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Hello Wow. This site is extremely... rich... Glad to have it as a resource. I've been married for 4.5 yrs, together a total of almost 8 years. We have a 5y ... 21 Sep 09, by ololon Latest 21 Sep 09 by ololon	Replies:2 :182	Latest by ololon 21 Sep 09
New life, new start BUT OMG the guilt! I have been married for 24 years - I met my husband on the school bus. I cannot go into the whys and wherefores because it is very very complicated and ... 01 Aug 09, by Lucretia Latest 20 Sep 09 by trimmtrabb 1 2 3 4	Replies:26 :1348	Latest by trimmtrabb 20 Sep 09
Clean break settlement I have a clean break settlement with my ex. I cannot raise the lump sum settlement and my assets have reduced in value significantly since last year when we wer ... 20 Sep 09, by sponsor Latest 20 Sep 09 by sponsor	Replies:4 :252	Latest by sponsor 20 Sep 09
My story... My ex and I decided to move to France 6 years ago with our 4 daughters. Before the move we had never has a marriage problem we've been together 17 years. After ... 19 Sep 09, by Joey Groundbait Latest 19 Sep 09 by YNK000	Replies:1 :347	Latest by YNK000 19 Sep 09
New here!! Hi everyone, I just want to introduce myself. I am going through a separation right now. About 3 months into it.We have been together for 16 years and ... 18 Sep 09, by currean Latest 19 Sep 09 by libra1975 1 2	Replies:9 :473	Latest by libra1975 19 Sep 09
Ah well....! Since encountering the world of cheating partners I've never felt such deep, gut wrenching sadness and despair. Moments later it turns into extreme anger. At ot ... 19 Sep 09, by Polestar Latest 19 Sep 09 by Sun 13	Replies:1 :194	Latest by Sun 13 19 Sep 09
Hi all Hi all, i'm new to the site and have just joined to get the jist of things. My wife and i split up around 5 month ... 18 Sep 09, by latics Latest 18 Sep 09 by dukey	Replies:1 :206	Latest by dukey 18 Sep 09
Hello, I'm new Hi all, well where do I start. I am divorcing my 2nd husband after 6 years of marriage, I have been with him 7 years. We met and got together far too ... 16 Sep 09, by Bigmistake Latest 18 Sep 09 by oncebitten	Replies:1 :282	Latest by oncebitten 18 Sep 09
should I move out? Hi everyone, I am a very miserable 50 year old woman whose marriage has been struggling for the last 3 years. Went to relate 3 times but it didn't work. I hav ... 17 Sep 09, by MooC0w Latest 18 Sep 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :216	Latest by Elle 18 Sep 09
Making fair financial arrangements I am trying to negotiate an equal and fair division of our finances, which has gone ok so far, until we reached the subject of pensions. Is it best to ... 17 Sep 09, by lincan Latest 17 Sep 09 by lincan	Replies:2 :228	Latest by lincan 17 Sep 09
what happens next? my partner is my world and she is so upset that this is all dragging on ... 17 Sep 09, by benny3580 Latest 17 Sep 09 by janeyg	Replies:3 :278	Latest by janeyg 17 Sep 09
never thought Iwould be on wikivorce t I was so happy with my husband for 13 years.He was the nicest person I ever met . He treated me so well...He was kind , ... 15 Sep 09, by Roxie Latest 17 Sep 09 by Roxie 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:41 :1571	Latest by Roxie 17 Sep 09
Co-habitation how do you define co-hab? Been around the houses literally and ... 17 Sep 09, by Tron Latest 17 Sep 09 by dukey	Replies:4 :228	Latest by dukey 17 Sep 09
Recently divorced abroad and broken Hi My name is Stephen and i am 39.I had been married for 6 years to a girl from Vietnam and we have a beautiful 5 year old daughter together.Thom(my no ... 16 Sep 09, by lost it all 1 Latest 16 Sep 09 by goldfish11	Replies:2 :220	Latest by goldfish11 16 Sep 09
Husband refuses to disclose whereabouts Hi, I'm new to this but would appreciate any advice anyone can give me. I went out for lunch with a friend, two months ago and when I came home my husb ... 15 Sep 09, by enajviareggio Latest 16 Sep 09 by janeyg 1 2	Replies:9 :601	Latest by janeyg 16 Sep 09
New here Hi, I'm new to this website. My husband left me in June this year, I am living in the family home with my two daughters aged 6 and 7. We are only communicating ... 14 Sep 09, by libra1975 Latest 16 Sep 09 by libra1975 1 2	Replies:9 :493	Latest by libra1975 16 Sep 09
Telling people When is the right time to start telling people that your spouse has left you! Why do people not understand that it is really hard to even talk about it! The la ... 15 Sep 09, by libra1975 Latest 16 Sep 09 by libra1975 1 2	Replies:10 :588	Latest by libra1975 16 Sep 09
can i be forced out of home by partner hi all,my situation is this i bought my house about 20 years ago on my own.about 8years ago i put my partner on the deeds making her joint owner.we are ... 16 Sep 09, by tannin Latest 16 Sep 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :219	Latest by Fiona 16 Sep 09
Gloria Gaynor He drove by the school today so that he could see the kids and I doing the school run. Papped his horn so we waved. Then texted me to say he went out of his w ... 16 Sep 09, by oldfashioned Latest 16 Sep 09 by Kimmi	Replies:2 :241	Latest by Kimmi 16 Sep 09
I am so Weak We had to meet up again for a school thing for our eldest then he came back round for a chat about money etc. He wanted to explain about the affair and ... 15 Sep 09, by oldfashioned Latest 15 Sep 09 by stimo 1 2	Replies:7 :515	Latest by stimo 15 Sep 09
Didn't see it Its been 6 days now since discovery day and I've found so much strength in reading this forum that I now feel that I can post whats happened to me. We' ... 13 Sep 09, by oldfashioned Latest 15 Sep 09 by Brunswick	Replies:6 :198	Latest by Brunswick 15 Sep 09
My Situation Hello. Here's my situation, would appreciate any advice or comments etc. My wife and I agreed to split just after Christmas and I left the marital hom ... 14 Sep 09, by inspirational Latest 14 Sep 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:1 :240	Latest by dissapointed dad 14 Sep 09
Hi everybody !! Hi all I am hoping this website will help me (already I feel it will). Ive been separated for over three years now but there is no sign of a resolution ... 14 Sep 09, by propunt1 Latest 14 Sep 09 by Elle	Replies:2 :234	Latest by Elle 14 Sep 09
Can't breathe I can't breathe today. Keep thinking back to this time last week that although he'd admitted to having sex once we were trying to rebuild things until I found ... 14 Sep 09, by oldfashioned Latest 14 Sep 09 by mumtoboys	Replies:2 :240	Latest by mumtoboys 14 Sep 09
Where do I stand? Hi this is my first post and really dont know where to start. But I have been withmy partner for 9 years prior to getting married 18 months ago and am totally u ... 13 Sep 09, by sunshinegirl Latest 13 Sep 09 by Elle 1 2	Replies:7 :502	Latest by Elle 13 Sep 09
Let me introdice myself!! Hi, I'm Sue. I have a little girl aged 5, 6 on Wednesday. just dscovered she has a brother 15 days older than her!! I have started divorce proceedings. We will ... 13 Sep 09, by susiella Latest 13 Sep 09 by Lilibet	Replies:4 :241	Latest by Lilibet 13 Sep 09
here's hoping! Hi..separated for 7 months(and 8 days!) after 25 years married, 30 years together. All these things take 2, but finding the other womans texts a year ago finish ... 08 Sep 09, by almostcoping Latest 13 Sep 09 by almostcoping 1 2	Replies:7 :520	Latest by almostcoping 13 Sep 09
Hi, new here... Hi, What a fabulous site this seems. I'm 35 2 kids 5 & 3, in the process of seperating from my husband, but still in same house. Things haven't been good ... 12 Sep 09, by plum3 Latest 12 Sep 09 by plum3 1 2	Replies:10 :546	Latest by plum3 12 Sep 09
Here we go! have just joined wikivorce, as I have just started divorce proceedings against my husband. I just wanted to send my first post, introducing myself and ... 11 Sep 09, by chiquita Latest 12 Sep 09 by chiquita	Replies:5 :209	Latest by chiquita 12 Sep 09
First Post Hi I am a 47 year old Man who's wife left in 2005 for another. I've avoided alcohol and suicide to get to a place where I can be at ease with who I re ... 10 Sep 09, by Paulsx Latest 11 Sep 09 by goldfish11	Replies:2 :242	Latest by goldfish11 11 Sep 09
Introducing myself Hi can anyone offer me any advice I have been seperated for 2 yrs my ex left me . We have a 8 yr old daughter together who sees her father every other wknd and ... 08 Sep 09, by silkykit Latest 10 Sep 09 by Paulsx	Replies:3 :231	Latest by Paulsx 10 Sep 09
Financial settlement i split from my ex husband 2 years ago he wants a divorce on 2 year separation but i dont agree, if i didn't agree on the 2 year separation and i wanted to wait ... 09 Sep 09, by loz7979 Latest 10 Sep 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:4 :268	Latest by hadenoughnow 10 Sep 09
And so it begins Hi All, Latest participant in this wonderful ritual here. stbx started it all off at end of Jan 09 by handing me a letter one night. I went off in ... 09 Sep 09, by ninjawharrier Latest 10 Sep 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :217	Latest by hadenoughnow 10 Sep 09
Hello another one bites the dust Hello All, Another Newbie here. Just a brief outline. I have been going through a divorce now since the papers were served in February 09. It’s ... 06 Sep 09, by Andydog Latest 09 Sep 09 by JackieH	Replies:6 :229	Latest by JackieH 09 Sep 09
Hi All.... Hi all I’m a thirty seven year old man with two beautiful sons, five and six years old and I thought a wonderful wife. It’s been fifteen weeks sinc ... 08 Sep 09, by jamie j Latest 08 Sep 09 by jamie j	Replies:2 :209	Latest by jamie j 08 Sep 09
week 1 I'm 40 years old with 2 children. My son is about to start uni in 4 weeks and my 15 year old daughter is starting GCSE year. My husband of 20 years announced ... 07 Sep 09, by lizzie22 Latest 08 Sep 09 by Brunswick	Replies:6 :258	Latest by Brunswick 08 Sep 09
Hi everyone I'm new to this I'm 44, left my husband end of March..moved to a new area, working 2 jobs, living in rented accommodation, need to sort out our finances but don't know where to ... 06 Sep 09, by beentheredonethat Latest 08 Sep 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:4 :205	Latest by hadenoughnow 08 Sep 09
introducing myself Hey everyone im new to this and thought id say hi! Im 45yrs old and newly seperated from a 25yr marriage! xx ... 07 Sep 09, by pinkstar Latest 08 Sep 09 by goldfish11 1 2	Replies:11 :568	Latest by goldfish11 08 Sep 09
hi hi,my name is al i am 52 years old.separated 4 years 4 months sadly.i live in the marital home with daughter aged 24 and youngest son aged 20,eldest son aged 28 ... 06 Sep 09, by elginrap Latest 07 Sep 09 by penelope666	Replies:4 :208	Latest by penelope666 07 Sep 09
Seperating but living together It is 9 months since I told my wife I was unhappy with the lack of emotion in our marriage. Her response was to say we should split up and then join dating site ... 07 Sep 09, by Zteve Latest 07 Sep 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :241	Latest by NellNoRegrets 07 Sep 09

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