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DIY Divorce 832 topics

Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?
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Decree Absolute
Can someone please help.

I am a Petitioner I am at the final stage (Decree Nisi passed its timesecales) and need to issue a Decree Absolute, I have a s ...
24 Oct 12, by hellobee
Latest 24 Oct 12 by dukey
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Latest by dukey
24 Oct 12
Filing for divorce
my ex and i got married abroad 2 years ago but before the wedding i told her that i no longer wanted to be with her and she managed to persuade me to go through ...
14 Oct 12, by welshfish
Latest 14 Oct 12 by dukey
Replies:2
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Latest by dukey
14 Oct 12
D11 Dismissing Petition
Hi,
I have just been informed that I need to dismiss my previous Divorce Petition.

The story is: 6 years ago I have petitioned for divorce on the g ...
29 Sep 12, by Dima
Latest 03 Oct 12 by dukey
Replies:9
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Latest by dukey
03 Oct 12
Need to correct a mistake made on forms
Hello

I am currently the Petitioner in a DIY divorce application in England. I was at the stage of applying for the decree Nisi and sent in my statemen ...
28 Sep 12, by nzdivorcee
Latest 28 Sep 12 by Serendipity100
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Latest by Serendipity100
28 Sep 12
Photocopy of TR1 form
I am currently transferring a piece of land into my sole name as part of my divorce settlement. I am doing this without a solicitor to save costs. My ex husband ...
23 Sep 12, by Easteregg
Latest 25 Sep 12 by Easteregg
Replies:5
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Latest by Easteregg
25 Sep 12
In limbo - waiting on their Directions
I sent off the Acknowledgement to the STBX''s cross-petition in early August.

One month later and the court can do nothing but wait for them to submit ...
05 Sep 12, by SilverFir
Latest 19 Sep 12 by SilverFir
Replies:5
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Latest by SilverFir
19 Sep 12
Sealing consent order
Hi'' I''m new to the site. I''ve done my own divorce through mediation. I had a consent order approved at court on 22nd august, the judge said it was all done a ...
14 Sep 12, by LeeB
Latest 15 Sep 12 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
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Latest by LittleMrMike
15 Sep 12
D80b question 6
Hi I am filling in the D80b form, for question 5 "is the respondent''s behaviour as set out in your Petition continuing?" i have answered yes, ...
13 Sep 12, by MI2988
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Statement for arrangements for children
On the form in section 15 there are 2 boxes where they ask:)Has 1) A maintenance calculation been made under the CSA,or an pplication has been made but it has n ...
07 Sep 12, by retep69
Latest 07 Sep 12 by MI2988
Replies:4
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Latest by MI2988
07 Sep 12
What other costs to allow for beyond petition?
So far I have paid a solicitor £514 to draft a consent order,based on mine and stbx mutual agreement and of course will be paying £340 to submit my D8 Petitio ...
07 Sep 12, by retep69
Latest 07 Sep 12 by retep69
Replies:4
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07 Sep 12
Help with D8 part 10
I am filling in my D8 and in part 10 section 3 under financial order I have ticked all the boxes in part (a).

In part (b) for children, there are tick ...
07 Sep 12, by retep69
Latest 07 Sep 12 by dukey
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07 Sep 12
When to submit consent order?
I`m n the final throes of filling in my form D8 pettion and statement of arrangements for children.

A solictor has drawn up a consent order draft for m ...
07 Sep 12, by retep69
Replies:0
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What to write for unreasonable behaviour?
Hi, in terms of that I am wishing to carry out the divorce under “Unreasonable Behaviour” as this is the only category that we can fall in to, I was wonderi ...
06 Sep 12, by MI2988
Latest 06 Sep 12 by dukey
Replies:5
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Latest by dukey
06 Sep 12
i dont agree to certificatio of decree of divorce
i have face domestic abuse for two year in marriage . my ex got arrested a year back and was given injunction orders. he is a doctor and he had money to apply f ...
03 Sep 12, by befree2013
Latest 03 Sep 12 by befree2013
Replies:3
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Latest by befree2013
03 Sep 12
Need help with D8 and D8A
Having received advice on the wording of the grounds for divorce on this generous site, I am filling out the forms to Petition for divorce. I have a few questio ...
08 Aug 12, by DGD
Latest 03 Sep 12 by DGD
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Latest by DGD
03 Sep 12
Help with D80B please
With help from answers to older posts, I answered questions 1-9. Hopefully, it will do.

I am not sure as to the remainder of the form.

1.a. Do ...
27 Aug 12, by DGD
Latest 29 Aug 12 by dukey
Replies:5
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Latest by dukey
29 Aug 12
Transfer of property
Please can someone advise me: The consent order has been signed by the judge and I have agreed to transfer the mh into his sole name and he will transfer a piec ...
28 Aug 12, by Easteregg
Latest 29 Aug 12 by Easteregg
Replies:3
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29 Aug 12
Help with wording for statement of case - 2 years
Hi,

I''m getting a little bit confused over the wording I should be using in the D8 for statement of case section - in a 2 years uncontested separation ...
23 Aug 12, by raggydoll
Latest 28 Aug 12 by raggydoll
Replies:2
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Latest by raggydoll
28 Aug 12
How i need to be?
Married from 26th March 2011 to English man. Married in Russia, marriage is legalized.

Before leaving to husband to England, I had sold the property, ...
19 Aug 12, by Tati
Latest 25 Aug 12 by Tati
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Latest by Tati
25 Aug 12
Form D11
Ex has not sent acknowledgement back but has written to me stating he has received divorce Petition and signed the letter. The court has told me that if I send ...
07 Nov 11, by cricket1
Latest 22 Aug 12 by MrsMathsisfun
Replies:5
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Latest by MrsMathsisfun
22 Aug 12
DIY or Online divorce
Hello :)
I''m looking to arrange a divorce as cost effectively as pos ...
21 Aug 12, by CharlieBlue32
Latest 21 Aug 12 by dukey
Replies:3
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Latest by dukey
21 Aug 12
Need Help to get started!
Hi, im from California and got married to a British Citizen in California. We''ve decided to get divorced, but I have no idea where to start. Can I file for div ...
20 Aug 12, by AshleyEE
Latest 20 Aug 12 by Fiona
Replies:2
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Latest by Fiona
20 Aug 12
Changing reason for divorce and lengthy break...
Hi,

My first post on here and I would welcome any advice on the situation below:

My wife and I separated and to speed the divorce process, agr ...
09 Aug 12, by wboar
Latest 10 Aug 12 by wboar
Replies:4
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Latest by wboar
10 Aug 12
Divorce court fees
Hi everyone would anyone know that when your divorce gets to stage 4 paying court fees and u dont have the £340 upfront can u pay in installments? any help wou ...
15 Jul 12, by mattdack
Latest 02 Aug 12 by largestherb
Replies:8
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Latest by largestherb
02 Aug 12
Wife''s note
Although I am representing myself I have taken legal advice and my solicitor says I need to hand "The Wife''s note" to judge at my first heari ...
30 Jul 12, by bridle
Latest 31 Jul 12 by bridle
Replies:2
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Latest by bridle
31 Jul 12
Replies:1
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Latest by LittleMrMike
30 Jul 12
Form E
Hi I am helping my boyfriend deal with the financial side of his divorce. He is doing it himself as he cannot afford a solicitor. His ex has a solicitor and ...
22 Jul 12, by jamdan123
Latest 22 Jul 12 by jamdan123
Replies:11
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Latest by jamdan123
22 Jul 12
Demanding information from solicitor
Hi

My wife and / or her solicitor have obtained confidential information from a source unknown to me. They are using this in correspondence to extract ...
20 Jul 12, by k2k2
Latest 22 Jul 12 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
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Latest by hadenoughnow
22 Jul 12
Confidential information?
Hi

I had agreed to a settlement proposal from my stbx''s solicitor and had taken steps towards meeting their requirements.

I just received a ...
19 Jul 12, by k2k2
Latest 19 Jul 12 by k2k2
Replies:2
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Latest by k2k2
19 Jul 12
Pension sharing SERPS / S2P
Can anyone tell me if Form P1 has to be completed in order to share SERPS/S2P?

I have completed form P1 for other pensions to be shared, and wondered i ...
11 Jul 12, by frozenman77
Latest 14 Jul 12 by pegasus16
Replies:1
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Latest by pegasus16
14 Jul 12
Out of court settlements
I''m negotiating a settlement with my ex and close to finalising. Should i worry that the Judge might interfere with the settlement or is their role simply a ru ...
05 Jul 12, by ian54
Latest 05 Jul 12 by julie321
Replies:2
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Latest by julie321
05 Jul 12
What happens if i dont complete Section 3 on D8
Hi All

My x and I are self repping amicably, i am acting as Petitioner and we will be looking to arrange financials via a consent order to which we hav ...
27 Jun 12, by unsureineed
Latest 27 Jun 12 by dukey
Replies:2
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Latest by dukey
27 Jun 12
diy
am a full time student and work only 20hrs a week how do l get the best out of my divorce she earns £34000 i earn 15000 gross we have four children together 20 ...
16 Jun 12, by delta123
Latest 17 Jun 12 by hadenoughnow
Replies:9
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Latest by hadenoughnow
17 Jun 12
D36/D11 - How do I apply for a Decree Absolute?
Hi

Hope someone out there can help or offer some advice :)
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15 Jun 12, by PatienceofaSaint
Latest 17 Jun 12 by PatienceofaSaint
Replies:2
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Latest by PatienceofaSaint
17 Jun 12
Affidavit
Hi, I need to get my affidavit sworn (DIY divorce so no solicitors), do I have to make an appt at the court for the court officer to witness this does anyone kn ...
15 Jun 12, by sammie68
Latest 15 Jun 12 by dukey
Replies:5
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Latest by dukey
15 Jun 12
Process Serving - did I do it right?
STBX hasn''t responded to my Petition for divorce, so I phoned my court and was told to follow the instructions on their acknowledgement regarding applying to t ...
09 Jun 12, by SilverFir
Latest 11 Jun 12 by SilverFir
Replies:3
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Latest by SilverFir
11 Jun 12
Forcing a settlement
My partner and I met after her husband of 8 years (they had been together for 15) was caught having an affair with a woman 15 years his junior. They had met in ...
09 Jun 12, by patientlywaiting
Latest 09 Jun 12 by patientlywaiting
Replies:2
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Latest by patientlywaiting
09 Jun 12
No response to D8 - can I claim costs for serving?
It''s been a week already since I received back my copy of the D8 Petition with a court reference number, and the court said that they''d sent out the responden ...
28 May 12, by SilverFir
Latest 08 Jun 12 by SilverFir
Replies:5
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Latest by SilverFir
08 Jun 12
Advice on divorce deemed to be served
I have served a Divorce Petition to my respondent, we have been separated 5 years, but has refused to sign the documents. On my receipt from the court it gave m ...
07 Jun 12, by tuk367
Latest 07 Jun 12 by .Charles
Replies:5
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Latest by .Charles
07 Jun 12
avoiding expensive lawyers
Hi I separated from my wife over 2 years ago. We have a signed separation agreement in place (drawn up by solicitors)following mediation,and now want to final ...
11 Jun 11, by robg
Latest 30 May 12 by robg
Replies:6
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Latest by robg
30 May 12

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