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Hi Every one Just a quick hello, My wife is in the middle of a Mid Life Crissis and started divorce proceedings against me. I am devistated. We have been together 25yrs ... 29 Apr 08, by GeJay Latest 29 Apr 08 by GeJay	Replies:2 :565	Latest by GeJay 29 Apr 08
In need of advice on how to best proceed divorce a Just joined Wikivorce and have spent entire day browsing site. Have told my hopefully s2bx that I am going to divorce him. Have been married 20 years, 3 childre ... 28 Apr 08, by Jewel Latest 29 Apr 08 by bluefairy	Replies:1 :445	Latest by bluefairy 29 Apr 08
New to the forum! Hi all! My name's Sarah- I'm 27 (next month) and after only a year and a half of 'marriage', I am thinking about getting a divorce. Think it m ... 28 Apr 08, by Sarahbinky81 Latest 28 Apr 08 by Shezi	Replies:2 :595	Latest by Shezi 28 Apr 08
Getting rid of ten years of attachment... Getting divorced in Arizona. Once our children all started going to school instead of returning to school herself or getting a job my wife spent lots of time on ... 26 Apr 08, by nunonbreak Latest 28 Apr 08 by marriaa	Replies:4 :676	Latest by marriaa 28 Apr 08
Heartbroken Hi everyone- Just less than 6 weeks ago my husband moved out while I was at work. He says he had been planning it for a week and a half. He had his w ... 26 Apr 08, by inlove Latest 28 Apr 08 by Sera 1 2	Replies:8 :1440	Latest by Sera 28 Apr 08
Scotland or england? Which system to use? Hi, I am just at the beginning of the end! My concern is that I currntly live in Scotland where the rules are different but the marital home is in England. I ca ... 27 Apr 08, by georgie Latest 27 Apr 08 by Fiona	Replies:2 :744	Latest by Fiona 27 Apr 08
Newbie on the loose! Well where do I start? Working mum to 3 children aged 11,7,5 (G,G, 17 Apr 08, by Floosy Latest 27 Apr 08 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:9 :1325	Latest by Shezi 27 Apr 08
newcomer hi everyone, I am divorcing my husband after 6 and a half years. We have 2 children who he has not bothered to contact. I am divorcing him because he was viol ... 27 Apr 08, by kaisums Latest 27 Apr 08 by Shezi	Replies:2 :682	Latest by Shezi 27 Apr 08
Hello Everyone Hi All. I'm a 32 year old male now living in London. Been going through a very messy divorce for the last 13 months. My wife had 2 affairs that I know ... 27 Apr 08, by Techy Latest 27 Apr 08 by Techy	Replies:2 :620	Latest by Techy 27 Apr 08
Another Newbie... Hi all, Just a brief outline (after all, who knows if stbx is lurking around here somewhere.. 27 Apr 08, by Shezi Latest 27 Apr 08 by Shezi	Replies:4 :775	Latest by Shezi 27 Apr 08
Feeling a wee bit of a fake Hi everyone. Thought I would introduce myself. I have been divorced now about a year and a half. I am an expat working in Saudi Arabia. In Feb 2005 I f ... 20 Apr 08, by SaudiDiver Latest 27 Apr 08 by Shezi	Replies:6 :1039	Latest by Shezi 27 Apr 08
7 Deadly Sins I am not religious, just believe in karma. Below are the seven dealy sins in a human context. I realised that my ex wife held 1, 3, 5, 6 and 7. It helped me ... 27 Apr 08, by DIY Divorce Latest 27 Apr 08 by DIY Divorce	Replies:4 :644	Latest by DIY Divorce 27 Apr 08
Hello Hi, I joined this site because I'm currently going through a divorce myself. My struggle is emotional, more than legal. I married abroad and g ... 25 Apr 08, by mikecharlie Latest 26 Apr 08 by marriaa	Replies:2 :608	Latest by marriaa 26 Apr 08
Split up in 1995 Divorced 2 years Later Hi I am now 43 yrs old I split up in September 1995 & got divoreced 2 years later my daughter at the time was 9 yrs old 10 in November of t ... 23 Apr 08, by colin_w Latest 24 Apr 08 by poppy5 1 2	Replies:7 :1084	Latest by poppy5 24 Apr 08
a copy of the petition received I have today received a copy of the petition against me. It cites a lot of untruthfull statements and I would like to contest the divorce. I have no money and ... 22 Apr 08, by upagainstit Latest 23 Apr 08 by upagainstit	Replies:6 :584	Latest by upagainstit 23 Apr 08
help! married in England but divorcing in Scotland Hi all. In a nutshell, I separated from my husband after 20 years together (13.5 living togethr and 6.5 yrs married). We have 2 kids (12 and 13) and he is an al ... 23 Apr 08, by wearyprof Latest 23 Apr 08 by wearyprof	Replies:2 :744	Latest by wearyprof 23 Apr 08
any advice would be great I am going through a divorce and now in the 17th month,it has been a nightmare from the beginning,i petitioned for divorce after being seperated for 2 years.I w ... 22 Apr 08, by louby Latest 22 Apr 08 by louby 1 2	Replies:8 :1113	Latest by louby 22 Apr 08
Introducing myself Hi I have been living with partner for twelve years and we have two children together. He has now left for another woman who is a mother at my childrens sch ... 21 Apr 08, by busy lizzie Latest 22 Apr 08 by rasher	Replies:1 :426	Latest by rasher 22 Apr 08
what to do? Hi all, I've told my husband a few weeks ago that I wanted to separate because of his anger and temper. He was shocked and could not believe that I was ... 21 Apr 08, by nads20 Latest 21 Apr 08 by sandras321	Replies:4 :534	Latest by sandras321 21 Apr 08
I am lost in a game of two crazy people I am a mother of two boys and going through divorce. Me and my soon ex signed papers 3 months ago and we had his cheating tod eal with for the last 3 years. He ... 20 Apr 08, by suzikz Latest 20 Apr 08 by suzikz	Replies:5 :617	Latest by suzikz 20 Apr 08
feedback needed please I've been divorced since March 07 after 12 years of marriage. It came about after us both getting into a rut, poor communication, taking each for granted etc et ... 17 Apr 08, by bregus5 Latest 20 Apr 08 by Sera	Replies:1 :485	Latest by Sera 20 Apr 08
This scares me Wife of 20yrs plus 3 kids told me a couple of weeks ago that she wants a divorce + to keep the children. I feel like i'm on a train speeding to divorceville ... 19 Apr 08, by jon501 Latest 20 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:3 :540	Latest by mike62 20 Apr 08
saying hello Hi there, i only found this site today so am working my way through it, im (hopefully) nearing the end of my divorce and am mom to 3 daughters ages 14, 11 and 6 ... 19 Apr 08, by peppa pig Latest 20 Apr 08 by jon501	Replies:1 :474	Latest by jon501 20 Apr 08
Torn apart by lies Hi my name is Julie and my husband told me on Christmas Day that he no longer loved me. He had been in Afghan for 6 mths from March -Sep and he met another ... 17 Apr 08, by minniecat Latest 19 Apr 08 by minniecat	Replies:4 :743	Latest by minniecat 19 Apr 08
starting divorce Starting going through a divorce. We haves one young son 15 months. I am currently living at our marital home in a seperate room. We rent the house but we also ... 18 Apr 08, by Dakkar Latest 18 Apr 08 by Dakkar	Replies:2 :516	Latest by Dakkar 18 Apr 08
Newbie on line Hi I am new to this site. Just started my divorce after 17 years married but 31 years together. I am 44 with 2 kids in their teens. we are doing ok at the m ... 18 Apr 08, by PIXI Latest 18 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :485	Latest by mike62 18 Apr 08
Hi everyone AGH I could just scream....Right, deep breath! My name is James, from surrey 26yr old. Got married about 4 yr ago and seperated last october. I walked out aft ... 17 Apr 08, by jj1982juk Latest 17 Apr 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :450	Latest by hadenoughnow 17 Apr 08
Newbie I married in 2000. We had a daughter together in 1998. After a succession of affairs, his not mine, we lived quite separate social lives and slept in separate r ... 14 Mar 08, by puddle Latest 17 Apr 08 by puddle	Replies:5 :603	Latest by puddle 17 Apr 08
Advice on consent orders from clean-break.co.uk I've just joined the forum so apologies if this subject is covered elsewhere (if you know where please let me know). Has anybody come across consent or ... 17 Apr 08, by onandup	Replies:0 :442
LIfe turned upside down. Hi - feeling very low and needed an outreach. so hi to all of you reading your words has already helped. Ive been married for just over a year - and i wont ... 17 Apr 08, by tryingtosmile Latest 17 Apr 08 by Stamford69 1 2	Replies:8 :1324	Latest by Stamford69 17 Apr 08
First post - I hope it's not too long! Hello Here is a brief description of my current situation. I have been married for 42 years, at the end of January 2008 my husband told me he wanted t ... 15 Apr 08, by Maybenot Latest 16 Apr 08 by Maybenot 1 2	Replies:10 :1241	Latest by Maybenot 16 Apr 08
scary financial mess Hi there, would firstly like to introduce myself. I have been separated from my husband for 18months and going through a messy divorce. we have 3 children who l ... 15 Apr 08, by briefer Latest 16 Apr 08 by briefer	Replies:4 :580	Latest by briefer 16 Apr 08
In a right mess First i'd like to say hi to the forum. I really dont know where to start here but here goes. I'm currently seperated from my wife, to save a lot of ti ... 15 Apr 08, by ar1 Latest 15 Apr 08 by ar1	Replies:3 :648	Latest by ar1 15 Apr 08
Wonder what happened to the modern Man? Well here I am. For all to read. Mr nice guy, Jack of all trades master of none. No job, a long term illness for my Daughter who I look after. I support ... 14 Apr 08, by Treadin Water Latest 15 Apr 08 by Fiona 1 2	Replies:10 :1621	Latest by Fiona 15 Apr 08
Heartbroken and lonely I never thought I would be in this situation. My husband left me 8 weeks ago after I discovered he had been having an affair. He now lives with her. I have 2 ... 13 Apr 08, by KarenS Latest 15 Apr 08 by jelly4toes 1 2	Replies:12 :1760	Latest by jelly4toes 15 Apr 08
Yet another one bites the dust .... Hi, My wife decided we had no future a month ago and I've just found out that she was having an affair with an ex-boyfriend before we split up. We can't aff ... 15 Apr 08, by supers Latest 15 Apr 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :452	Latest by rubytuesday 15 Apr 08
Hello everyone. Hi all. I haven't posted here before, not sure what to say really.... I've been divorced for 1.5 years after being with my husband since 1987. We re ... 14 Apr 08, by Birdsong Latest 15 Apr 08 by gordee	Replies:6 :489	Latest by gordee 15 Apr 08
separation seems ininevitable Was just thinking about divorce but even within a week separation seems inevitable. 2 gorgeous kids (2+4)who husband barely interracts with- never mind me. ... 07 Apr 08, by fifib Latest 14 Apr 08 by mike62 1 2	Replies:9 :1294	Latest by mike62 14 Apr 08
Decree absolute I am the respondent in the divorce proceedings. My ex and her solicitor took the divorce all the way to the decree nisi and then did nothing. This was in 2006. ... 05 Apr 08, by bobcat Latest 14 Apr 08 by bobcat	Replies:2 :501	Latest by bobcat 14 Apr 08
Help I dont know what to do next My husband is in the Navy, he got back from being away for 3 months and was very cold and indifferent around me, a couple of days later he told me he needed spa ... 13 Apr 08, by sammy1 Latest 13 Apr 08 by sammy1	Replies:3 :508	Latest by sammy1 13 Apr 08

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