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divorce hi im karen i have been separated from my husband nearly five years now can i get a divorce now any quicker . ... 13 Apr 08, by grayzer43 Latest 13 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :437	Latest by mike62 13 Apr 08
Nervous Newbie! Hi, been logging on for couple months & now got courage to say hi to you all - don't know why as u all seem a great bunch. My story is married for 12 yrs &a ... 11 Apr 08, by kaykay Latest 13 Apr 08 by kaykay	Replies:6 :667	Latest by kaykay 13 Apr 08
Fragile and Nervous Hi, just wanted to introduce myself and hope that I don't make a fool of myself! I have been married for only three years and asked my husband to leave ... 09 Apr 08, by tinad Latest 12 Apr 08 by Elle	Replies:5 :622	Latest by Elle 12 Apr 08
hello I guess I just wanted to know if anyone else out there feels as wound up, stressed, depressed and angry as I do! 11 Apr 08, by papillion Latest 12 Apr 08 by papillion	Replies:6 :933	Latest by papillion 12 Apr 08
Intro Hi. As per the forum advice, I thought I'd introduce myself and tell you a little about me. Just a week short of my 29th wedding anniversary I received ... 11 Apr 08, by Jouster Latest 11 Apr 08 by not fine but will be	Replies:5 :479	Latest by not fine but will be 11 Apr 08
HELLO!! Hi! I have been going round in circles for the past 6 years and I really need some help.I am a British Citizen who married abroad when I was 16, out of my o ... 11 Apr 08, by jk2709 Latest 11 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:2 :450	Latest by mike62 11 Apr 08
Hello Hi all Hoping to get some advice on here about what seems an insoluble situation. Of course if I can reciprocate then I will but currently my track rec ... 10 Apr 08, by roseanne Latest 11 Apr 08 by BVG	Replies:2 :532	Latest by BVG 11 Apr 08
How to start the process of moving on Where to start? My story is embarrassing and humiliating but I tell it in the hope that others may learn. I have been married for 5 years to a Ukranian ... 08 Apr 08, by Max42 Latest 11 Apr 08 by Max42	Replies:4 :614	Latest by Max42 11 Apr 08
My very own soap opera Hello, this is my first time of posting although I have been looking at this board over the past few weeks and getting strength from reading other people's post ... 11 Apr 08, by Delores	Replies:0 :438
I just want to die,Mylife seems over I am 45 life seems over,wife said we grew apart and I know we did,However the simple safe life I once had has ended, Feel like dieing,cant eat sleep is hard ... 17 Mar 08, by mike5555 Latest 11 Apr 08 by Elizabeth 1 2 3 4	Replies:25 :3731	Latest by Elizabeth 11 Apr 08
How to proceed after so long apart I have been apart from my wife for well over ten years. We were married in the UK but she now resides in the USA. I know that she has re-married bigamously (no ... 10 Apr 08, by brittwall Latest 10 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :497	Latest by mike62 10 Apr 08
changes............. I am currently in a situation where my wife and I have simply grown apart.We have no children yet,thankfully,and a mortgage - which I pay along with all the bil ... 10 Apr 08, by vodanok Latest 10 Apr 08 by BVG	Replies:3 :514	Latest by BVG 10 Apr 08
Any thoughts of what I should do?? My wife wants to keep the house (£155K), equity (£95K), half my pension £15K She wants me to keep paying the endowment £110 per month, and give her £80 ... 01 Apr 08, by Not here now Latest 10 Apr 08 by Not here now	Replies:6 :595	Latest by Not here now 10 Apr 08
Separation's on its way and looks bad. Hi all. New member. I joined the other day as my soon to be separation draws ever closer. Having read a number of posts, I think I am in the a ... 09 Apr 08, by fatherofthree Latest 10 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :648	Latest by mike62 10 Apr 08
The search is over... Hi all, I'm Paul. It's good to talk. Just started to get divorced, where do I start? I am having problems with contact for my son, the agreed arrangements seem ... 09 Apr 08, by kkpaul Latest 09 Apr 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:2 :492	Latest by rubytuesday 09 Apr 08
what is best to stay or leave Hi all I have just found this site and would like some advice I feel my wife is seeing someone else, is it better to find out or just move on, she will not ... 06 Apr 08, by lostinemotion Latest 07 Apr 08 by lostinemotion 1 2	Replies:8 :1342	Latest by lostinemotion 07 Apr 08
There's a life out there for me Hi, I joined this site today. My wife of 18 years has decided an alternative lifestyle makes her happier than being a conventional wife to me. I in ... 04 Apr 08, by inreach Latest 07 Apr 08 by Vion 1 2	Replies:7 :1262	Latest by Vion 07 Apr 08
Where to start? My husband left me this week, though we are still living together for the time being. I'm not sure what to do next. I don't work. He's self employed. We hav ... 07 Apr 08, by redflowergirl Latest 07 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :549	Latest by mike62 07 Apr 08
Indemnity Hope someone can help,as my solicitor is next to useless in giving me advice - My soon to be ex wife's solicitor is drafting a Consent Order for our split and i ... 02 Apr 08, by Rolyboy Latest 07 Apr 08 by Rolyboy	Replies:2 :577	Latest by Rolyboy 07 Apr 08
I don't want this Hi everyone. Thanks for reading this. My name's Rob (37) and i met sarah (32) in Jan 2000 and married her in Dec 2001. We are lucky enough to have two beau ... 07 Apr 08, by robbie37 Latest 07 Apr 08 by robbie37	Replies:2 :498	Latest by robbie37 07 Apr 08
Hi everyone! I am here because I need help in settling a massive problem with my future divorce. I was married abroad and have a boy who is nearly 6, he lives in Bulgaria. I ... 06 Apr 08, by eddy234 Latest 07 Apr 08 by downbutnotout	Replies:1 :447	Latest by downbutnotout 07 Apr 08
Anyone's view if they think the below is a fair? This is what I think is fair to my wife, what do you guys think?? House worth £160,000 Equity £100,000 Starting point of 50 – 50 split ... 06 Apr 08, by Not here now Latest 06 Apr 08 by Fiona	Replies:4 :636	Latest by Fiona 06 Apr 08
About to get divorced and very scared Hi, I have just found out that my husband of 23yrs has not loved me for 18 of those years and wanted to leave me 18 years ago when I was pregnant with our first ... 06 Apr 08, by sexysue Latest 06 Apr 08 by sexysadie	Replies:1 :457	Latest by sexysadie 06 Apr 08
I'm scared Hi... not been here before. I'm a 37 year old stay-at-home-Mum with a nearly-one-year-old son and a 13-year-old stepson. My husband has told me he's n ... 05 Apr 08, by AliceF Latest 06 Apr 08 by IKNOWNOW	Replies:4 :598	Latest by IKNOWNOW 06 Apr 08
New, worried, stressed and needing friends Hi, I have recenly divorced my wife. I cam home from work one Friday to discover that she had gotten her parents to help her move stuff out of the hmarital ... 06 Apr 08, by penfold Latest 06 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :466	Latest by mike62 06 Apr 08
need a friendly ear hi my situation is very unusual, ive been separated 8 years and still not divorced or had any settlement, the reason being we still work together in a business ... 05 Apr 08, by ald9 Latest 05 Apr 08 by bluefairy	Replies:4 :580	Latest by bluefairy 05 Apr 08
Hi another one for the stats! Hi, Yep, I'm another one for the stats. I was with my wife from 1991 but married after 12 years together, had bought a flat together and though the ... 05 Apr 08, by Andrewakaroo Latest 05 Apr 08 by anotherone	Replies:1 :490	Latest by anotherone 05 Apr 08
can't believe it has happened I guess I am like many on this website. I never thought what has happened would have done but I am where I am. Basically, after 15 yrs together, 11 married, nic ... 31 Mar 08, by duped Latest 05 Apr 08 by duped	Replies:6 :623	Latest by duped 05 Apr 08
Moving on What a great site this is, and nice to know that you are not alone. My husband left nearly three years ago after 27 years, to live with another woman. I got the ... 10 Mar 08, by Rosalie Latest 05 Apr 08 by Rosalie	Replies:4 :560	Latest by Rosalie 05 Apr 08
What Happens Now? Some of you may recall my previous posts, briefly my X2B has drafted a Petition (UB) which I have seen and through my solicitor have indicated that I do not int ... 01 Apr 08, by Gingerkitty Latest 05 Apr 08 by dukey	Replies:2 :549	Latest by dukey 05 Apr 08
Problems during the divorce Hi all Currently still living together in FMH and am waiting to receive my nissi from my beloved wife. Current financial situation was agreed verbally ... 31 Mar 08, by KAP Latest 05 Apr 08 by downbutnotout	Replies:1 :494	Latest by downbutnotout 05 Apr 08
feeling so lonely hi everyone, I am new on here. I am 47 and I was married for 28 years when my husband told me he was no longer in love with me and he had feelings for a woman h ... 04 Apr 08, by gilly_p Latest 04 Apr 08 by MazzB	Replies:3 :607	Latest by MazzB 04 Apr 08
Chat Room, evening of the 30/03/08 I feel that I have to write a post to clear a few things up about something that happened in the chat room on Sunday evening around 10pm. People that w ... 04 Apr 08, by IKNOWNOW Latest 04 Apr 08 by TMax	Replies:2 :503	Latest by TMax 04 Apr 08
Please help me I would like some advice/help/wisdom from anyone who has any knowledge that could help me in my circumstances. I divorced my wife because she joined a ... 17 Mar 08, by Pinewood Latest 04 Apr 08 by jelly4toes	Replies:5 :682	Latest by jelly4toes 04 Apr 08
Joining the club Hi everyone What can I say, I suspect my story is not disimilar to alot of the stories here, but here we go. After 7 years we have decided to ... 05 Mar 08, by downAndOutInParisLondon Latest 03 Apr 08 by rubytuesday 1 2	Replies:11 :1795	Latest by rubytuesday 03 Apr 08
hello and some questions Hi all I left my wife 4 months ago for another woman. Think what you wish, I have NO regrets! How can I move things on divorce wise? Initi ... 02 Apr 08, by franky772 Latest 02 Apr 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :687	Latest by mike62 02 Apr 08
About me..Hi folks Hi All My name is Michael. Im a divorced father of 3 children. ... 02 Apr 08, by evolved master Latest 02 Apr 08 by evolved master	Replies:2 :591	Latest by evolved master 02 Apr 08
Advice - proposed Petition for divorce received I am trying to do what I can to support my neighbour through her marriage breakdown. Basically she thought she had a good marriage. Her husband appeare ... 01 Apr 08, by Helpingafriend Latest 02 Apr 08 by Helpingafriend 1 2	Replies:10 :1318	Latest by Helpingafriend 02 Apr 08
Confused Hi all ever felt so mixed up you cant make a decision good or bad thats how i feel at the moment. Those of you who have chatted to ... 01 Apr 08, by gorgeous Latest 01 Apr 08 by Donnylass	Replies:3 :510	Latest by Donnylass 01 Apr 08
When will my life get back on track? Hi everyone - just registered today and any advice would be great! Decided to leave my wife and mother of our two great kids last March. We just drift ... 01 Apr 08, by newstart Latest 01 Apr 08 by marriaa	Replies:3 :477	Latest by marriaa 01 Apr 08

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