones posts. I feel so sad that there is so much heartbreak. My story is this. 5 months ago ... 19 Oct 09, by mustgethappy Latest 24 Oct 09 by harithandi6 1 2 3 4	Replies:22 :915	Latest by harithandi6 24 Oct 09
Where on earth am I? Hi Just joined forum and have avidly been reading what is going on with everyone. So many posts I can identify with - it is a relief to know that this ... 21 Oct 09, by jainiedee123 Latest 23 Oct 09 by Marshy_	Replies:4 :240	Latest by Marshy_ 23 Oct 09
Need to move on Hello All First checked out this forum about 10 months ago, signed up 10 days ago, have browsed most days since. If I hit the post button that will be anot ... 22 Oct 09, by Confused2 Latest 22 Oct 09 by Confused2	Replies:5 :239	Latest by Confused2 22 Oct 09
divorce Could anybody help me with a question. I have no mortgage.And have roughly £50 per wk to myself after all bills are paid. My wife stands to inherit £50-000 po ... 22 Oct 09, by bodidly Latest 22 Oct 09 by bodidly	Replies:2 :175	Latest by bodidly 22 Oct 09

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